how will you feel if you got hurt?

Well! I will feel ... Hurt. That is normal. I am like you. As for your situation. People who feel obliged to lighten the the otherwise serious situations are not taken seriously. They are considered to be clowns to be used when convenient and insulted at will. The people who take people like us just don't think we can contribute in any way in any thing. Well! They are wrong! They are morons for thinking that way. When people like these do discuss the so-called serious issues in my presence, I just don't interfere till the end. Just before the end I make relevant observations and then leave before they can reply. The next time they keep watching me and I keep them guessing. I make my comments when I choose to. If asked for an opinion I say "You know everything, so why ask me?" and then promptly give an option not liked by them. For this you need to develop some insight and knowledge of your trade and human psychology. Work on it and you will be respected.

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Hi. tiina05. I would just distance myself away from people that don't want me around. I will not cry about it. I just be smart and leave them alone. I will not force my way into their friendship at all. These people like this is not worth my time and stress.

Omg, i will feel very sad if this kind of thing happne on me. If one of my friend treat me like that, i think he will become one of my best friend. Since he/she is not interested to share something "serious" with me, then why i want to treat him/her as my best friend. Luckily, i haven't experience this before. May be you can try to serious to them when they are serious, make fun with them when the situation is relax. This is how i do with all my friend.

Friendship is so important that is why we need to treasure it.But,in your case I don't believe that you should treasure your friends approaching you like what you have said.Just respect them in a matter of let them go,they are not real,or they might not feel that you are a friend.I f I am you, I would rather leave them as nothing happen.I can go with my own life.

I'll keep my self happy and normal. And I will not talk to that person anymore. Unless She or He accepted or realize what had they've done.

Yes, I have delt with friends who had betrayed me. I just make it a point to stay out of their way. The most hurtful betrayal was with my ex. I did consider him as my best friend but he cheated on me. It was really hurtful but there is nothing I can do about it. I decided to just leave it all behind by now and not see him again. It will just hurt even more if I would ever see him again.

Of course, i will fell bad if i will get hurt. But i know how to deal with those people who don't think before speaking bad things to anyone. When i get this situation, i give answer to them in their language. First, i am always out of any matter and don't initiate any matter. But when somebody keep doing such bad things to me, i am not able to keep quite. In return, i insult them trying to insult me. I am very sensitive as well. But Get scared is not a life.

My friends and I never talk about any kind of serious topic so it has never happened like that could hurt me.But,as you said you make your friends happy by telling them jokes(...so much like me)and it's really good for those who's around you.You're a fun-loving person,but they might think that you have no big heart for emotions....Maybe!!!

I am emotional too and sensitive-very sentimental.Your friends are not your real friends because they treat you as someone who don't belong to them. Having said that, why not try to talk to them and say what you feel probably they would understand. I don't hang with people who treat me as an outcast!

Do you why your friends are like this,because you are only joker to them after using you in jokes they are avoiding you,90% of peoples donot like to tell secrets to there joking friends,it is true.try to tell less jokes and be very serious to them..

Perhaps they've never even thought about you in any way other than someone THEY see as happy-go-lucky...not someone who they feel has had anything bad ever having happened to you. It could be that maybe the problem really doesn't concern you, that perhaps you don't know everyone involved or the whole situation. Perhaps they don't want to GET you involved in the problem at hand. It might have nothing to do with them being mean to you. Sometimes people come across in conversation in ways that they really don't mean to be that way. Especially if they thought they hurt your feelings when they said such and such. In order to be accepted into a conversation you might need to show a more serious side of yourself rather than someone that just makes everyone feel happy all the time. You might want to talk individually to the ones that made that comment to you and let them know how that made you feel, and ask them why they think you "wouldn't understand because it was a serious matter".

i will show him/her that I dont like what they did. And I will not talk to them anymore unless they accept that I was offended by their acts.

i would seperate yourself from them.

at the first moment i be really down and start to remember about bad things in the past, it take some time to really think about it and realize i can let it go

First, it is unpolite those people said to you like that. Perhaps it is good to give you a smile. After, people are surely divided by many kinds. So it is difficult to let them all talk together. In such case, we will feel comfortable just keeping silent or no much words.

I think the problem is that you are too sensitive. Sensitive as you are hurt you feel. Lose your sensitivities and you will be happy.

If you are being treated like that by what you call friends, I think that you should reconsider giving them that title since I do not think that they really are your friends. I believe that if you are a true friend, you should be open to whatever someone says about something. Friendship may have restrictions but not like that. If I were treated that way, I may just ignore them. I think that they are not worth my time and attention. I think that you should take things easy. For sure you will find true friends just around the corner.

Hi tina! I know this is not easy for you as you have said that you are a sensitive person. But for me I'll respect them and let it be that way. Sometimes there are discussions that we can't simply get in. Try to talk to them first and learn why they did that so. If they have an acceptable explanation then you wouldn't have to worry that much. I have friends also and before I enter into their discussion, I ask them first as to what the topic is all about and if I could join them. Our friends know our interests so maybe because they already know that it won't interest you so they just said that so you won't waste your time listening to them. Try to know the reason first before making judgments. After all if they are not really good or true friends then why you should be upset, right? And don't hold grudge because it will only worsen your feeling. I hope you will be able to talk to them and settle these things among you.