I want to ACT Girly!

Hi, gambamarcela! I am like you, who prefer to act like more of a boy,than a girl. But I am married now. I think if you can be on where the boys are, they will take notice of you. Boys are more visual when it comes to choosing mates and they have one distinct way of liking a girl. They enjoy looking at beautiful thing! You can wear jeans and tee but make sure you're carrying it well. You can have your hair short but be sure, it emphasizes your best facial assets. You can talk and act boyish but be sure, you can project sexiness and uniqueness. Boys prefer a "trophy" not a buddy so be one by being "not one of the girls only"

I am quite like you too- I'm not so girly, I don't even wear make up and wear fluffy and short skirts and the like. But maybe changing your appearance can attract men. But that's not the only way to attract them though.. Just be yourself.

well then that just mean you are fooling yourself. i guess if dont like people to think that you are one of the boys then hang out with girls. you dont need to dress like a girl if you are not that comfortable. but its also at the same time fun to find out what will happen... why not give it a go. hope you can find potential lovers who will like you even you dress and move like a boy.

I doubt you're really boyish. My guess is you're very independent, active, etc. and I wouldn't change that. I've known many men who think that's pretty "sexy". So I'd be myself and be patient... And I'd get out. The guys aren't going to see you if you're sitting at home thinking about what you have to do to change yourself...

Well, you could, but then, that wouldn't really be you, would it? Change is good as long as you do not lose who you are. And maybe, it would be good to change for your self first, and because you want to impress others would be just a second reason.

You don't have to change your image for guys to like and date you. You just have to be yourself. Although it affects sometimes but there are boys out there who love boyish girls. I'm also a boyish type of girls and I always hang out with boys. Often times they call me a guy but there are still many guys out there who like and date me (not to be boastful though). And now I have a boyfriend. Just be yourself. I know someone will definitely like the way you are.

haha how about starting with a one piece dress and a little heels shoes? It might help your walking because you cannot really walk like a man when wearing shes, the heels make your chest and butt stand up And leave your hair alone at least let it grow to shoulder length? I wish you a good Valentine's day and meet your Valentine soon!

Feamale look good in feminine dress only, here women were Saree, blouse, some wear pajama, kurta, duptta, they look more attractive than those Jean and short top wearng girls. Hope you will look more attractive with girly stuff and may be long hair. While in Manila, Davao and Cebu I have seen women sporting lon hair.. Thanks for sharing Cheers. God bless you, have a nice day ahead. Professor ‘Bhuwan’. .

Yes why not, there's no harm in trying. And physically you're a girl and you feel it right? Maybe this time, this Valentine's Day you'll find your mate if you change your image. Try and go for it.

Hi gambamarcela, I am just like you I am not so girly when it comes to walking. I also walk like a boy but I wear blouses clothes, but I usually I like comfortable blouse and jeans. I am so insecure and jelous of some pretty girls who act so girly and finesse and with poise, many people who know me would always say that I am finesse but I disagree cause maybe because I move slow that's why they think that I am. I don't know but I cannot do a thing with poise. I infact always clumsy and wreck most of the thing that I use. My bf called me "The Destroyer" when it comes to gadget and other things.

Of course you can, there is a proverb saying, there are no ugly girl in this world but there are only lazy girl. So, if you can really change yourself and wear like a lady, you will definitely can attract your potential lover. But, just do not over do it, or you may attract unnecessary problem. Good luck!

Hi gambamarcela! If you are boyish, then don't try to change that just because Valentine's day is almost here. You just have to be yourself. That way, you will know who truly likes you. If you go around and act girly and dress like a girly girl then people would surely notice your changes. However, I won't advice you to do that. What I'm saying is that you just have to be yourself and not be a fake because no matter how boyish you seem, there will always be someone who likes you for who you are. You don't have to change anything about yourself.