Giving myself credit.

@Lore2009 (7378)
United States
February 14, 2011 7:33pm CST
I was always never good enough for myself that I wouldn't credit myself much. I would get compliments for my 'skills' and I would gladly accept the opinion but in my head, I couldn't really agree. Now, I'm changing and I've realized some of the things that I can do. Do you give yourself enough credit for what you do? Do you agree with people about yourself?
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11 responses
• United States
15 Feb 11
Sometimes I feel like I am my worse enemy, although I do know that if any credit credit issued to me is well deserved. As I do spend a great deal of time and effort helping and making others lives easier. I do not give myself any credit, as when I do things I do not look at it as if I have done something great. I suppose I feel this way because I am always putting others needs before mine. If ever anyone says I have done something great it does bring a smile to me.
• United States
15 Feb 11
Have you ever tried to find out all the things you love about yourself and around you? This will surely help to figure out who you are. Then go for all the things you love.- This way your self esteem will grow and you will enjoy yourself. Stand in front of the mirror and tell yourself how great you are. If you do this everyday your self esteem will also get better.
@Lore2009 (7378)
• United States
15 Feb 11
I don't think you sound like you have low self esteem either, hardworkinggirl. You seem to know what abilities you have to share with others. I think it's good to challenge yourself to keep growing and bettering ourselves.
• United States
15 Feb 11
I do not think I lack self esteem lakshmi11, not at all. When I say I am my worst enemy it is a way of challenging myself to do yet more. I would be the last person to be considered lacking self esteem. I think you misunderstood my words above. I am simply not the type of person that boasts over accomplishments as I do things out of my caring heart and not for recognition. Thanks for your comment though.
@savypat (20216)
• United States
15 Feb 11
I don't know what that means, good enough for myself. The very fact that you are alive means you are good enough, we are all on life's road to learn lessons and grow, many of those lessons are not easy to learn so we may have to repeat them again and again. But the fact that we have life means we are good enough to be here. Blessings
@savypat (20216)
• United States
22 Feb 11
Thank you for the award
@Lore2009 (7378)
• United States
16 Feb 11
Very true. I've heard of that saying before, but I will be honest that I have a bit of an ego and I get pretty critical of myself. I do use it to my advantage to get 'somewhere' in the material world but I realize that it's not what's needed spiritually.
@celticeagle (164984)
• Boise, Idaho
15 Feb 11
I get credit for my writing and it really surprises me. I don't think I am that good and yet others who read my work think I am very good. I guess I don't give myself enough credit. I could give myself more credit. My granddaughter, who is no eighteen, married and has a baby says I was a good mom to her and I like that and it helps because I always thought she felt I was mean.
@celticeagle (164984)
• Boise, Idaho
16 Feb 11
I think most people want to do perfect work. And to get good feedback from people who mean something to us.
@Lore2009 (7378)
• United States
16 Feb 11
Those are nice things to be reassured about. I usually am very critical about my art work too... especially because I have a lot of passion in it and want to make it to perfection.
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@velvet53 (22526)
• Palisade, Colorado
15 Feb 11
Yes, I do give myself credit for things that I know how to do. I wasn't always that way but I am like you and realized that I do know things. It makes me feel good to say, yes i know how to do that. I don't always agree with people and how they feel about things about me or in my life. We all look at ourselves in a different way than other people do.
@Lore2009 (7378)
• United States
15 Feb 11
I agree! Every human looks at things very differently. And the best compliments are the ones you give yourself.
@velvet53 (22526)
• Palisade, Colorado
16 Feb 11
I so agree. I guess I look at helping others as something we should try to do. I am always getting complimented for helping people. To me it is just something that comes natural. I don't really see myself doing anything great. So when someone compliments me for it I don't respond as maybe I should.
@asyria51 (2861)
• United States
15 Feb 11
Most of the time I do not give myself credit for all that I do. This is true both in my professional and my home life. I should give myself more credit, and more lee way, but I am hard on myself and i think that makes me the best I can be. I do not see me being a good mom as something that I should be rewarded or congratulated on. It is my job and responsibility.
@Lore2009 (7378)
• United States
16 Feb 11
That's true.. to do the best is what is expected.
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
15 Feb 11
I do give myself credit when i did something very nice. I simply congatulate myself, as if talking to myself. But really, when somebody gives me a credit for something , i feel ashamed and simply say " i just did what i had to do " , but i do agree with the person inside of me.
@Lore2009 (7378)
• United States
16 Feb 11
That's true, we are simply doing things that we had to do.
@daeckardt (6237)
• United States
15 Feb 11
I know the feeling well. I often would think that I didn't do enough, but when I would describe my life at times, people couldn't believe that I was doing so much and could never figure out how I did it. I never give myself enough credit for what I do, but I try to not get a big head about the tings I do either because I think that is worse than anything else I could do.
@Lore2009 (7378)
• United States
15 Feb 11
You sound like the over-doer like me! It's good you're not a big head but don't forget to realize how much you've done too! You deserve that.
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
16 Feb 11
I think that we are our hardest critics sometimes. There are times when I have been praised and in the back of my mind..I thought that I could've done better.
@gloryacam (5540)
• Philippines
15 Feb 11
I have not always been a believer of my self, and always had lived with low self esteem. However, as I matured, and inspired by other people, I have come to realize that I since I give credit to people where credit is due, then I should do that to "me", too. So, I've changed how I think and now I'm happier than I was before.
@Lore2009 (7378)
• United States
15 Feb 11
That's great! The best compliments are the ones you can give yourself.
@Marmot (590)
• United States
15 Feb 11
I do most things with confident. But I am always ready to accept different ideas. Because I know I am not a genius. There could something I haven't considered in my work and others may have reasonable suggestions. So, although sometimes I don't really accept other's idea, I thank all the others for their suggestion and ideas.
@Ichiru101 (284)
• United States
16 Feb 11
When someone compliment me I always tell them I suck why do you bother. But to be honest I am happy for every compliment. I however do not want to get over my head so I deny it.