Life must Go on!!
By daiweian06
@daiweian06 (1405)
February 18, 2011 6:57am CST
I really hate this feeling. Im so afraid to lose him but its part of Love. We never expect that we will be together and may be we never know if we are really for each other.
Now we must have to do something for ourselves and to fulfill our dreams. We now have to go different ways as we never expected.
Love is in the air and just in case I don't like long distance relationship. I'm just here with my family and friends. Life is so simple. Now I know that what makes me happy is not really all about Love but also my family and friends.
I never know that I will realize those things. I can say that I'm not totally ready whatever it takes but much better to be prepared.
Saying goodbye to your one and only is the hardest thing I think. But LIFE MUST GO ON.
What about you? Did you feel the same?
Thank you!
Good day!
God bless!
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15 responses
@raj7shot (838)
• India
18 Feb 11
First i will feel sorry for your love life.Never let it go.. Hang on it at any kind of situation.. you cant able to forget the true love at any cost.. So its good to find the reasons for the gap and fulfill them.You two meet and sit together and take positive decision.
All the best for your life...
All the best for your life...
@daiweian06 (1405)
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29 Mar 11
Yes, Lets do what is the best for us because life is so short. We never know but just to enjoy each time of it. And soon we will fulfilled all our dreams in life and we will be grateful.
Good day!
God bless!
@daiweian06 (1405)
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21 Feb 11
Yeah, I am now realized that were not meant for each other. I thought he is the best guy in this world but finally its NOT. He is not the man of my dreams. Now, I can say that God is so good. He just wants me to experience this kind of love to prepare myself to the real Love.
I'm so much thankful that you guys understand my situation and still with me. It's sad to say that its finally over but on the other side its a great thing that happens to me. Its a gift from God. And I can say that I deal with it.
Have to move on.
Good day!
God bless!
Thanks..=)
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
26 Feb 11
Living in this world, not always what we expect can materialize. We just have to be prepared with the possibility of happened. What we have, we can not always have. One time will leave us. Feeling sad loss, is a natural thing, but as long as we can understand the the situation of life, all that we can definitely live. Life is full of challenges, there is meeting, there is goodbye, but our lives still have to keep going.
@daiweian06 (1405)
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2 Mar 11
I just realize one thing. That nothing is permanent except change. We can't tell what gonna happen in the future. we think that everything would be fine but its definitely not. There must be a challenge each step which is called problems. So it will come and go to teach us what we really want in life.
Your right! There will be meeting people and sometimes whether we like it or not we need them to let go. They are just part of us and never gonna be a big part beacsue we are the driver of each journey.
Good day!
God bless!
Thanks..=)
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
25 Feb 11
If both of you are not fated to be together, then you have to accept the reality of parting ways. The presence of family and friends is important in life. Without them life will be empty. They are there for you when ever you need them at the hours of sadness and joy. It is different when it comes to love. Love and relationship is like gambling. If the relationship doesn't work well, we lose the time invested with the person we have loved and lost.
@daiweian06 (1405)
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2 Mar 11
Love is like a gambling so next time don't give it all to your love one. Leave some time and pride for yourself to make sure that your losing everything. Don't love much more than your family and friends because they are the one who will be with you in times of needs.
Relationship is up to you. You will be together forever if that's what you really want in life. And give up when everything went wrong.
Good day!
God bless!
Thanks..=)
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
22 Feb 11
You know, I don't think that there is ever a time when a relationship comes to an end when it is something that is really easy to deal with. The first period of time after the relationship comes to an end will be the hardest time. However, I also think that you have the right attitude because you are right in saying that life does go on. It won't be all that long before you really feel like you are able to move on with your life.
@daiweian06 (1405)
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23 Feb 11
According to some people that I talked its all about how people deal with their love life. It's not a pattern to follow but on how you both take good care about the relationship. On how you protect and love each other is also a matter.
Life must go on. It's not yet end of the world. We still have much time to look for another one. Nyahaha.
I feel whole again after those things that happened.
Good day!
God bless!
Thanks..=)
@bounce58 (17385)
• Canada
20 Feb 11
I think that it's at these times where you realize that life isn't really all love. And that love isn't everything. And you begin to appreciate the people around you, like your friends and family.
Yes, life must go on.
And something about, if you love someone, you have to set them free...
@daiweian06 (1405)
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23 Feb 11
Yes, Because of what happened I finally realized that I'm not alone. There still much people around me who will be there for me until the end. I really appreciate my family and some of my friends now a days. I didn't imagine and even know that they will react like that.
Your right! Life is not all about love and it is just part of it. What really important is that we enjoy our life and find some ways to fulfill our dreams. I hope that my thought will stick with me and I can make it forever.
Good day!
God bless!
Thanks..=)
@fjclolazy (859)
• China
21 Feb 11
hi,my friend!
life must go on.Cool thought!
of couse.nothing can stop life goes on.give up him,maybe u can get more.your family and your friend...try to forget him.don't be sad,good luck!
@daiweian06 (1405)
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23 Feb 11
Cool thinking for a cool woman like me. We have to do some crazy thing so we feel and experience how life would be. Just like what I said nothing is permanent in this world unless we change. And the thing is that if all thing would change suddenly and may be we have to be prepared about it.
I'm trying to move on and forget our past. I mean the bad thing on our past.
Good day!
God bless!
