i want to have a children
By jhazhy
@jhazhy (18)
Philippines
February 8, 2011 10:46am CST
hello people, I've been in a relationship for five years now, we are living together without marriage. Our parents both know our relationship. We have plan to get married but not this year. In 5 years living together, we both want to have baby but unfortunately we are having a hard time for it. We' tried so many times, we both see a doctor and we are both okay. I don't know when will it come. I am so excited to get pregnant but maybe god has a plan for us. Maybe this is not the right time, maybe god is planning the best for us. I am still hoping. I always ask my partner all the possibilities that will happen to us. Sometimes I feel envy for those couples walking at the street with their babies, with their children. I can't ease that feeling. Sometimes I am talking to myself, how do I look when I get pregnant,. When we are at the mall, we always drop by in baby's area, just checking some stuffs.
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@pastigger (612)
• United States
25 Feb 11
The best thing you can do is to stop trying! Sometimes we get so fixed on something happening that we stress our selves about it. My husband and I tried for over two and a half years. I had really given up hope and decided that it would not happen. I have PCOS and was on medication to help. I was doing the whole bit of taking my temp which never worked for me. I had just stated to use ovulation kits and tried them for the whole month and nothing I was so disappoint I made my piece that it just wasn't the time and that we could start trying again after the first of the year. Well guess what you don't ovulate if you are already pregnant. I was shocked we were like scared teenagers or something it was kind of funny we had been trying this whole time but it still took us by suprise. I was 28 when my daughter was born and we had been married for 9 years by then. It will happen when it is time and if you are both fine then just try and have some fun take some of the pressure away and it will happen.
@jhazhy (18)
• Philippines
25 Jun 11
Hi,thanks for your advice. that's right, in god's time,I take medication too in few months but still not working. I've been depressed and disappointed. Sometimes, when I watch movie and there's a baby I feel pity with myself. Sometimes I can't stop the tears from falling. Now I am so envy with my office mate. She has a PCOS too. Few weeks after their marriage,they was surprise because when she got a pregnancy test , the result is positive. But, their OB said that her pregnancy has a complication. When she examined, there's a womb but no baby found.She felt depressed and worried. As per advise by her OB,they have to be back after 2 weeks again for re-examination and they need prayers. After two weeks, the result is positive and there's a baby in her womb but she needs a full bed rest for a month. Now I realized that baby will come in god's time.
@bobskeyboardz (9)
• United States
8 Feb 11
Many people live together for many years and do not get married. Some of them have children and some do not. As long as you love each other marriage should not mattter.
@sam3m1 (190)
• United States
17 Feb 11
you might be interested in an article i wrote on the subject. please keep in mind that the purpose of the article is humor, but it's still worth a read. pick it out of the other pieces listed at http:hubpages.com/profile/sam3m
