Do you mind people borrower money from you?
By zhouxi
@zhouxi (1752)
China
13 responses
@mermaidivy (15394)
• United States
14 Feb 11
I don't like people borrowing money from me, everytime when people borrow money from me, I don't get paid back... and I feel like it is strange to ask my friend to give me back the money...
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@tunetzkie (37)
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17 Feb 11
It's really hard to ask your friends to pay the money they borrow.
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@inu1711 (5285)
• Romania
14 Feb 11
I used to enjoy the moments when I borrowed money to my friend and family. I was glad to be able to help them. But after I had a sad experience with a friend of mine, I stopped borrowing money. It took me almost a year to take my money back from that friend. That's why now I'm more cautious when somebody come to my place to ask me to borrow money. If I can say no, I do it gladly.
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@livecenter (1136)
• Malaysia
14 Feb 11
Couldn't agree more with you...As long as the borrower pays the loan back, it is okay for me to lend them some bucks...
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@tunetzkie (37)
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14 Feb 11
It's okay for me lend some money to others specially to my brothers and sisters. But when it comes to other I wanna make sure first that he/she knows how to pay the debt. If they failed to pay the money they can not borrow again.
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@thatgirl13 (7294)
• South Korea
7 Mar 11
I have friends who lend money but forget to ask them back, AND borrow money but forget to return them. I'm not trying to talk bad, actually i love them a lot, but when it comes to money I prefer not to borrow or lend. I think it just creates problems.
@youless (112561)
• Guangzhou, China
14 Feb 11
I don't like lending money to anybody else because it will be embarrassing for me to ask my money back. I have to let it be, and perhaps it will make me feel happier. As if people want to return the money, they will do it on time. If you ask it back and the people who can't return it, it will have a bad effect on your relationship. This is why we can get on well with each other without any money relationship.
I love China
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@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
14 Feb 11
I don't mind if I can afford it and if I trust the person enough to return it. There are people who don't return what they've borrowed, though, so I still have to watch out for that.
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@livecenter (1136)
• Malaysia
14 Feb 11
It is okay for me to lend some bucks to those who need it, but it must be with the promise of paying back...I believe in the notion that what you give, you get back...Every good deeds pays. Maybe someday I will have to borrow from someone, and the person I helped may help me when I am in need...I will sure be happy, because I am helping someone which is in need, and that makes me feel needed...
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@starrm (124)
• United States
14 Feb 11
Generally speaking, I'm fine with loaning people I trust money. In doing so I don't worry about if I'll be paid back or not because that's what trust is. If worse came to worst, I'd remind myself that it's just money and shouldn't ruin relationships with family and friends. Luckily, that's rarely, if ever, happened.
@JINGMOJINGMO (75)
• China
14 Feb 11
It depends on different people. Usually, I would like to help others if they need my help,If they are my friends , if i have no money I will borrow some for them. But sometimes some people cannot keep your words to give your money back. In that situation, I will consider wether he can give it to me or not, if not, i will give it this time , ang only this time.
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@shahin8000 (4)
• United States
14 Feb 11
It depends who they are and howmuch i have.
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