DO you have someone who always listen to you?

Aw, that's sad. I guess I'm very fortunate to have several people who I could always turn to when I'm in a bind. They're my sounding board sort to speak. I tell them my problems and at times seek their advice. But they also could count on me to be there when they're the ones having problems. It's a two-way street. And sometimes I may not be able to do anything about their problems especially if it's domestic in nature, but nonetheless, I'll be there to listen to them. Even if it's just ranting about life.

I have someone who listen to me my loving sister. She is a great sister for me. She always there for me if I have a problem or anything...

I am sorry to hear that. You can talk to us listeners on myLot. I know that I will be glad to listen to your troubles and problems that you are having. I have my sisters, my cousins and a great lady cousin friend. They enjoy listening to me and they always give out great advice to me. These people become busy, but they seem to take time out with me when I need a shoulder to lean on. I wished that you had your family's attention when you are going through. But there is one person that you can tell all of your problems too. It is God, he will never be too tired nor too busy or preoccupied. He is always available to talk to 24/7. Take advantage of seeking God's help and time. He will help you sort out your troubles. Take care and God Bless.

I'm sorry to hear about it, my friend. Me too, have no one to listen to me when I am down. I only prayed to God, and talk to him. I know he's the only one listen to me. Because even my partner did not listen to me when I have a problem... I think you talk to God, and tell all your sorrows to him to make your life be lessen to those unhappy hours in your life

Aww I understand how it feels like for you dear because I have felt the same situation a lot of times in my life. But nowadays, to answer your question, yes I have found the person who always and willing to listen to me no matter where, when, and what it is about. I'm so happy that he's my fiance' and are really prioritizing and I really hope he will always will as he's very important to me too. What I always do when I feel like I have no one to talk to is I usually will go out, find somewhere nice and peaceful, listen to music, take pictures then write notes it Be happy!

Well there wont always be someone there to listen to you.its pretty almost impossible now that i think of it.Not to depress you but alot of the time we are going to be on our own to handle most things. ^_^ however i do have people who are sometimes there to listen to me. Like my best friend and my little sister who i am incredibly close to. do you have any siblings that you can speak to sometimes? sometimes siblings make the best of buddies

I am gifted to have a great wife who is a great listener.I do not consider myself that patient to listen to others.I always wonder how she manages to be so calm and poised.

I am glad that I have my wife to lean on when things are not going my ways here. I think I am lucky to have her in my life. She stands as a good partner to me and my family. Before, my mother would always be my most trusted person. She can assist me in every problem I am into. But now that she is old and frail, I could not really rely on her to support or help me. I am saddened by this but I think that is part of life.

My wife and I can always talk to each other and speak the truth as we agreed to do this totally at the beginning of our relationship. I am a therapist and Zen practitioner and one thing I have realized is that if you want a powerful relationship, it is no good being dishonest in any way. This can equally apply to friends also. There is an old saying that I feel is true and that is the truth will set you free. _Derek

I'm really sorry to hear that, I hope your mum and your brother will have some time to talk and listen to you. Even though I have some from my own family but I never always comfortable talking to them about my feeling and problems because they don't always understand my point and rather to give me their opinion to make me understand them instead. I'm very happy that my love one is always there to talk and listen to me patiently when I need him, and in return I will always listen and talk to him as well honestly. It's nice when we have at least one person doesn't matter where he or she comes from who listens and understands us. Thanks for sharing and be happy

I'm sorry to hear that. I have to say I'm a bit forunate I'm that kind of person that doesn't like to lay all their problems and doubts on someone else. I know friends and family are there to listen to you, but I still most of the time keep it all to myself. I know it's not that good to suppress all the feelings all the time, but I feel better trusting my own self somehow.

his is where the goodness of joining a chat rooms or forums online lies. By having someone to talk to, share your visions or just plain typing your thoughts ,can be done with virtual friends. Here in mylot, you can share your feelings and by typing out what's in your heart and mind, really could help you. You're doing it right now, so dson't despair, you got lots to talk to!

I have been there before. Seems people now are easy to get lonely.These days I feel bad too.And when I want to find someone to talk it's trun out to be nobody.It's not coz I don't have a friend.Just sometimes it's not proper to tell everything to ur friend.I know exactly noone can help with my problems but I do not want to feel along when sad things happen.It'll be easier to talk secrits with stringers than friends but not all stringers are right to hear.

i just dont give importance to it,for me life is life a lot of things,just simply kep lookin forward and just forget the past, everyone deserve to be happy, cant dwell on the bad things in life forever keep head up and dont people bring us down.

I think that there are going to be a few people that would listen to me if I had problems in my life. Granted, the people that I would want to talk to and actually listen to me does in fact varies from problem to problem of who that does fit that criteria. It does in fact does depend. I would say that I think a lot of the time, I really think that I would count on my parents would be the ones listening to me no matter what. To lend an ear and all that.

Hi. I feel so lucky because I do have several people who are so close to me who listen to me through thick and thin. It's a test of relationship when during your weakest times, they are still there to offer helping hands.

Yes, I always have someone who listens to me whenever I have something to confess. Its my husband, sister and a dear friend who was always there for me ever since. I love the feeling of having them in my life because there's no single person here on earth who never had a problem, and there will be a point in any ones life that they will surely need others' helping hands. Im just so lucky to have them that's why im always praying to God that hopefully, they will remain by my side forever. Don't worry and be sad too much, your problem will pass and you will be okay soon. God bless!

Hey chiyosan, I know how this feels. When I got first married I lived in a country where I had no friends and could not speak the language. In order to speak to my family I had to call them and that was not always an option, because of the phone bill.- I felt isolated and alone. So I decided to look in the mirror and talk to myself telling me how much I loved me and that times will change. Then I decided to think as if I had someone to talk to if I wanted to. I had this friend in my imagination for a while and in all detail. Then something wonderful happened I really found a friend who became very dear to me and also spoke my native language. If you feel like talking - here is also the internet and your friends on mylot!

i felt that way before. its really sad. and it makes you nuts. but what i really helped me as writing. if i cant find anybody to talk to i just write and write. it really helps.

Lately I've been feeling the same way, I don't really have anyone to tell my close personal problems to, I did have a best friend that I used to tell things to but now she's now closer to my now ex, which leaves me in the cold.