Broken heart

Some experts suggest some actions that should be done for people who have a broken heart. 1. Forget all things to your ex-lover, decide contacts, and do not let it perch on your mind. However, you do not have to hate him, meaning, friendship and the friendship it still necessary, if one day meet by accident, you do not have to dodge. And you do not have called him if not essential. 2. When you and your ex-lover never give each other stuff, just return the goods gift, or give to the needy, such as orphans foundation, or may also remove temporarily to remove the memories of him. 3. Increase social busy-busy, busy to help and relieve the burdens of others. Research shows that helping others brings a feeling of comfort to the perpetrators. Many ways to do that, eg volunteer social service, religious committee, or other useful activities. 4. You have to evaluate the failure of your relationship and learn the causes of the failure of that relationship. Pour contents of liver and uneg-uneg you into the record or diary. Do not hesitate if you want to use swear words or sentences. Spilling all the thoughts in his head into a paper to lighten your load. The simplest way to spill your heart and mind is to write, if not, such a channel, it will be clogged and explode someday. It is also necessary, when one day when you reopen your notes, do not be surprised, if you later find its way into new things and can better understand trends in yourself. So in the future you have no idea what kind of relationship you want. 5. When lonely feelings toward you, visit your closest friends or family and do fun things, like playing cards or Talk things light and funny, like your childhood or when you go to school first. 6. Take your time to indulge yourself. Come to places that can make you relaxed and casual, like a salon, spa, reflexology massage, sauna, body scrub or even watch movies. You can also come to a party you already know before only to be attended by fewer people. 7. When the pain is so overwhelming, look for the positive channel, such as exercising, playing video games, or do meditation. 8. Live back your old hobby or find a new hobby, such as through courses or training. On this occasion, you might still closed to the possibility to meet new people. Nothing is too fast to meet meet new people even though your relationship with new girlfriend ended a few days. 9. Read a book, magazine or turn the movie that can inspire you. 10. A pet is something that is interesting. Pet will give you infinite love. Indeed, there is no definite guarantee of a broken heart will heal if you follow these suggestions. But at least the steps that can be a bit lighter to ignite the spirit, so you re ready for a new relationship.

If I have a broken heart, I would just let it pass by. I will not waste my time crying and doing crazy things. I will start to move on with my life and will not make such broken heart to be a hinder of my success in life. I will make myself busy enough so that I can overcome the heartaches that I feel.

I do feel depress everytime I miss him and get bitter with all pain I had that I dont deserve but I just made my day busy so & I tend to be productive hoping things will be better for me in the future. This I could say would be the best time I stay calm and preserve since the more I'd be out of control, the more things would get worse. I just let him do what ever he is up to, anyways karma will not fall on me since I'm not the one who is at fault. This I say everything happens for a reason and God may not provide us what we want but He will always provide us what we deserve...

Expand togethers with people who can make us forget that, like togethers with friends. Expand activities, if I play online games, etc.. do not sleep too late, because for me, the most excruciating time is at night, because in his own time at night, will always remember.

Broken-hearted person tend to felt the sadness deep-down within the contrxt of his/her life. The result will be to damaged herself/himself or to think a better way to combat it. As for me, life must go on, and if I'm broken-hearted, I'll find another means or directions to be what I wanted it to be. No matter what, I have to go on living and find true happiness with my life as a person.

i'll just pray and ask for guidance to our lord. i will not do anything crazy. Because it will just make my life more complicated, just hope pray and move on.

The reason you might do these 'crazy things' is that you are hurt, angry and vulnerable. It is never a good idea to jump right back into a relationship after getting hurt but many people do. This breeds contempt and when you are in a bad frame of mind nothing goes well. People should stay out of relationships until they have a handle on their feelings. again.

you have to know cause you broken heart... love or something aus... if you broken heart cause love just remember the world is great!

Actually not a broken heart but liver injury, Broken hearts are often in love relationships mean liver injury is defined from the hurt feelings, both love, humiliation, etc.

I was heart broken thrice in my life but haven't really done anything crazy except cry and lock my self in my room until i feel better. :)

Well maybe not. If someone would break my heart, I will have some time alone to thinks things over. I think that it is something healthy. It is good to reminisce and to think about the things that could have been. And after doing this, it is time to move along. I do not think it would do any good to try to hold on to someone who already let go.

The only time I remember having a broken heart was when I had a nasty break up with my boyfriend. I was so crushed. I cried for weeks. I felt so bad then, lost my appetite, was difficult sleeping and when i woke up in the morning, I had a really empty feeling, like there was a whole inside my heart. I swear, I'm not exaggerating things. Maybe it was because he was my first love but I'm glad I got better and moved on.

i will just hang out with my friends, laugh with them do crazy things and party all night. it calls for a celebration for me ahahha