What should we do?

Hi, When you're ready to get married and that's a sign you've grown in deeds and thoughts. The official news of course this should be your happiness to the flat with your relatives. But not all the news you need to say, there are limits to why you do not have to tell. things to intimacy is a problem Prive your life, and of course you should not spread disseminated. This intimate problem is your problem you should finish with no need to involve other parties. so you keep your own feelings that may be useful in healing the psychological confidence in yourself. That is why we are in something that should be able to discern what can we tell the public and which ones can we cover it. Everything for the good of ourselves and our mates. unless you are ready with''risk''reaction.

I don't think so, there are some things that I think is best left in the vault I think especially if you one or the other is the jealous type. I think some things in the past is best left there...it is not being dishonest it is just keeping something for yourself.

We should be honest with the ones we intend to marry. I don't think it's necessary to reveal all of your shortcomings to them. Your partner probably knows you better than you know yourself.

If you want to stop crying about her then it would be nice if you try to forget about it because life goes ..

I made it a point to inform my wife of all my previous relationships much before our wedding because i have seen my friends in a situations where such things come up after the wedding and it causes fights and disrupts the peace in the relationship..

I think you should tell your husband your short comings.Then he knows ur capabilities and can appreciate you for them as well.In a commitment you should know each others strenghs and weaknesses and use them=D

It depends .If the so-called shortcoming may damage your spouse or your relationship,you had better call it off .Anyway ,love matters .What do you say ?