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Well, first of all there should be trust on one another in a relationship. If you love your boyfriend you should trust him and do not easily believe what your friends say about him. You should look for evidence if you are in doubt. Don't break up with him just because your friend told you that he is bad or he is doing something bad at your back. Yes, I agree that you should find the truth first and talk to him.

Hi. sririshan. I will find out the truth, before I would ever make an assumption about this person. I would not accuse them of something that I have heard. I will do my best to ask this person if what I heard was true or not. I will not break up with this person until I have heard the truth straight from the horse's mouth.

i think i can manage that, i mean i would not jump into conclusions right away about this person especially if i have known my boyfriend a year or so. i will most likely try to find out and confirm if what they are saying is true...

I never believe this things. If I hear anything bad, i will not do a research or investigation to make it sure whether it is true or false. I will just let its own way to be clear. In my early marriage days, one lady friend of my hubby, was very kind to me. as I am new to germany she helped me a lot. suddenly she had started to speak bad about my hubby. I got so irritated. actually I was not bothered about my hubby's past life. I was so lazy to have a look on past life. I scold the lady and told, "I accept my hubby as he is with all his plus and minus". she angrily shouted,"you are a good wife"

I won't break the relationship. Even I include people who are suspicious. If I hear something bad about my bf, then I'll star to find out. And usually I'll ask him directly.

I would find out by the facts because I've had someone say that about my husband before when we first got together. I'm glad I didn't listen.We've been together now for almost 22 years. They might be telling the truth but they could be just trying to break a person up too. You never know.

To have a stable relationship, there should be acceptance, either good or bad, and it would be best to discuss things rather than listening to what others would say especially if it would affect your relationship. A heart to heart talk is the best way to settle things especially if something arises out of problems caused by other people.

It's some kind of immature thing if I will break with the relationship that immediately just because someone has told me. But for me it depends also as to who that person is that told me. If he is a very close friend of mine and I know him that well too then I might consider what he said. Of course we would want the fact, but how are we going to get it? Sometimes in searching facts about something there's a tendency to doubt and become confused especially in a relationship. It's important that we are open with our partners to discuss something like this. But if for example my partner doesn't want to mention anything about it or hear about it then maybe there is something wrong I guess. But then again I don't want to doubt. So far I have been open to my partner and she does the same to me. And that builds confidence to both of us that our faith and loyalty to each other cannot be broken easily. Have a nice day!

Well i really have a bad habit about doubting people. So if someone tells me something bad about the one im in relation with, i start having doubts and start a fight or something like that. And i believe everyone too easily too. Need to get rid of these habits.