Honey... Where did you get all that money?
By Graceekwenx
@Graceekwenx (3160)
Philippines
February 8, 2011 6:31pm CST
Hmm.. Let's say that you are a common law housewife and married to someone in politics. You do know that his salary is around Php30,000.00. But then, after 2 years, he gets to buy expensive cars. Hmm, he must be getting good bonuses. After cars, he gets to buy new house and lots! Wives, wont you get suspicious of this hmmm... plentiful money? You hired a private investigator to stalk on your husband and have realized that woah! my husband is into drug trafficking!
My questions are: Would you dare confronting your husband and ask him, "honey, where did you get all that money?" Second. If the allegations that he has been working on some dark stuff are true, would you live separately from him? Would you rather live YOUR life without your hubby or just play along with it as if you dont know... Anyway, you are not the one into drug trafficking, he is.
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7 responses
@mcatasthrope (46)
• Indonesia
10 Feb 11
EVIL, your job is for destroyed the future of youth people
if i were you i must said that his job is totally wrong and ask him to quit from that job
@rrowenaa (834)
• Philippines
9 Feb 11
hello! if that's the case, i would question my husband. oh honey, i didnt know you're a magician? just kidding. this is a very serious matter i know, if problem occurs, for sure i will be dragged into it also. so i would just beg him to stop any "mysterious" things he is doing for the sake of our family.
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
9 Feb 11
Really politician or not if my hubby, if I had one was suspicious of such and I find it to be true I would not stick around as there is no good that comes from malice and my life to me would be worth more then the implications that arise from that.
@kaycharmedMD (381)
• Philippines
9 Feb 11
GIven my ill temper regarding politics and corruption nowadays, I'd say it's goodbye honey! I mean seriously, yes, lots of extra money is good, because let's face it, who doesn't need the extra money right? But then if it's from some illegal stuff like dug trafficking, no way. My parents and my teachers taught me better than that! I would confront him if the case is like that. If he admits to what he's doing illegally, I would appreciate the honesty but that doesn't mean I would stay with him. For richer or poorer, yes this is what the church asked. But not to the extent of doing something illegal that could eventually hurt him or us. Im sorry but I married him with his mere salary of PHP 30,000. It means I dont care about the extra luxury of life.
@staria (2780)
• Philippines
9 Feb 11
It's still best to give him the benefit of the doubt and to convince him to tell you the truth. Give him the assurance that you are there to listen and understand whatever he wants to tell you. Now, if the issue is really confirmed, persuade him to stop his dirty business and tell him that he needs to think for your family and your future. What's the good of money if he does not have you or if he got caught and has to rot in jail?
@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
9 Feb 11
If my husband can already afford spending that much even if his salary can't be that much then I think it is my responsibility to question him where is he getting all the extra money and should I discover that the money is coming from corruption or illegal deals I would do all I could to stop him. I can't just sit and enjoy the luxury without knowing where all the money are coming from and can't enjoy either if I know the money comes from bad sources. I would rather just live a simple life with integrity rather than a life of luxury without integrity. I always believe that it is better to be a poor man whose walks in honesty and righteousness than being a rich man whose ways are perverse. Sadly many people are overcame by so much love for money which bring them into evil doings and this later becomes their own destruction. As I've read in one passage of the Bible "People who want to get rich fall into temptation and a trap and into many foolish and harmful desires that plunge men into ruin and destruction. For the love of money is a root of all kinds of evil. Some people, eager for money, have wandered from the faith and pierced themselves with many griefs."
One song says "Honesty is such a lonely word..." This is true especially when it comes to money.