When friends turn into lovers!

you know i defiantly think that your best friend could in fact turn out to be your lover/boyfriend/or whatever you wanna call it..lol.. i think whatever relationship you have with your best friend, things are going to change, things are going to be different, and if things dont work out, it would leave an awkward mood to some people. or in otheres they care for each other so much that they still be friends even after what they been through. im not really sure what rules might change--cause everyone is different

It's great if it occur with you. Keep it carefully. If your love is not in success, it will be really hard for you and your friend.

Where do love come from if not from friendship. From casual friendship, it upgrades itself to love and continue to journey to the world of romeo and juliet. Love doesn't happen for no reason. There must be a common interest that result in the birth of love between two unsuspecting friends. When one love somebody everything is clear, where to go and what to do. It all takes care of itself and one doesn't have to ask anybody about anything.

Hi dera, I am not an experience but I have a lot of imaginations on this. All my friends were good friends and I cannot bring them to my ‘love’ any more. There were few chances to get into an affair after the long friendship, but I found it will not remain forever and better to continue as friends, to maintain the relation more close. I think if the friendship lead to love, there may be a lots of freedom for each other. In my opinion, the ‘don’t do’ is important because the lovers know better for some time and a chance of cheating should not arise. It will be a heavy set back and as possible, be good and think twice or thrice whether it should become a love affair. If the friendship is already moved to love, discuss openly for a better life and mutual understanding and family issues also to be discussed. Only my desire is that it should be strong and everlasting so that we can enjoy the pleasure for the entire life time because we got the best friend as the life partner would be always enchanting. Simple problems to be ignore and a mutual faith and confidence will empower the life its full strength. Thank-s

I think there's only one rule when it comes to friendship, don't go overboard. Fencing is also rule of the thumb. Know your limitations, know where to put a stop, know where the fences are. I think in any relationship, this must be the rule! remember, good fence makes good neighbors!

I don't really know. I have a lot of male friends and i have this particular guy best friend. we basically grew up together and i love him a lot, well as a friend. But i have never once in my life looked at him as a lover, i just can't lol.

It depends on both of them. They can either still treat each other like friends or they can move it a step higher. If they really love each other, they will find ways to make the relationship work no matter what happens. Communication is the key here. They can discuss on the do's and don'ts of their relationship or something.