how will you feel?
By tiina05
@tiina05 (2317)
Philippines
14 responses
@letski07 (38)
• Philippines
11 Feb 11
Letting go is really hard especially if you still love that person. But it will hurt you even more if you'll see him by your side but will get hurt in end. It would be too selfish. Loving is about sacrificing. Though it would be very painful, but in the end you'll realized that it's the right decision.
@tiina05 (2317)
• Philippines
11 Feb 11
hello thanks for your response,
yes, loving is like sacrificing. That when you got hurt you must accept it, if people don't like you in a relationship you must accept it, That sometimes both of you wont even come up with the same decision you must accept it. Sacrificing 
it makes me think sometimes that I should not love someone or I should not be love by someone if we will only gonna hurt each other.
thank you. 
it makes me think sometimes that I should not love someone or I should not be love by someone if we will only gonna hurt each other.
thank you. 
@ckyera (17331)
• Philippines
11 Feb 11
hi there!
I have been in a situation like that before and I am telling you that it hurts so bad, it's painful to let go of someone whom we love, its painful seeing them being hurt too because of us. Sometimes we just don't have a choice but if there's any, we have to choose the better one of course. When I say the better one, its something that will benefit both of you. Something that will make things better.
Yes it will be painful, looking back to it still makes me feel a bit sad but I don't regret it. Both of us are happy now heading a better life with our family. Yes I am glad that he found the better woman for him and me? I am also with someone whom I know that God has sent me...
There's really a reason for everything...
There's really a reason for everything...@tiina05 (2317)
• Philippines
11 Feb 11
hello thanks for your response,
I see, and I am happy for you! and thanks for sharing your own experience like mine. As what you have said maybe I should have to let him go for him to find the one that deserve him most and at the same time me. It quit little bit hard but I have to accept the reality that both of us was not meant to be.. 
Hurt..
thanks again.
and thanks for sharing your own experience like mine. As what you have said maybe I should have to let him go for him to find the one that deserve him most and at the same time me. It quit little bit hard but I have to accept the reality that both of us was not meant to be.. Hurt..
thanks again.
@tiina05 (2317)
• Philippines
11 Feb 11
hello thanks for your response,
Hey! 
you are the only person that courage me to continue. thank you for that. By the way you said that love is the greatest pain killer LOL i should know that and should remember that. That even I am hurting I should continue and don't push him so badly.
you are the only person that courage me to continue. thank you for that. By the way you said that love is the greatest pain killer LOL i should know that and should remember that. That even I am hurting I should continue and don't push him so badly. @pringu (151)
• India
11 Feb 11
For sure, it isn'ta good feeling to let go the person you feel you can't live with. But then, we are living in a world which demands lots of practical thinking. Gone are the days where fancy thoughts did make lots of meaning. Saying that, another option would be, you guys sorting out what went wrong in your relation. If you think that won't work too, then go for the harsh decision. Hope a decision like that won't be needed :)
@tiina05 (2317)
• Philippines
11 Feb 11
hello thanks for your response,
Thanks for cheering me up! it makes me feel better now and I understand what you have said that I should not put end up easily all the memories we have made together. You really got my point that we are undergone now in so many problems that makes me think that I should end it up for the better.
thank you so much for your opinion.
it makes me feel better now and I understand what you have said that I should not put end up easily all the memories we have made together. You really got my point that we are undergone now in so many problems that makes me think that I should end it up for the better.
thank you so much for your opinion. 
@allaboutgoodlife (31)
• Philippines
11 Feb 11
That's unselfish love! But definetly you would feel devastated especialy if you really love the person but couldn't do anything or have no guts to fight for your feelings. But I believe you would be able to recover from the pain when you realize the person's own happiness with someone else who is really deserving.
@tiina05 (2317)
• Philippines
11 Feb 11
hello thanks for you response,
Yes, you're right unselfish love wasn't it? I do realize it that I should not fight if it wont work at all. I know that he should love somebody else than me because there is a person who can give him soo much love than I do. right?
thank you again.. 
@scorpiobabes (7225)
• United States
11 Feb 11
You talked to my ex, didn't you? Lol No actually I was in an LTR and was frustrated about his lying to me. I was ready to break it off when he suddenly stopped calling. I was devastated initially, even though I knew in my heart that it was for the best.
@eurekafemme (5877)
• Philippines
11 Feb 11
Of course letting go is never easy and it is the worst feeling a person could ever have especially if that person whom we should let go has been a part of our life for the longest time and became our life itself.
But, if just like you said, if it will only hurt him to keep him,letting go seems the best thing that you can do. In due time, you will thank yourself that you have done what you did.
But, if just like you said, if it will only hurt him to keep him,letting go seems the best thing that you can do. In due time, you will thank yourself that you have done what you did.@tiina05 (2317)
• Philippines
11 Feb 11
hello thanks for your response,
Yep, I understand what's your point of view. Now, I seems very clear to me that I should let him go though his been part of my life. Even it is really hurt for me at the start maybe in the end I will realize that I choose what is the good thing to do,
thank you again..
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We cant able to allow such persons as let go. @speechteacher (104)
• United States
12 Feb 11
Letting go has to be one of the hardest things to do in a relationship with someone. If you are at the place where you are recognizing the signs that if he stays you are going to get hurt...you need to cut the ties..as much as it may break your heart. The initial pain will seem overbearing at first, BUT in time that pain will ease and you will put your heart back together and love again.
@Sunehant (57)
• India
11 Feb 11
It is difficult to let go someone whom you love and at the same time hurt him as well. Please do not mind but according to your statement, I feel that
you must have done something by which you feel that he or she will be hurt. Now it depends on your understanding with him or her to accept you or he chooses to go.
@Sunehant (57)
• India
11 Feb 11
It is difficult to let go someone whom you love and at the same time hurt him as well. Please do not mind but according to your statement, I feel that
you must have done something by which you feel that he or she will be hurt. Now it depends on your understanding with him or her to accept you or he chooses to go.
@speedlion (1)
•
11 Feb 11
well,
honestly, i felt that i was goin to leave a part of me behind
but at the same time it made me happy to know the person i was leaveing was ok
in times like these i aways rely on my friends to talk
they sure know the best answers
