a person u like and a person he(she) likes u,which one u choose?

Hi dear, If it relates to me, I will go for a person with whom I like to make as my companion. Because, for my liking has importance. Ok, if someone like me and I also like her, the matter is resolved. But only because of someone like me and (if I don’t like her), it will be a burden in life. I got attracted something on her, so that I think her special attractiveness is the plus point and which lead me to lover her. At the same time, I like her and if she don’t like, it will be a despire and this also will not desired fruits. The best way out is that go for someone we/you like and find whether other party also can make the same feeling that we/you have. In this case both the parties have the same opinion and can go ahead. On the other hand, if the question is open, I prefer to get the one I like, and I don’t prefer the one who likes me. But for a successful and meaningful life is the latter case, because we can say that she love me. This is something great to think of. Thank-s

Hi fjciolazy, Love can stand only between like minded people or sexes. Here the situation is a bit complex. Since an option is there and yu have to pick up one you have to. If were in such situation I would opt for the second who loves me. I am I am I am and know who I am. It hardly matters if I love her since anytime I could change my purview but getting her true love is something I am not sure. Therefore when I know she loves me I would say yes without delaying.

there are many factors to be consider.. as for deciding which one.. i will choose the One I love,.. but first make sure that he doesn't have someone else, you should know that it's not good to hurt people. second, accept the fact that you are NOT expecting him to love you back. and on the other hand,.. don't date the person you don't like.. You will be the bad guy there. it is clear that you are just using him for your lonely heart.

Well, you should choose someone you love definitely but make sure that he loves you more than you love him because he will definitely make you happy. And you must remember that no man deserves your tears and when you find someone who deserves your tears, I'm sure he will never make you cry.

Well i'm still single because i havent found anyone that i like. Actually there is a guy i'm really interested in but i don't know if he feels the same or not. Well actually i think i would consider him if he really loves me, even if i don't coz who knows after being with him for sometime i might start to fall for him too. loving others is a good thing but according to what i feel, being loved is so much better.

Hi,fjclolazy! In my opinion,I will choose the one who likes me.Here is my story: I meet a pretty girl two years ago.She is my middle school classmate.Her vivacious deeply attracted me.In fact,I was fall in love with her.I tried my best to care about her.I did everything I could to make her happy.I feel very happy when I stayed with her. Then one day,I summon up courage to purse her.But she refused.It seems that she has no feeling to me.But I didn't give up.But after the many setbacks,I felt tired and doubt about choice.AND NOW,I've given up and let her go.I will choose the one who likes me.Because she will cherish me.

hello friend! i have a boy friend.he loves me a lot.i also me him.at first i did not love him.his love learnt me to love him.i always prefer a person who loves me.if i love a person so much but he did not love me it make my life like a hell.but if a person love me then his love make love for him in my heart.it is my thinking.so i always like a parson who love me. thanks a lot.

I think we have to give a thought to people who love us. I always gave it a chance, I value who loved me too much. I think people who have selfesteem cares for those who loves them and those who keep chasing the impossible actually don't love them selves that's why they like getting hurt. I think we must of course follow our heart first and even though a guy might love me if I really see him as a friend then there's no reason to get into relationship.

Hi, fjclolazy! I think when one is young, there's this tendency to be very impatient, to be in a hurry to fall in love. But as you grow older and (wiser) you'll learn how to wait. Yes, that is the word, wait! Take your time, take love easy, let it finds you and grows silently in you. You don't have to choose cause the right person will come, just wait and be patient. Every Jack has his Jill, he's just around the corner and he'll find you! Good luck !

hi, fjcloazy. I broke up my exboyfriend the last year. He dose love even now. but i cannot be together with him any more because of my family. If i am in this situation, I will choose someone who love me more than I love him. Because i am girl , i think girls easier get hurt than boys .If you choose a good boy who love you very much , you will get a happy life . .Maybe you would say me selfish. But i do think it is better chice for girls.

I would pick the one that liked me. Mainly cause I rather feel love and see if I can return the it than try it on someone who is not interested and wasting my time.

hi fjclolazy, just wondering... have you found your mr. right?=) can you share with us your love story?=)