Thanks..=)
@patgalca (18394)
• Orangeville, Ontario
18 Feb 11
I said good-bye because he insisted. He was a swinging bachelor and didn't want to be tied down. He also said, "Why would you want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with you?" He had a point there but the attraction to him was so strong.
If it's meant to be it will be. I believe God brings people into our lives for a reason. I tried to go out with other guys but couldn't get him out of my mind. After several months of silence he called me, we started dating slowly (a couple of times a month because I had moved away and he worked shifts). That was 15 years ago. We've now been married for 13 years. As I said, I believe God brings people into our lives for a reason and if it is God's will you will be together again. In the meantime, yes, life goes on.
@daiweian06 (1405)
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21 Feb 11
Haha. Finally I realize that were not really for each other. I'm still young and better to find someone who is there for me until the end. Who will be with me in good and bad times. Who will accept me for who I am.
A very nice story. but this story would be not for everybody may be only for you. I started to realized those things on my past. I'm so thankful that those people around me are the best. Sad to say but it feels like I started to hate him.
Good day!
God bless!
Thanks..=)
@daiweian06 (1405)
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23 Feb 11
Yeah, So If ever it will happen to you in the near future at least you already have an idea what you are going to do and what would be the best thing to do. But in love there is no perfect formula. It's a give and take relationship.
Good day!
God bless!
Thanks..=)
@cerebellum (3863)
• United States
18 Feb 11
You are right when you say LIFE MUST GO ON. I know at times it will be difficult but it will get better with time. I have never had a long distance relationship but I guess there are pros and cons to it. I like being alone so that would be a pro for me. If you belong together you will make it. Good Luck!
@daiweian06 (1405)
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20 Feb 11
Yeah everything now is difficult for me. I don't know yet how to get started and how to get along alone. Its been 20 months that we are together and every little day we are together. And now in just a blink of an eye everything will be new.
Its like I lost him now. It feels like he is not with me. But I'm pretty sure as time goes by I step by step accept it in all ways.
Good day!
God bless!
Thanks..=)
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
18 Feb 11
We've all been there. Just surround yourself with positive people and you'll be fine. Negative people will just sap your energy away.
@dreamnishu (1247)
• China
18 Feb 11
hello friend!
feeling so sad to know your story.but you have to be very strong and make you very busy with some good work.you have to spend you time with your family and friends,do not feel that you are alone ever.if you love your self have to fight and make yourself happy.best of luck.a new life waiting for you.have a great life
thanks a lot.
@daiweian06 (1405)
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21 Feb 11
Thank you very much dreamnishu for the war approach. Well, its true. All things happen for a good purpose. So better to be with people who will be there for me until the end. Starting to think what would be my next activities since its a new ME.
Life is so perfect. I now realize that my family are the best. They helped me in this situation and Im thankful about it. I hope that God prepare a better future and a man of my dreams for the near future.
Good day!
God bless!
Thanks..=)
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
18 Feb 11
daiweian06 so sorry to hear that you were saddened by a loss. But am happy to hear that you have wonderful family members and friends to share and move on with life.
It is quite disheartening when we experience this and time is the best healer. I have experienced this and keeping busy with family and friends seemed to be the right remedy for me.
Be blessed sweetie and I wish you nothing but the best.
@daiweian06 (1405)
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21 Feb 11
Yeah, I started to find out that even what happened to me they still there to support and give me some advice. Family first more than anyone else. I regret those times that be wasted for someone who is not with me until the end. But I'm so grateful, thankful and happy to have these people beside me.
Thank you so much hardworkinggurl for the warm approach. I really appreciate all this kindness.
I started to find myself. He teach me on how to be strong and I will just recognize this as my inspiration to fulfill my dreams. I know one day all of this will fade away.
Good day!
God bless!
Thanks..=)
@daiweian06 (1405)
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23 Feb 11
Yeah, one step at a time I'm trying to move on by myself. I have no choice but to do it. Actually I am now doing things for my own and started to plan what would be my next activities.
I'm just so lucky that I have a family whose always there beside me and trying to help me in all their ways. I feel so loved and supported from the people who I know that the best thing in my life now a days.
Good day!
God bless!
Thanks..=)
@globaldoc (858)
• Philippines
18 Feb 11
Love has pain involved. If time passes and he is still with you, then he is meant for you.
@daiweian06 (1405)
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20 Feb 11
Yes, May be I will just wait for the right time. If he still with me we meant for each other. Life is so simple and I will allow him if he wants to let things go. All i know that he is the man of my dreams and finally Im wrong about loving him. He is the worst man I ever know.
I started to hate him on what he is doing for me. He is so stupid and narrow minded.
Good day!
God bless!
Thanks..=)
@ada8may21 (2405)
• Philippines
18 Feb 11
I am sorry to hear about that, but that is really what love is. You must learn to let go and live your life alone with your friends and family. I would also feel the same way, however I keep on holding back even if we are in a long distance relationship. I am so martyr to let this things go on, but here I am happy and in love to him. Even if we are 1000 miles away.
@daiweian06 (1405)
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20 Feb 11
Whatever happens may be I will accept it step by step and I will never give up. Just like what they say that the only thing you will realize that you are really in love is that when you feel hurt.
I never expected that this will happen because I do love him and I do everything for the sake of Love but I don't know why its not just enough.
So now I need to move forward and forget about things that happen to me right now.
Good day!
God bless!
Thanks.. =)
