Disappointed

It is normal to be disappointed if you have a boyfriend and he hasn't give you anything for Valentines day. But it should not be an issue. You must consider the situation, he might not have enough money to buy flowers or chocolates or stuff toy or even a card. What is important on that day is you are together and even a walk at the park would be enough.

Sorry to read that you were so disappointed by your boyfriend. I do see this was posted 15 hours ago, so I hope things turned out well. What I might suggest is maybe for the following holidays you treat yourself to something nice this way if your boyfriend does not at least you feel good about what you gifted yourself. Truely sad and hope you are feeling better, as wanting to destroy and throw things will only make you feel worse. Happy post-Valentines friend and I do hope you are feeling better.

hmm.. i used to think this way but later on i realized it is not he measure of how much he loves me or how much he cares for me. I realized my huby is not one who is mainstream, he does not buy flowers like everyone else does on valentines day, he does not go out and buy chocolates day on valentines day like everyone else..but he is one who buy me chocolates on a regular day just to surprise me or make me happy when i am down. I realized that it is not the measurement of how much he loves me or appreciates me and i realized that yes valentines day does not necesitates my husband to give me those stuff.. so talk to him and maybe he is like my huby:) hope you realize that too.. not having any gift of valentine's day does not mis any of his love for you

Aw, I'm sorry. My sister is upset with her boyfriend right now, too, even though they're in a long distance relationship. I think she was expecting too much. I'm in a long distnace relationship, as well, but I'm seeing my boyfriend next weekend, so we'r'e celebrating it then. Did you let him know that you're upset? My boyfriend knows that I don't make a big deal about Valentine's Day, but he's still stressing.

Well just calm down, Maybe he is out picking up some flowers or something good for you. It is Valentines day and the stores are going to be pretty busy out there. I guess he doesnt work or it is night where you live but im sure he hasnt forgotten about you. Its 2 PM here and i am at work so i havent received anything either but we are going out to dinner tonight and it will be just the two of us relaxing and having a good time.

Hello ice1187, I am too disapointed and I think is one day many guys do not like. I previous boyfriends and they all acted the same way. I said Happy Valentines to him this morning and he said you too! Sometimes I feel we should just skip valetines day. To top it off somehow I left refrigerator door open when I thought it was closed last night. I ate some chicken and had a package of spare ribs tonight moved it it must been sticking out so I was told about that. Nothing putting a damper on Valentines day. I will get over it but it not easy. I even got him and nice All Stare Enclyopedia book on Baseball all the people from way back 1920 who are in the Hall of Fame and his shirt Ruez for the Philadelphia philiees that was supose to be his Christmas present but was late so I got in 1980 and 1990 world series Hoodies with Philadelphia logo onit for Christmas do know where it is the basement. Oh well I should not dwell on this there are better days to come. Thanks and good luck maybe he will have something for you tonight. Sincerley Unqiue16

Sorry to hear that your boyfriend has not gotten you anything for valentines day yet. I am not sure of your situation but he might be planning on taking you out to eat at a nice restaurant. My wife of 11 years has not said anything yet. I am sure she wont either. Well Happy Valentines day to you from me.

As a man i must say give him til the end of the day before you get upset. He might have something planned for you and is using your thinking he didnt get you nothing feelings to suprise you with something special. Happy v day