Bad boy and bad girl will always be a bad boy and bad girl?

Hey NEIROlovemoh, I believe that everybody can change. Nothing is there to control you. You can take control of your life, whenever you want to. All it takes is the idea and a little willpower. Anybody can change who they want to be. Since one is used to being his or her normal self, it may be difficult to change. Nonetheless, change is still possible. I hope you have a nice day too.

I had a relative who went through a not-very-nice time during her teen years, and she made some rather bad choices. Fortunately, she met a nice man, he showed her that he believed in her positive potential, and she grew past the crap. Now she's one of the nicest people you'll ever meet. Some can change, some cant.

Hello Neiro and welcome to myLot. No one has to remain a bad boy or a bad girl. But they need to have a desire to change. It all depends on whether they feel or think that they are bad. Sometime they need to have their badness pointed out to them. I have granddaughter that can be quite mean sometimes. I don't think she realizes that she appears to be men until I pointed it out to her. Now I see her trying to change. Some time it is just a bad habit unless you're talking about breaking the laws.

i think they can still change, but the change has to come from them... they have to know that they want to change, they need to change for the better and then actually do something about it... =) there is always hope i guess.

I dont think bad boys and girls remain bad as they are. Probably if they are like that, they'd probably got a good side of them also.

There are people who experience turning point in their lives. They realise their mistakes and then change for the better and they become useful to the society that they live in. However, there are people who hold on to their belief no matter the bad image that they have. I think religion, education, and environment are the biggest instrument of change. When a bad boy or bad girl gets a good education and also find God in his or her life he or she will not be a social misfit. This is why many government around the world are promoting education among their citizens. Education can significantly change the mind of a person from bad to good.

Everyone changes, no one stays as a bad boy or a bad girl forever...specially when they meet their special someone. Tendency is that they would change for love.

Absolutely not! People constantly change, some for the better and some for the worse... Change is inevitable. I've seen many people turn their life completely around. You are not chained to a certain title such as "good" or "bad".

People change. Some people even change during their last minute of breath. I think one of the reasons why it makes it hard for them to change is the environment they're in. It would be really difficult for a bad person to change his ways if he is surrounded with people also doing bad things. There are exceptions, of course, but I feel that if you surround a bad person with good, he would eventually become a good person.

People change all the time! The thing called "Reputation" remains for a very long time. Some people remain "Bad" because they give up the fight to get out of that tag, while others simply outlast their reputations.