S...x as proof of love

Hello sammy! Well, there is a saying: when the s...x is good, it represents 10% of a relationship, and when it's not good, it's 90%. In our society today making s...x it's not considered so difficult to accept. People consider it a part of a normal relationship. Many will even say that it's a form of affection, and name it "making love". Some would probably think that if one of the partners refuses to go all the way, given all the means of protection available, this is a lack of affection, the reason seeming very strange in a world where in every corner we see a naked body, every magazine, commercial or movie has something to remind us of our intimate relations. So, it's a matter of personal choice and communication between the two partners, but everyone should expect and accept the consequences of his/her choice.

Ok s3x play a big part in relationship but it doesnt mean that its the only way to prove your love! if the girl doesnt wanna do it yet it doesnt mean she dont love you... as for the guys maybe they just have to wait till shes ready..and never force the girl... it has to be romantic with lot of appreciation...

A pleasant day to you Sammy14, With regard to your topic discussion, for me, that action or behavior is not a good basis or proof that you love your partner. Hence, you can show and express that you love your partner (your girlfriend or boyfriend) in many other ways. Such as giving him/her your attention, your faithfulness as a partner as well as your committment to your relationship.

No, only those with wrong perspective of Love think this way. If you love someone, you don't need proofs to prove it. Love is given freely, in it's own unique ways. If a boy ask for proof I think he's insecure. Relationship is based on two agreeing adults, and respect is the key for it to last long!

Ok, let's we talk about love and having s..x with boyfriend or partner. These two different kinds. Having s..x doesn't mean it is a proof of love. If you love someone with true love, you can prove your love with respect each other, trust him and vise versa. If your guy ask you to do that, and you say no. You can see how deep he love you. If your guy still force you to do that, he doesn't respect you at all. It's all his passion to do that not because he loves you. Think again.

Prove of love is every day's care for the person you love. With little things people can show their love and having s3x would be something like big thing. Some guys may ask girls to have intimate relations because that just need that, they have a big wish to have s3x. I guess much bigger than girls have. Some may be using their girlfriend, just wanting to have s3x and then find some other, but some may be truly in love with their girl and just wish to have that kind of relations also. At some point it becomes normal to have s3x, when the relationship is strong and won't make that couple fall apart, by just having s3x and stop building honest relation. Sometimes it happens after marriage, sometimes before, but it's important to be with the right person.

I dont believe it should be based on s..x i think its part of showing love when you relationship is serious

This is very hard to answer as mostly everyone wants s-x in their relationship.I guess when you are younger its not so well thoght out when we are young we can have it at the drop of a hat. When we get older we dont expect it so much. Its very hard as both your views are correct it would be much better if both people wanted the same outcome