You must be in a position to fight with me...
By Rams mylot
@rameshchow (4426)
India
February 14, 2011 7:48pm CST
My mother is saying many times "are you crazy about computer, why are you sitting hours long, don't you have sense about eating also, we are eating and sleeping also, how many time i have to waste my words, think once?"...
My father is saying with my mother "You will not give money to remo to his internet, we will see what he will do, oof... I am shouting this much also, he is still sitting on the computer upto late night".
But my brother is different, first he said with me friendly, then some what serious on me, yesterday he first requested me to leave the computer but i told to him that i have some work in online. He become serious, then i was shut down and checking messages in my mobile. Then he was thrown it serious, it was broken into pieces(of course next he was given ne new mobile).
But brother's intension is to "my all hopes on you, i am working hard in the industry, you will not to do like me, you must be in a high level, for that i and our parents can do anything, but you have to be healthy, maintain your health healthy, then only u can do it....".
Friends, "in generally, all of my friends(especially from USA) is coming in contact with me in the night time only(night in india, day time in america), so how can i miss them....
And i have to search and no many things so i am taking this much of time, ofcourse i am concentrating on health also, if there is no college i am sleeping in the day time. And from now on wards i wanna give full importance to my health also".
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11 responses
@lovinangelsinstead21 (36850)
• Pamplona, Spain
15 Feb 11
Hiya ramesh,
Well if you are studying that now and in the third Year you need to look things up that you cannot go out in the middle of the night to a Public Library to find and that is the beauty of the Internet of being able to find some of the answers or research Material you need.
Giving all the importance to your Studies is a must too but take time off to relax and get some exercise if you can. You can spend one Day on here and not the next. In other words alternate your time online.
I have to as well. They don´t like me being on here much so I have to diverse the time I spend on here too.
@lovinangelsinstead21 (36850)
• Pamplona, Spain
17 Feb 11
Hiya ramesh,
Thanks ramesh. Also good that you are starting to get back to normal with your Studies. Just imagine when you have got the Studies you need and want then you can surf all you like then. In the meantime keep going at those Books no matter what. God Bless you and your Family also xxx
@rameshchow (4426)
• India
16 Feb 11
Yes my friend,
i am trying to put it in practice.
Your points are taking as valuable, because you are my friend of mylot.
have a niceday,
god bless you and your family,
special prayers from my side.
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@dainy1313 (2370)
• Leon, Mexico
15 Feb 11
Hello Rameshchow!! Dear!! I do understand you... completely!! It´s very tender of you to stay awake up night to keep in touch with America. Three years ago I used to stay awake late in the night, but it was because I was setting my eshop, and at that time I had to wait that everyone here were asleep. It is not to easy to the body to be active too much time. So I´d feel better if you write us when we are asleep, and you can read all our comments in the next day. However, I love your posts, everyway. Just take care of you... please! Blessings... Dainy
@rameshchow (4426)
• India
15 Feb 11
"take care of you.." is not enough for me,
say something strongly as a good friend to me...
@dainy1313 (2370)
• Leon, Mexico
15 Feb 11
Ok ok ok ok, hehe, let´s see. You may not understand by now the point. Because you are young. Ok ok ok, or maybe, I am too old by now and I have been awake late night, and by now my body cann´t be awake too late as before. I remembered that when I was 16 I could easily sleep late until I was 36. 20 years that I felt healthy to work late in the night. I studied, I read a lot, I took care of children, I sewed, I set up my eshop, I studied on inthernet... ok. As I grew older my body doesn´t allow me to be awake late at night, why? Because I feel very weak the next day. That´s all. I don´t want you to feel weak as I felt. Because pshysicall weakness is very rough. You cann´t devolpe as the other do, even light and high noise bother, you are sleepy. Now is your time. Though. You are young. Maybe you are strong enough to try. Just I don´t want you to face weakness. Take good care. Eat well and drink to much water to help your body surpass the hours it didn´t sleep. Keep on touch, even if you write by night or by your morning time, don´t stop writting. Ok? Kind blessings!... Dainy
@rameshchow (4426)
• India
16 Feb 11
hahaha....
this is want i want,
if possible,
scold me to motivate me to take interest on my health....
@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
16 Feb 11
yes setting in front of computer for long periods can not be good for your health I was so long on it when I first got one 16 hours a day I got sick too.
SO now I have to limit myself I take time off to eat go outside get fresh air take a ride.
and I feel much better and can do more
@rameshchow (4426)
• India
17 Feb 11
say something strongly for your friend remo health(hey its me)....
