Talk about life, I am in a worst position
By kingparker
@kingparker (9673)
United States
February 15, 2011 6:50pm CST
Recently, I read a couple of discussions, or postings about how tired people with their lives, and how complicated their lives getting to be. Well, to make your guys feel better, my position with my life is worst than your guys talking on those postings. My former friend, also business partners used my identity to apply for the business credit card on Discover, and he spend that money in the name of operation usage, and he never pay for it. Now, until Discover card hired the collection agency on my head, then I realized that I was betrayed. Until now, I just have to file for a Debt Management Plan from National Foundation of Credit Counseling, and hopefully to make it better.
Also, not long ago, the girl I like so much break up with me. I guess that she doesn't like me no more, and I just don't have much to give her. So, I also let go of this relationship. I might as well spend this valentine's day all alone. On top of it, I have a credit card debt and personal loan to take care of. So, whose life is worst than me at this moment. If they want to whine about their lives, I should be the first one to get suicide.
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7 responses
@meditated1 (238)
• United States
16 Feb 11
Man what a pity party. Regardless of the cards that life has dealt you, happiness is just a thought away. Why would you want to be worse if bad things keep happening to you. Thats the time when you buck up and start learning from the challenges that life has given you.
@lologirl2021 (5542)
• United States
16 Feb 11
Well you should think about your future and how good things will be for you after all of the past is forgotten and dealt with.
I will tell you that my life isnt the best either as i havent paid on my two college loans since october and owe about 16,000 in two loans that i cant pay on at all. Im just trying to pay on my car and get that payed off before i start paying on my college loans. I think everyone goes through a hard time paying on bills and trying to figure out how they are always going to pay on them.
Life is filled with great things in life and you just have to go out and find it sometimes. Then there are the times that life is rough and you have to take life as it is and live with it.
@se7enthbird (8307)
• Philippines
16 Feb 11
all of us has something like that in our life. some had past already and some will soon be driving that road... i mean the road of problems. you are quite in a mess i hope you will get out of it soon. i too have problems that are bigger for me to bear but slowly we came out of it. still a big problem on my shoulder regarding my mother but i know in Gods time it will all have answers. plus my uncle too is still in coma. have faith. people do post it so they can have someone to talk with.
@monty21 (119)
• India
16 Feb 11
Don't care about worst things in your life, just go ahead in life. The people who don't care about you, you no need to care about them. It is your life, life does not end with these kind of thing. Life means don't stop as if you are getting so many problem coming to your way. If you girlfriend broke up with you, there is not big thing. Just find good one for yourself. One thing, everybody is getting frustrated these days. No one is satisfied with his life.
@lakshmi11 (278)
• United States
16 Feb 11
hey kingparker,
I have good news for you. These kinds of situations are often the turning point for something new. Hold your head high! Here is the magic cure for you.-
We are all very much taught to see all the bad stuff in life and then we find it too.
Try this for a little bit- I know this will seem strange but try to find all the stuff you really love. -For example do you really love to be debt free and have some money on the bank? Think about that and all the other stuff you love. You will be really astonished how much good stuff you can find that you really love and then also find things to be thankful for at least 5 things per day!- and everything in your life will change girlfriend bank account and all.
Nothing ever stays the same. You are in for a big change to the positive.
@witech (1)
• Mauritius
16 Feb 11
A person who has been deceived or fallen in life thinks that it was his misfortune. He even knows the fact to his present life, but he confuses himself by not accepting his actions of the past and the result at present. In life, you may fall on your knees but that doesn't mean you can't get up anymore. During such a period, the more you lose hope, the harder it gets for you to lift up yourself. There are very few who can give hand to help you get up. Don't lose hope and re-start again. It is never late and no one can stop you from re-starting anything.
You have not made any mistake but greatness was on your side for trusting a friend. You have not lost anything yet, but you have learnt something very important for the days to come. Whatever comes to you is for you to decide what to accept and what to ignore, but always remember one thing...there is an outcome for everything, so know what you are doing before you make your first step.
Don;t be distressed and lose hope just because your trust towards your loved ones worth nothing. They just couldn't realize the value and it is simply that they didn't deserve this. Keep looking at the bright side and your past will one day make you the master of all opportunities.
Be calm and take decision with patience as we can;t beat time. All I have to say is, walk through the path of life with your head held up high.
Take care and best wishes!
@chavezrmc (6095)
• Philippines
16 Feb 11
Life is so unfair, almost everyone had experienced this, but heyyyy wake up don't you remember how you are blessed coz until now you are still on this earth? There's always up and down in our lives. We humans have different problems that comes in our way. Different in weight as well. Don't you see that when you are right there are more complex problems than the simple one. So please dont complain. Everybody in this world have their share of worst position in lives, and everybody have their share of happiness too that no one can give you or you can't buy. Your life alone is a blessing, learn to treasure it. Every problem has a solution, problem come and go... but life when it goes it will never come back.