Dentistry - Not Taken Seriously, Anyone Agree?

@Janey1966 (24170)
Carlisle, England
February 10, 2011 4:22pm CST
Not in the UK, at least. My nephew (who's 21) only started visiting the dentist a few years ago. It's the same one I've been going to since I was 6 years old. Granted, I only go once a year for my check-up but it is 100 miles away, so I have a good excuse. Also, it's not free..currently about £15.50 or thereabouts. It did cost about £3.50 for years but dentistry has kinda gone private now so it goes up every year. This might be putting some people off, I'm not sure. Now, my husband won't visit the dentist unless it's an emergency. I can't remember the last time he voluntarily made an appointment. My parents, also, haven't been for a while but my Mum is looking into seeing the dentist as she is having problems. Is it like this elsewhere in the world? We all know that presenters, actors and such-like have amazing teeth, especially in the US, but is that true of ordinary members of the public like yourselves? Is it expensive seeing a dentist? Does it start from your school years? I'd really like to know.
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• United States
10 Feb 11
Well, my personally, I do make appointment unless I have too. My mouth is a dental nightmare and I am terrified of the dentist. That plays a huge part for me. Now when I was a child I started going to the dentist early and continued through my teens years on a regular basis. It was when I got pregnant my teeth got really bad, it just went down hill from there. Also, I don't have insurance so it is all out of pocket, so of course I dont' have that kind of money. Just a couple of months ago, it cost my husband nearly 400.00 ( us) to have a tooth pulled. However, I feel like the majority of the people do take care of their teeth and see a dentist on a regular basis, but it is those that are blessed enough to have insurance, AND no fear for the dentist. Oh yeah, there are some that are really blessed and born with beautiful teeth and will go through life with no dental appointments. It makes me cringe just thinking about the dentist...YUK !
@GardenGerty (160697)
• United States
10 Feb 11
I need more work, but somehow I have always found the dentist to be relaxing. I did not see a dentist as a child, no money, and I had issues I never told my parents about. At 18 I started getting some dental care, but then I did not really get serious about it until I had children, and I needed to get care for them. The thing is, I could have saved massive amounts of pain and money if I had taken care of things when they needed care.
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@Janey1966 (24170)
• Carlisle, England
11 Feb 11
I don't mind the waiting room at the dentist as I am so used to it..been going there years. However, I'm not a big fan of that drill going in the background. The dentist doesn't have his door open but he may as well do..it's so LOUD, unless he's got a tape with the sound of it constantly running..which wouldn't surprise me. At least you do visit the dentist now. Better late than never.
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@Janey1966 (24170)
• Carlisle, England
10 Feb 11
I went every 6 months when I was younger. Mum had the same problems as you after she became pregnant. I think it was calcium in her diet she was short of at the time, so, obvously, that has affected her teeth since then. She has gum recession. My Dad has had a temporary denture FOR YEARS! It's not a full denture i.e. the top and bottom set..just the top! He never complains about tooth-ache but he can't eat things like peanuts now because he says they're "too hard" lol. I go to the dentist once a year and I don't like going but it's a good excuse to see my folks so that gives me the motivation to make an appointment. So far, I've been lucky and I haven't had fillings, etc, for years but I do worry about the state of my gums in later years, even though I'm only 44!
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
10 Feb 11
I don't know, I've had dental insurance since I was about 25, and I've gone pretty much every year or more often since then. But for people who aren't insured, well a lot of them choose not to go. Of course, the longer you put it off, the worse it is, cost-wise and for your teeth.
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@Janey1966 (24170)
• Carlisle, England
10 Feb 11
Oh right, so it's all about insurance in the US? I often wondered how dental treatment was paid for over there. We have something called National Insurance Contributions that come out of our wages and any benefits (at source) but that doesn't cover dental treatment, it has to be paid directly, by us, if that makes sense. I'm not sure how people qualify to get free dental treatment here but it will involve benefits. At one time I was on Jobseeker's Allowance but I still had to pay for dental treatment.