@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
21 Feb 11
All I can say is follow your bliss. If you enjoy talking online , do it when you can. But I do agree that you should stop to eat and get up and walk around. and as long as your grades are good and /or your work is good , it is your Free time You should be able to spend it the way you like.
@rameshchow (4426)
• India
21 Feb 11
"too much of anything is too bad" i experienced this.
I wanna take rest, and maintain a good time table on how to spend with internet.
I fixed some timings.
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@carmelanirel (20942)
• United States
15 Feb 11
But the good thing about mylot, though it is night there right now, we can still communicate back and forth, just we won't be able to see each other's replies until the next day. Plus if you have some health issues, that should always come before mylot and I am sure everyone here will agree. I have had and still have some really good friends here, but because of their health, they are not as active and I really miss them..But sometimes they come back just to let me know they are still around, just dealing with life problems..
@rameshchow (4426)
• India
15 Feb 11
I am suffering with fever from one week because lack of sleeping only.
Thats why i am strongly deciding that i have to sleep in time,
"EARLY TO BED, EARLY TO RISE" is now my motto.
and this is a good lesson for me, and the viewers also know from me.
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@atprudente6 (673)
• Philippines
16 Feb 11
Good evening Remo, You just need to balance everything. You really don't need to give up the internet or the computer. It is also one way to learn new things. What you need to do is tone down the numbers of hours you use in browsing and/or using the computer. If before you use the computer 3 hours a day, you can tone it down to 1 hours every other day. In this way, you could also pay attention to other things and you can also take care of your body. you should avoid staying up late just doing this computer things. if you can you can do it earlier or you can do it over the weekend.
You need to prioritize, but don't give up the one thing that will make you stress free and happy.
@rameshchow (4426)
• India
16 Feb 11
It will take some time to balance all the things in life, because now i am young know?
@atprudente6 (673)
• Philippines
17 Feb 11
Yes indeed, it is very hard to instantly balance the things in your life (or in our life). But you can do it. You should need to do it step by step. For instance, try to minimize the use of the net, then the time that you have save using the net can be used in caring for yourself. You just need to have a process and eventually you will see that you have balance the things in your life.
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
15 Feb 11
hi rameshchow oh p lease dont completely le ave us as I love your discussions. I think your dad and mom would realize why you love your computer if they had learned to use one. you have to ha ve a taste of it at your parents ag=e and believe me you will wi sh you had been on it years before. of course you must eat properly and get enough sleep byut I think my lotting is actually good for us as I know I as an A merican knew little about other p eople's culture and cu stoms an d now I cxan reach out andtalk to Indian friends,filippino friend, well just friends from all over tghe world.I do not feel so isolated and I love being friends with other thabn just mnore A mericans. as a retiree at timses I feel lonely and mylot cures that so easily.Yes it does seem when its day here its night in India and vice v ersa. lol Are you going to take college coures? You sound so well educated.
@rameshchow (4426)
• India
15 Feb 11
Ya, now i am studying engineering 3rd year in Electronics and communication engineering.
And i am doing bachelor degree in Political Science also....
I love my studies, at the same time, i am giving full importance to browsing and knowing new things in the internet only.
@paula27661 (15811)
• Australia
18 Feb 11
I think it is very wise to take care of yourself. I made some changes myself recently which have resulted with me spending a couple of hours less a day online but it needed to be done because I was getting up at four am every morning just to get all my house chores done so I could come online. Something had to give because I was not getting enough sleep and my online life was it. You need to find a compromise and balance your lifestyle as best you can...
@shibham (16977)
• India
15 Feb 11
Thats better that you have promised to think about your health. Its not good to sit in front of a computer for a long time whatever the emergency is concerned. Dont repeat it. I never work for a long time... actually i have not enough time to get busy here. Again, i have eye problem and back pain.... so i never sit for a long time. I think your family members are more conscious to your health. Have a nice day.
@rameshchow (4426)
• India
15 Feb 11
"thank you shibam for your words".
hey you r my friend yar, say something strongly as a close friend.
@nangisha (3495)
• Indonesia
16 Feb 11
I think we all had someone who made us obey. In my family usually my daddy because I am the biggest child so i don't have a brother or sister to mesh with. I am think quite sensitive person because when any one told me with yelling or bad word it won't work.
I usually do something because I want it not because I told too. What comes from heart result better than an order. I usually a little ignorance when I am busy making something like busy making template of my blog or post something thats need research. I will busy online.
@Marmot (590)
• United States
15 Feb 11
Time different is a big problem for you then. I think your should organize your time. As you want to communicate with your friends in US, you have to finish your college work first, before the night. right? Then, enough sleeping is needed for everyone. At last, you can spend rest of your time online~
