Best Friend, Best Enemy!
By LTL143
@LTL143 (57)
Philippines
February 14, 2011 8:15am CST
Have you ever heard this before that your best friend might be your best enemy?
I have this bad experience with my best friend during my college life. We are in a circle of girlfriends and one of them is my best friend who knows everything about me under the sun. We are just like sisters, sharing what we have, taking care of each other, give comfort when one is depressed. Those are happy memories I can remember. One day, everything was changed.She ignores me as if she didn't see me or know me before. One of my friends told me that my best friend got jealous on me and my boyfriend. I really don't have an idea that she also likes him. The worst thing is that, because she knows me well, all secrets was revealed. She always find ways to ruin my day. Friendship and good memories are vanished, hatred was grow and the pain is still inside.
Could it be possible that everything will be okay after what happened from the past few years? I was confused what would be the right thing to do first so that our friendship will back.
Do you have any experience like this? who can share?
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@cream97 (29086)
• United States
18 Feb 11
Hi. LTL143. I have went through a few cases with my friends in the past. Sometimes they will be acting funny towards me. Or they try to avoid me when they see me. I don't like having friends like this, it makes it hard to be their friend. I hope that your friend will talk to you like an adult. There is no need for her to be jealous of what you may have, that she does not. That is a stupid and dumb reason. You are a great person, I can tell. I hope that she can come clean with you.