marrige,so necessary?
By x24max
@x24max (5)
China
February 10, 2011 1:49am CST
i have witnessed so many quarrels between my father and mother.they love each other deeply i konw,and i really think so.however,i just can't describe my feelings to one of the most complex emotions.we exist,just exist,but how do we live our life without any objective?how do we face the world with a cold heart?perhaps we can make things easier or bear less obligations by not meddling in others.i mean,if i'm not going to accept a marrige,i will not have the troubles of raising kids.all of the problems decrease!maybe it's indeed the case.and maybe,i'm insane.
if you're strong,follow through it.if others don't care what you did,give up it.commit to memory that don't offer your kindness to the wrong guy.
2 responses
@didi13 (2926)
• Romania
10 Feb 11
Marriage is not necessary for men or or women as it is not necessary.That marriage contract, in many cases, of course, may create drawbacks. However, marriage is not a prison. Neither men nor women. Respect a man, do you get when you take a wife, it's the beginning or never. Men who think otherwise are outdated.
Today a woman is perfectly capable to take care of it alone. And even f she and the children, but it is nice to be helped by the man he loves.
@x24max (5)
• China
10 Feb 11
strange!you just say"not necessary"without hesitation.this night i found my mom and dad close as before accompanied by some sweet words.life should be more colorful under the ornament of love.because there are frictions,we can understand each other better and become more familiar to the ones of great significance to us.who can stand the hardship or bitters,who enjoy its world.
@kalav56 (11464)
• India
10 Feb 11
Welcome to the forum.
When you keep witnessing such quarrels I am sure there is a big doubt within your heart regarding love and the necessity of marriage .It is bound to happen.
Do not worry. THe phase would soon pass. I do not know how old you are or what you are doing at present. If you are very young and are in college, you just focus on your studies with your bright career before your eyes. If you are in a job, focus on your job and strive for perfection in your chosen area.Other thing s will all fall in place slowly.