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
10 Feb 11
You can pay for it yourself, of course, but if you can't afford insurance, you won't be able to afford treatment either.
@Janey1966 (24170)
• Carlisle, England
11 Feb 11
I see, thanks for that.
@derek_a (10874)
11 Feb 11
We are fortunate that since we moved, we have found an NHS dentist. When we lived in the city we had to start paying monthly insurance that was quite a drain. I am getting to the stage in life where I am needed more work done on my teeth and I always go for my check-ups 6-monthly. I would like to lose any more teeth as I have 4 molars missing and I would hate to lose any front ones. I am fortunate that the check-up is free for me now, but it still costs for the hygenist, but not so much as the monthly insurance was before. Get you husband to go regularly if you can Janey, as later in life there may be more work to be done. _Derek
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@Janey1966 (24170)
• Carlisle, England
11 Feb 11
I mentioned it to him earlier and he said he's thinking about making an appointment. I hope he does because you are right, if he keeps putting it off 1) he may get struck off by his dentist and 2) any problems he may not know about will get worse over time. As for me, I'm not due a visit until August. However, if I was in pain I'd make sure I got to Blackpool, come hell or high water..rather than visit a dentist here. They're useless!
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@agrim94 (3805)
• India
11 Feb 11
Hi Janey, I am from India and medical cost are very less in India. Yes dentistry is a costly branch of medicine and unfortunately we all want best of medical facilities yet dont want to pay as much as a cost of nice meal in a good resturant, which is a shame. In India we got both kind of dentists. In Govt sector and in pvt sector. In govt sector your extractions, scalings, fillings, rct is as good as free but they are costly in pvt sector and ofcourse ceramics are costly and done only in pvt sector.
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@Janey1966 (24170)
• Carlisle, England
11 Feb 11
That's very interesting to know, thanks very much.
@hofferp (4734)
• United States
10 Feb 11
I don't regularly carry dental insurance and I don't regularly go to the dentist. It's expensive even with dental insurance. But I'm having trouble with my teeth (I know I have peridontal disease) and I'm dreading getting dental insurance and going to the dentist. It'll have to wait (hopefully) until next year when I can pick up dental insurance (and drop my eye insurance. I switch between eye and dental almost every year to cut costs). If my teeth keep hurting like they have been, I may be in emergency dental care...then, I guess I'll give up TV?
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@Janey1966 (24170)
• Carlisle, England
11 Feb 11
Sorry to hear of your problems with your teeth. I can't understand why it has to be so expensive. Our Dentists are on good salaries so it's not as though the patients are supplementing their income. Put it this way, I've never met a poor Dentist!
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@hofferp (4734)
• United States
11 Feb 11
I'd say I've never met a poor dentist, but then I don't know any dentists . Next year, I might say I've met a dentist...
• China
11 Feb 11
Here dentistry ,for the most part ,has gone private too.I have no remembrance of the last time visiting the dentist.That time,I had a pain in a decayed tooth and spent a little money on it.In school, I never had toothache perhaps because I didn't have a sweet teeth.
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@Janey1966 (24170)
• Carlisle, England
11 Feb 11
Yes, it's the sugar that burrows into the teeth isn't it, if they're not brushed properly. I really should stop eating sweets, they're no good for teeth at all.
@SViswan (12051)
• India
11 Feb 11
My husband doesn't visit the dentist at all....even when he needs to!! He doesn't allow any of us to either. But I did take my older son when he was 6 for a check up. Till I was married, we would get all our medical check ups done and visit the dentist once a year atleast (unless we needed more visits to get some job done). We had healthy teeth...maybe not as good as the media people...but good enough. Now, my older son who is 10 needs to visit the dentist and though my husband is the one who came up with the 'he's got to go to the dentist'...he's doing nothing about it yet. Private dental clinics have sprung up everywhere now. I can find 7 in the area I live....which is a half km stretch! Rates depend...they aren't very expensive but some charge higher for certain procedures.
