should i let him go?

Nigeria
February 7, 2011 9:29am CST
my name is doyin,am a student,i have been in a relationship for the past two years with a guy called dave.......i love dave so much ....at last 3 months,he told me he needed some money,though i was broke then,but i wanted to help dave out...so i had to sell my car so that i can raise money to give him......i did all bcos of love ,now last month,i caught dave with another woman,he is cheating on me........pls people advice me,should i continue the relationship with dave..pls i need ur advice........
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10 responses
@dainy1313 (2370)
• Leon, Mexico
9 Feb 11
Sure Mayten30 you must think it twice. Sometimes we need love, or at least to feel that we are loved. So this guy isnĀ“t a good person for you. Love is to share. And as we are women we are to be cared, and pampered. Run away from him, unleast it would be to late. My mother rested with my father until he cheated her. After 29 of marriage, we discovered him an affair, and a hidden baby of 3 years, with a woman 2 years younger than me. Run! You are on time! Look for a real true love! Blessings... Dainy
@piya84 (2580)
• India
8 Feb 11
I am so sorry for you.This must be heartbreaking experience for you.I do not think so you need to continue relationship with this man.Looks like he is using you.
• Philippines
8 Feb 11
hello mayten! sometimes, love can make us do things which we know are not really good or advisable to do, but still we go on all because in the name of love. It might break your heart but if you won't let him go, he will definitely trample and crush your heart and will even break your spirit. Better leave him...FAST.. before he will have the chance of breaking you. He doesn't love you. Obviously, he's just using you for his own selfish motives. Don't regret leaving him. You deserve a much better man and you will find the right man for you or rather He will find you, just wait for him.
@kukueye (1759)
• Malaysia
8 Feb 11
A real man that is concern about your WILL NOT take your money just like tat.They will find other ways to raise funds and such.HEnce it is better for your to leave this guy because how he can take care of u in the future. Better take a man that is able to support and take of u . Finiancial stability is important in relationship.Don be supergirlwomen to take care yourself family and him.Suppose to share burden and not add burden to your life.
• Medan, Indonesia
8 Feb 11
First of all, I am sorry to you to hear sad story of you, but this is not the end of world, don't even think about it or cross your mind. Life is not that's short. Eventhough you love him very much, I think he's not a good guy for you. A relationship must respect each other and trust is important here, I think. you can not call it's a relationship, if your partner cheated. Let him go and you forget him, find another guy who you can trust and respect you. But you have to give some times for you and your guy to clear the problem, find the true between your guy and the woman. Don't let your angry control you without knowing the true. If it's true, let him go.
• Philippines
8 Feb 11
He is not worth your love to begin with.Let go of him and start a new life, don't waste your money, time and emotion with this guy.... and by the way, before you let him go, take back the money you gave him....
@beamer88 (4259)
• Philippines
7 Feb 11
Yes, the best and wisest thing to do is to end the relationship no matter how much you love him. Forgive me for being blunt but I think this Dave is just using you. He borrows money and then cheats on you? What kind of a guy is that? Let him go for your sake, but also find a way to get your money back.
@Cherryd41 (1119)
• United States
7 Feb 11
Hi May You actually sold your car to give money to this man? Really????????? There is no way I would sell my car to give anyone money especially not a boyfriend he would at least have to be my husband and we would have to be struggling financially together not seperately ... You gotta kick this guy to the curb Mayten... I mean kick him across the street if you have to its to bad you can't get your money back (hopefully you are able to replace your car ) Time for you to exit this relationship it seems to be one sided theres just not that much love in the world to drive you to do something like that again ..... is it???
• India
8 Feb 11
hi friend... let first talk to dave, about you saw him with a girl. let conform what relationship is between them..then only you able to decide anything... if that relation is just a friend,pls dont hate him... or if they are luvers, you must forget him, dont do any stupid things with his memories... you may find a suitable pair to you. all the best
7 Feb 11
I hate that types of humans...Run from him and find another guy who will love u and respect you...If he cheated you one time be sure he will do same thing in future! Greethings from South East Europe!