What do You think about It?

That is very true dear Islooboy! Many of us do lot of sacrifices and compromises for others and they hardly pay any attention to our efforts , this hurts us most! I also used to feel the ame thing! But then in 'Bhagvat Geeta' it is aid that "Karma Kiye Jaa,Phal Ki Chinta Mat Kar!" which means Perform your duties diligently without anticipating for the results! So now a days I don't think any more about these aspects of life. I do wat ever possible for me to help out others and I don't expect anything in return! This to some extent keeps us happy as we are mentally prepared to face such situations in advance! Well friend life is like that and we need to lead it!Thanks for participating!

There you are dear thesids, I fully agree with you, charity looses its charm the moment it is canvassed or any attempt is made to make it known to public! This is some thing like getting written the name of a donor on the walls of temple which really looks cheap, as the donor was not actually interested in donating some funds but was interested in getting his name itched on the wall of the temple! sacrifice and selflessness go together, so any thing anticipated in return would not be a sacrifice! Thanks dear friend! Have a nice day !

Hi AKRao I believe those who expect anything in return of the "sacrifice" cannot be referred to as people who sacrifice... I believe that if you donate using the right hand, even your left hand should not know that you donated and in this there is no way I can expect if I was to be called as a donor.

Oh dear Arabgirl! What an appropriate way of approaching the topic.I fully agree with your views and endorse them! Life Is a big compromise and we are compromising at every moment to maintain the harmony and peace in our life! Regarding the faults part yes, let us not judge anyone as the best judge the Almighty will take care of it! Thanks a lot for responding! Have a nice day! Thanks !

My question to both of you is, "Why I sacrifice always why not the others?". Is it fair that one is always sacrificing and the 2nd one is always right even he is always on the wrong end?.

Dear Islooboy, We can sacrifice as it is at our discretion but how can we make other's to sacrifice that is not under our control! If you are sacrificing that is your good quality you are depicting to the World! Thanks !

Hello Dear Williamjisir! I fully agree wit your thoughts! If we just ignore the bad side of others and look at the good side, then where is the problem! But being Human beings it is difficult to do so, that is why it is said here that if we are happy means we have made some compromise and if others are happy means we have ignored their faults! Thanks dear Sir for responding!

Actually this message is very much applicable for today's materialistic World where it is difficult to be happy and to keep others happy! That's why we have to take the help of compromise and ignoring the things in order to have a harmonious life! Thanks Sid, I am happy to know that you are motivated and wish you all the best!

I just realized that we are not together... Togetherness helps in understanding and sharing the knowledge... Sent you an FR

Oh that is so nice of you, I warmly accept you as my friend! Thanks !

Hi Dear Jotomy! Yes,I feel I am lucky to have some friends like the one who has sent this message, who send such meaningful messages from time to time! These messages they serve as soothing agents when we are very tensed or under lot of work pressures! These messages makes me happy! Like this message I received in the morning will keep me busy through out the day in the form this discussion! Thanks a lot for responding!

Hi Dear Thanks ! It is really very nice gesture from your part that in spite of knowing the consequences you are not changing and continuing your nature of helping others ! I agree that such people they suffer a lot in their life, but then all the sufferings are wiped out with the contentment and satisfaction one gets out of this gesture of his/her! This is all the life is about! May God Bless You!Thanks !

Hi dear, When things come closer and directly in front of us, things are far different. We cannot always think such people would definitely will mind it. It is not necessary also. But if we have a good mind and which gives us peace of mind, I think that is enough and after all it is life, we cannot predict much on this. But having certain calculations and pre concepts would make our life little easier. Thanks for your comments and best regards. Thank-s

Hi Alexanda, First of all Warm welcome to this wonderful site of Mylot! I fully agree with your views! Actually this diversified opinions only make the World colorful, and if every one had the same opinion the life would have been a big bored one! And again this diversified opinions are root cause to which give birth to 'Compromise' and to 'ignore' others faults, so that every one in this World should feel happy and live without and complaints! Thanks for responding!

Hi dear Bamrahkirti, I agree with your views. With so many different natured people n this World it is impossible to go with every one without making any sacrifices or compromises! This is a part and parcel of life! Similarly to commit fault is a human nature and to ignore the same is a noble nature! Let us try to have some of this nature to mend our lives though it is very difficult to practice! Thanks dear friend for responding!

Hi Dear Katie! That is so true, we all like to judge other people without realising the truth that this right is exclusively with the great judge the Almighty! He is there to judge us! Though it is difficult let us learn to simply ignore others faults and try be happy and make others happy! Thanks !

Hi dear Changjiangzhibin, I think you are right! We have to be lenient and positive to have a happy life and letting others to have the same. But then to be positive is not an easy task especially when you are facing many negatives. thus converting these negatives of the life into positives is all we call as Compromise ! And compromise and happiness often go together! Thanks for responding!