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@Janey1966 (24170)
• Carlisle, England
11 Feb 11
I know what you mean about husbands not visiting dentists. Mine ended up at the emergency dentist as he had excrutiating toothache. He tried to book in with his usual dentist but he was on holiday would you believe (you'd think there'd be a replacement but no..) so he ended up at the emergency dentist instead. Even there he was told to go back to his own dentist when he came back from holiday. He did receive treatment but I can't remember what it was..probably antibiotics. This is one of the reasons why I've stayed loyal to my dentist 100 miles away as I don't trust the ones based here. I visited one in particular and she was amateurish to say the least. Stick to what you know, eh?
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@GardenGerty (160697)
• United States
10 Feb 11
Yes, seeing the dentist is expensive. They encourage you to visit and have your teeth cleaned twice a year. Schools want you to have a card filled out by the dentist before school starts. Adults avoid it. I go regularly now, and then I make payments. I like to get it done now before I have more extensive problems.
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@Janey1966 (24170)
• Carlisle, England
10 Feb 11
At one time I could have my teeth cleaned and it was included in the check-up price. Not anymore! He doesn't spend as much time on them and if he cleans them, slaps a couple of quid extra on there. I know it's not much but to me it's a lot because I don't have much to start with.
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
11 Feb 11
I think that in the UK there us a whole group of people that are effectively disenfranchised due to the fact that most decent dentists here go private at the first opportunity. Where I live there is only one NHS dentist out of at least 10 practices and she only takes children on as new patients. I have had two NHS dentists here and both went private wanting to charge me £16 a month not per session. We do have a walk in surgery here that provides a dental surgeon and the queue to see him is always long. However, in places like the US where you have to have insurance or there is no treatment the cost is much higher. Our care might seem high but it's not in comparison to there. Then again what is the point of the NHS if it's not available to the very people that the service is designed for?
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@Janey1966 (24170)
• Carlisle, England
11 Feb 11
I agree with you about the NHS. For years all I had to pay was about £3.50 for my check-up and now it's around £16. A friend of Mum's pays monthly and it's a fortune! I'm glad my dentist hasn't gone down that route..and I hope he doesn't as he's a replacement for a guy who's retired.
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• Pamplona, Spain
6 Mar 11
Hiya Janey, Maybe it is taken seriously for some People though. A lot of People do not have good teeth and they need help to get them repaired. It´s very expensive here to go to the Dentist so not that many People are willingly eager to go either. I had a good Dentist while I was there. He was very strict but very good. Suppose you can´t have the best of both Worlds can you. Actually his bark was worse than his bit. Wow that is a long way to go to the Dentist I should say so. Can´t you get anyone a bit nearer?.
• Pamplona, Spain
6 Mar 11
Hiya Janey, Oh yes I see what you mean. Some Dentists can put you off for life can´t they? I like that one about your Mom fancy having to have the Nurse translate I can just imagine it. How did he get on when he was looking at the teeth and tapping them and saying E1 and E2 and all that stuff they usually do over there. Say that because I have never heard one do that here while they are giving you a checkup. Must have been quite funny really. Yes I would look nearer Home if it were me but if you were so used to the other. Sometimes it´s better the one that you already know than the new one you have got to go and see. Good luck with that one as well. Good Dentists seem to have vanished like the Dinosaurs did.
@Janey1966 (24170)
• Carlisle, England
6 Mar 11
I could but I had a bad experience with one here so it's put me off somewhat. Having said all that, my dentist in Blackpool has retired and Mum says he's been replaced by a foreign guy that she couldn't understand. The Dental Nurse had to interpret what the dentist said and relayed it to Mum..not ideal as you can imagine. We get so used to our dentists don't we, especially one we have been seeing for years. I guess if I have a bad experience in Blackpool come August I shall take another look here in Carlisle for a new one, as we have a few more than we used to do.
