trust your husband

Some mistakes often leave a blotch on your entire life. It must be that the girl was too hot and he could not resist it and it was too late to realize the mistake. But sometimes you cannot do much rather than just regret about it. It is obvious that the trust won't come back in a day or two. It will surely take some time to return. Just give it some time and everything will be normal soon.

I can speak from experience my friend that it is the worse feeling ever to be cheated on. No matter how much we want to get the relationship back to how it was unfortunately for me it would not work this way. As trust for me is very sacred and once tainted it is difficult to gain one hundred percent back. It has happened to me not once but several times and can say that I will never tolerate it after the first time again. It made me feel as if I were less of a woman and no one should ever make anyone feel this way. You lady friend needs someone to talk to simply to listen and allow her to release her anger with tears. This is a very difficult situation to be in and unless anyone has gone through it they truly will not understand it. Tell your friend to pray for strength and allow her self to get stronger emotionally.

I think one cannot end any relationship so easily..first your friend has to see that how her husband is treating her I mean if he really loves her and faithfull towards her then she has to give him another chance..but if her husband is cheating her also then there is no need to continue the relationship with him...

better, your friends do not need to be told. Some day, your friend will know by itself. Because of this, problems related to household your friends. Perhaps, your friend, do not want anyone interfering problem household. This is a sensitive matter, so as a friend you must be careful.

hello emine, When we trust someone with all our heart and found out they've cheated on us,i am sure it won't never be the same. I can understand about your friend's feelings as i'm done with it. I also trusted my husband before,without any suspicions (i am not a jealous type and i don't jump into suspicions easily) so,the moment i find that he cheated on me,it was never the same,and it really weakens the relationship. Support your friend and listen to her,she needs someone to talk with during this time,it will be a great help that she have someone to burst out what she feels. have a great day always

Yes, truly, getting cheated by one's spouse is what I would call the ultimate betrayal. It will take her a long time to trust her husband again if she still loves him and it will take him a long time to gain back the trust of his wife. But something has indeed been broken and their relationship will never be the same but if she still loves him and he still loves her and want to stay together still, it's not the end of the relationship. It will just take time. Time heals everything.

Hello emine, The best thing that I could think of right now is to tell your friend to love herself more than she could love her husband. That's a good start for her.Go out, shop for a new cloths.. visit the beauty parlor, have her redo everything and have a change of looks. Make herself look so much better. Ignore her husband, make him feel that life will go on for her even if her husband cheated. Just make her husband feel that what he did cannot be ignored and that he can live with out him. The most important is she will never let her husband affect her self esteem. She is still the best friend, mother or daughter to those who love her. Good luck and your friend needs you at a times like this. My husband cheated on me too but I just think that it was him who's at a loss and not me. Well, I thank the other woman for making my life so much easier...