Are Women too much beauty conscious ?

Hi whateva, I think they are just insecure. Not cous they want men to find them beautiful, cous they want to feel beautiful. Your say is beauty for lady is to confirm their security thing in life. There are other things too. Some women who are septuagenarians are seen with glossy get up and make up running through their wrinked faces. Now there we can not say that the woman is expecting some prince to come on horse back and take her away to safer and comfortable places.

Hilovinangel, You sound correct. Just to look beautiful is natural tendency of women, regardless to the poor or the rich. The purpose might be different depending the context but the urge to be attractive is there. Yes, now even men/boys too have started to add to their looks either through physical get up or with application of beautifying objects. Thanks for sharing.

Very much logical and relevant. The sense of beauty is in both men and women but while women do it openly men behind the curtain. Thank you.

Hiya Kraj, Oh yes I have three Men here and they love to look at themselves in the Mirror like I said and they still wear those pierced rings in their Ears and cut their Hair latest style and get the latest fashion Jumper or Trousers too. Us Women like to look good anyway even when you have spent a sleepless night with one of them you will still get up in the Morning and splash your face with lot´s of cold Water and comb you Hair at the very least. After just having had a Baby you will reach for a Mirror and Comb and a bit of make up as we tend to look a bit peaky at that time. Well who would´nt?

I guess there would be nothing wrong with a man wanting to use beauty products etc. it just in the male culture not to accept men who do this...I think it's silly but that is the majority of men...

Hi paula, "visual creatures" - you mean men loves optical scanning of the female species. But for whatsoever a reason the motto of a woman to put makeup is subjective. Interestingly if a boy does this girlie things they would die laughing at him. Why? Should not men too look bright and sweet smelling? lol

Might be not to attract other women of girl I use deo or perfume that I like. And not other accessories.

Hi coco, Is it really the biological factor that a man with an average look looks for a beautiful girls for marriage? I think this a domination act by men and things have not changed because this would bring their dominance a challenge.

Agreed.

it's the same as as men are biologically wired to ogle pretty girls.men are wired to find the best "species" to carry on their lineage

Hi thesids, Well this is your maiden response on my discussion and it is nice really. All heaven would shower flower on you and your wife and the likes of you who are less concerned about the physical beauty or more precisely the beauty of the visage. I wonder if or not women look for the beauty of men to date with, get married and so and so forth. My lord, what conception is this that when it is girls they have to be nice looking, soft spoken but the boy/man is taken for granted. I think the feudal concept has not been erased as yet. Women are treated as objects. What a pity. Oh yeah, I too belong to your segment. If you want to have a look at my other part go to my profile and she is right there. Thanks friend.

I can share some of my insane research here with My lord, what conception is this that when it is girls they have to be nice looking, soft spoken but the boy/man is taken for granted. - Traditionally men are supposed to have a hectic day outside the house working - this makes them tired and also exposed to sun, pollution and accidents etc - The women were supposed to stay indoors, away from sun, pollution etc and so they could have a more glowing skin (adding to their beauty) and when the tired hubby returned from the busy and not so happy work, he was happy to see the wife... something of this kind of logic. This continued and people (the ladies) never came out of this shell and so they still believe in these and as long as they believe in this, we men would always need them that way... It is kind of choice and its availability. ps. I normally dont feel comfortable viewing profiles, but this time I was happy and had a look at all the pics. If that was your son, man you have got a real good family.

Yes, the root of this practice dates back to our pristine age. The hunting men would bring the killed animals and the wife ( woman) had to do with them. It was necessity then. To get a better groom could be another reason as to why they put extra on them. And if you do not believe just observe woman before marriage and after marriage. lol And thanks a lot for the compliment on my pics.

Well nangisha, accepted that a light makeup with good clothing boosts up their confidence. But have you thought about those who have no means to afford them? Do not they too have the urge to become a little nicer to look at like most other women? Yeah, what fits most is to impress men with their look and less like a competition.