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@Cherryd41 (1119)
• United States
11 Feb 11
Hi Janey Wow I wasn't aware that denistry wasn't taken very seriously in the UK here in America at least from my experience it is taken seriously for a lot of people but of course you have those who don't and those who are afraid to go to the dentist I take it seriously because I would like to be able to keep as many of my teeth as possible Also I don't think its just about taking denistry seriously its about taking oral hygiene seriosly taking care of your own mouth in between visits by brushing and flossing
@Janey1966 (24170)
• Carlisle, England
11 Feb 11
Well, you see we're "getting there" I suppose with the extra stuff you're supposed to do at home. Personally, I just brush my teeth and that's it. I do have some special mouthwash from the dentist whenever my gums become inflamed, but that's the only "extra" routine I have. My dentist once said that you may have the whitest teeth in the world but if you haven't got strong gums (mine are, like my Dad's) then it's not worth bothering with the flossing, etc. I used to eat loads of apples but they're nowhere near as tasty as they used to be.
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@LoriAn (120)
• United States
11 Feb 11
from where i stand i see it very important but my husband on the other hand sees dentists as money hungary people telling our kids they need braces when to him there is not a big need or really a need at all to have straight teeth and that your teeth should be just left alone
@Janey1966 (24170)
• Carlisle, England
11 Feb 11
Crooked teeth are more acceptable in the UK. My two front teeth actually go back slightly and I once asked my dentist if anything could be done about it. He was honest and said that he COULD do something i.e. a brace but it may not actually work so could end up being a waste of money. I wasn't that young when I asked either - maybe if I'd been about 11 or something it may have been worthwhile.
• United States
10 Feb 11
Dental services including a simple check up is pretty expensive here. But I believe most put it off as they are not feeling any pain/ailments so they take it for granted. But it is imperative to visit regularly as the cost later will be much higher.
@Janey1966 (24170)
• Carlisle, England
10 Feb 11
I agree. This is why I go to the dentist every year, without fail. If I stopped going I can guarantee I'd have problems with my teeth!
• Philippines
11 Feb 11
Back in my homeland, the cost is almost the same like there in UK. But the thing that makes me hesitate to go to dentist is because back in my homeland, the dentists are not careful in handling the patient. Well, most of them. I mean, once, I had to get me front teeth done. Then he gave me a medicine that he buried inside it for few days, then when I came back he'd finish the work. But then, when he tried to finish his work, my teeth from inside wouldn't stop bleeding because of the pressure of the air that he gave in order to dry his work on my teeth. I kind of panicked, worried of what would he do. But then he just shoved another clay (I don't know how do you call the thing that looks like clay when they fix our teeth) to my teeth and finished his work. And months later, I found my teeth sore like hell and when I went to see my friend who's a dentistry student, she told me that my teeth need to go under some surgical thing called endo or something because of what that dentist did to my teeth... Since, I just don't want to go to any dentist in my homeland.... :(
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@Janey1966 (24170)
• Carlisle, England
11 Feb 11
I'm not surprised you like dentists in your homeland my friend. What an awful experience you have had! I know my Mum has sensitive gums so any treatment causes pain, even if the dentist is gentle with her. Yours sounds a bit on the brutal side, if you don't mind me saying so! Anyway, welcome to MyLot.
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@shaggin (72141)
• United States
11 Feb 11
It was expensive but my parents always took us to the dentist growing up. We went every 6 months. A cleaning was $80. Xrays were more. Luckily we never got cavities or had to have any more extreme work done or we would have had to have more work done. I have medicial coverage through welfare so I only pay a co-pay which is a few dollars. I just hate going to the dentist. It was 3 years between my last cleanings and she told me that I dont even need to come once a year if I dont want because my teeth dont get much plaque build up. I just scheduled an appointment for a year but who knows I may wind up cancelling it.
@Janey1966 (24170)
• Carlisle, England
11 Feb 11
I wish I had your teeth. They're ace! Your parents were very wise taking you to the dentist. Can't believe they charged $80 for a clean. Unbelievable! Looking at your teeth now, though, it's been worth it..so that's good.