The Besy Way
By asiamooner
@asiamooner (418)
Philippines
February 13, 2011 6:44am CST
The best way to make a relationship work is never stop loving, even on the verge of losing a lover. eventually, true love will win any detours and trials that may come. Love, cause if we don't we have just defeated our own desire to hold on...
What do you think is the best way to make a relationship work?
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3 responses
@fourjems08 (550)
• Philippines
14 Feb 11
Sometimes love is not enough to make a relationship work. Like in my marriage, I always hear my husband say he loves us very much but I don't see him doing it. Why? Because he always comes home late drunk and without telling me where he has been. So you see, even if you love a person and you don't do things that would make your partner happy with you, it is also useless. The relationship will soon be bound to break, no matter how much you love the person ypu cannot make him stay nor sustain any relationship.
@fourjems08 (550)
• Philippines
17 Feb 11
Ah...yes he had finally realizes my worth. But I'm afraid it's a little too late for that. I have been waiting for that change for 9 long years. I cannot teach my heart to stop loving him back then, now I cannot teach my heart to love him the way I did before...
@asiamooner (418)
• Philippines
14 Feb 11
love is not just an emotion to be felt but an attittude to be acted upon says the old proverb, so if someone says he loves you but doesn't show, he is actually not in love... but in some cases as this, he is in transition towards being in love....peers, habits not given up, history and experience binds up a person and brings him to such position where he must choose between family and these things. just keep reminding the person how much you love him and that you are willing to grow up with him till forever and a day...with that he will eventually realize your endless worth and soon you will find real lovely changes. don't forget to pray still for your love one, he will change, time may take long, but he will...long as you do your part in helping him...
@didi13 (2926)
• Romania
13 Feb 11
Honesty is the best strategy
Way to create a bond and to achieve true intimacy in a relationship is total honesty towards others in the real sense.Telling the whole truth about your thoughts, feelings, needs, desires, brokenness, worries your loved one, you are gradually building trust and a comfort zone between you two. Avoid conflict and maintain harmony by censoring yourself can work for a while, but the truth always comes out. I know it can be difficult to tell the whole truth and sometimes scary, but this will result in the kind of relationship that you really want - a relationship with all the cards on the table.
@asiamooner (418)
• Philippines
14 Feb 11
honesty...well, if you love someone, you wouldn't dare even think of lying to him or her...moreover, love in its essence is honesty, in action...