I think most woman has a smart spending cell. I always get good cloth from certain store without spent huge money and we had to smart to mix and match what we had in our drawer. So people will not see us continuously wearing the same stuff. I think there is no need to compete with others woman because every woman has their own unique quality. I think man also has different taste in woman, most of my friend want a woman thats not to high maintenance. At the end how ever beautiful the package its always depend who you are inside.

As far as the last question goes, I am middleaged but am still a woman.So, I would naturally be conscious of my looks though I do not wear any makeup.

Hi kalav, These days even men are turning beauty conscious and therefore there are so many parlours out there. But the number is too less when compared to women' act. It must be a latent war among the women but they do not show it with words but only with deeds. Like look I am better looking than you Thanks for dropping kalav.

So glad you realize that. Make up is to enhance beauty not make it so.

Hi celtic, You said it right. Craze for better looks in woman started since the beginning of 20th century. But even if there are so many beauty accessories why women are more into this? More than 90% of them naturally beautiful or good looking?

Hello my friend krajibg Ji, So nice of you for your immediate and prompt positive. 'BEAUTY IS TO SEE AND NOT TO TOUCH.' Thanks. May God bless You and have a great time.

Hello MGBU Jee, Seems there is some confusion over the word the use of the word 'beauty' In my post I tried to assimilate both of them into a single concept. Do not you think that with more hype on the feminine beauty people are making good business. I have seen many women who look much beautiful when they are without make up things. We need to have some change now.

Hi irene, Know what? I look at a girl or woman who is simple but attractive and confident. lol So finally we can say that it is rather an attempt to hijack men that women are with all the makeup accessories.

hahahahah. Didn't you know that! That is the main essence of make up- hijcaking men! . Though I agree with you with simple women as I am one of those. I only apply make up at night to lure my husband. hahaha

Well shibham, let me comment on your here and would look the pic you have mentioned. And as for beauty men are less bothered. Is not it you mean to say? Thanks for dropping.

I think women are more self centered than men. Then men are very confident to himself in terms of figure. May be because according to survey for every 1 men the ratio is 5 women, so competing of women are on...

Hi zhouxi, Seems, our women counterparts are more keen on having having a husband through their beauty. Men too are conscious about their looks but in most case this is to building their confidence. Thanks a lot.

Hi Prince, Yes sir, most of the women are naturally beautiful. mean they can kill all all the Trojan men with just their physical as well as facial beauty. And , know, they spoil their original beauty by the application of the artificial ones. Most other might get attracted by those women with the beauty assistant but not me.

ikr spoilers -.- then they wonder why men treat them the way they do most interesting

Hi madp, Is it natural like the rain or cloud ? If it is natural it must have been brought to stay with us and we have not driven it out and I am not hopeful that it would ever get eliminated.

(Sorry for the typographical error, it's supposed to be --- ...natural tendency to be body-conscious, thus, ... NOT ...natural tendency to have body-conscious, thus ...)

Hi jdfyrj, They are not happy or satisfied with the way they look and therefore they adopt the artificial means, ya? You could be right. Thanks for dropping.

Hello prof, That boys too are getting beauty conscious now is the sign of their beauty alert or carrying off the fashion on the card? I doubt sometime.

Hi there, Yes, the interesting things these days are some of the actions of women are followed by men too. Thanks for the response.

Hi SIMPLYD, You mean women are not? (sorry if you are already married)If a marriage proposal comes to you and you have seen the guy and seen to unpleasant to be your husband. Would you still say yes to him? I think not and even if you agree you are forced either by family people or by the circumstance. Nice words.

Hi margeryann, Some two years back I gad to play a role in a movie and there director would ask the makeup boy to ready me every time I had my past to be shot. Why I had to be painted (?) because in common way I would not be palatable. I like women who put up light makeup only when a situation demands. Thank you very much.

Of course. If one is beautiful and at the same time presentable there is no problem at all. If beauty and brain work together there would be more Dante, Homer, Shakespeare or Omar Khyam.