Valentine letters

February 10, 2011 3:29pm CST
With Valentines Day coming soon February 14th I wonder how many people will be putting pen to paper and writing a lovely letter to their Valentine instead of just sending an email! The art of sending letters seems to be dying out doesnt it and that is such a shame as letters are wonderful to read down the years and I cannot believe that that is the same with emails!
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@rog0322 (2829)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
11 Feb 11
Hi MAllen, There is a song that laments the loss of all the flowers... (Where have all the flowers gone?). Ironically, our electronic system helped facilitate the paperless system at any level. Gone are the week-long wait for the mail from even the next door sweetheart, gone are the telegram, the notes, the postcards. In place are the text messages, images, video, voice mail, email, in various electronic format and medium, can be received almost instantly, anytime, anywhere. They offer great and novel ways of communication, at the cost of fleeting happiness and lost memories. Maybe I'll just take up my guitar and sing my Valentine Song: Where have all the papers gone? Long time passing... When will they ever learn...?
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12 Feb 11
I love the modern communication but one thing I do have against it is that you dont have that "cooling off" period you have like you do if you sit and write a letter - you have time to cool down and not say something awful back and then regret it. Well if you ever do take up your guitar I hope that you will do something for youtube so we can all hear it
@dragon54u (31634)
• United States
10 Feb 11
I agree, it's much nicer to send a real snail mail or deliver a hand written card or letter. I love going through old letters that I've received 30-40 years ago. It's like being with that person again even though they are long gone. It always brings a smile to my face and warmth to my heart.
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12 Feb 11
I've done the same as you and kept all ours. They are up in our attic but I know one day I will have to sort them out and only keep a couple as although there is nothing "bad" in them I would hate for anyone else to read them so the shredder will have to come out one day as I have hundreds up there that my husband and I sent to each other when he was away in the forces many many years ago.
• United States
11 Feb 11
There is nothing that will take the place of a handwritten letter when you want to reach out to someone in a personal way. Your penmanship, the way your cross your T's, dot the I's or the slant of the your words all say a lot about you if the receiver of your letter takes the time to really look at what you wrote. How can that translate in an email or text message? It's just not the same. Unfortunately, I won't be buying my husband a card with any writing on it. He tends to read the message inside the card and stuffs it away in the nearest drawer, lost as to what to do with it. I will send him an email, so he can file it in one of his computer folders instead. sigh.
12 Feb 11
At least he puts it in a draw and not the bin lol have you noticed though that you still recognise peoples writing even year later. I know I do even from just the envelope without looking at the postmark
@staria (2780)
• Philippines
11 Feb 11
Though emails are a lot faster and cheaper to send out, I still love to receive written love letters. I think it is more sweet and I love to collect these letters too. I open them once in a while and smile whenever I remember those that was written there and marveled at how long it has been written :)
12 Feb 11
you certainly dont get that with text messages and emails do you. I think this generation will miss out a lot and maybe one day even ask us what a love letter is. They certainly look blank if you ask them about SWALK etc.