why do women want their bf's to call them everyday ?

@akangirl (2436)
India
February 18, 2011 12:02pm CST
Even men want their girlfriends to call them everyday.why i wonder.today my cousin was fighting with her boyfriend why he didn't called her yesterday?can't he get five minutes in whole day to call her up. sometimes i feel if people would nag each other about why didn't they called or why didn't they met type small things , they would get frustrated and then eventually end a good relation.
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@thereza (314)
• Philippines
19 Feb 11
well its okay if my boyfriend calls me everyday. I'm always happy hearing his voice and I feel like He loved me so much. But I will not get angry if He didn't, Ill ask Him first what is the reason.
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@Kirinx (1688)
• United States
24 Apr 11
wow you have patience it would drive me mad anyone calling me once then 2-3 times aweek.
• India
19 Feb 11
In my opinion this is due to the fact because women feelings are quite different compared to men. I suppose they need proof to make sure they always remain in healthy relationship with someone.
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@Kirinx (1688)
• United States
24 Apr 11
some men do the same thing.it depends on the person i guess.
@webzap (884)
• Philippines
19 Feb 11
Two things - first, they were deeply in love with each other ; and/or - second, both doesn't trust each other , that's why they have to be in touch with each other several times in a day. . .
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@Kirinx (1688)
• United States
24 Apr 11
the trust issue is a big problem for any relationship
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
19 Feb 11
Receiving that daily pone call or two from a boyfriend is something that many females look forward to. Getting that call maight be the highlight of the day. There may be something to share that is only meant for that person to hear. When a boyfriend calls, he is showing that he cares.
@alokijon (665)
• Malaysia
19 Feb 11
I feel that when you love somebody you really want to hear her voice most of the time. I am so thankful that my girlfriend is not that crazy to ask me to call her every five minutes and so on. She just tell me that whenever I feel want to talk to her I can call anytime. There were time where I didn't call for the whole day and she is okay with. It is not the amount of calls that is important. As long as she knows that I love her very much, that is all that matter.
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@Kirinx (1688)
• United States
24 Apr 11
i can understand that but calling anyone to much will get annoying.
@mark98 (567)
• China
19 Feb 11
This is because a woman from the psychological needs of their men's attention. If men did not give a woman time to call, they would think men do not care about her.
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• China
19 Feb 11
Communication is an important part of a relationship, thus when boyfriends or girlfriends don't make the effort to do it, problems arise. This isn't unusualy or wrong. It is only wrong to demand that someone call you multiple times during the day or text you every hour. There are limits, but if someone cares about you, they will make the effort to talk to you and hear from you every day. A lot of men and women will use the excuse, "I didn't call you because I didn't have time." This is the biggest and most ridiculous lie we tell. The truth is, if you care about someone, you will always find or make the time for a quick text, or a simple phone call. No, nagging at your boyfriend isn't going to make him want to call you, and maybe after a fight he needs some time to cool off; simply communicate calmly to him that you need the daily communication. If he isn't able to give that, he simply isn't right for you. Communication is never a small thing, so don't fool yourself into allowing a relationship with someone who doesn't want to communicate with you is healthy, and there is no need fighting with someone who simply won't change.
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@davido (1623)
• Canada
19 Feb 11
Akangirl, if you are in Asia especially of Malaysia I know about you see that your cousin's boyfriend was even lucky that it was just a day request he got. Here its every five minutes! and it like 'What are you doing now?, have you eaten, have you drink water, whats that noise there?, who is with you?, am about to enter bus, go to toilet, smile at some one, someone look at me, am scared, etc...until you almost run mad!!! Miss one time its nagging...they felt its a way of life but not knowing it causes frustration.
• India
19 Feb 11
this is because they want to be in touch with eachother and they have a fear if he or she leaves him or her and goes to another person then what will happen feeling little bit jelous so it happens as i think and this small fights becomes big and the relation comes to an end
@cream97 (29087)
• United States
18 Feb 11
Hi. akangirl. No man or woman likes a clingy mate. I don't. It is never so good for a person to call their mate often. It is good to have space between each other. It is healthy for their relationship. I am married and I don't call my husband every minute when he is at work. I give him space and he gives me mines. I only call him when it is very important. A women may be bored and lonely. She also may be wondering what he is doing all of the time when they are not together.
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• United States
19 Feb 11
I would want my boyfriend to call me everyday as well. My boyfriend usually texts me every morning when were not waking up next to each other and he says good morning to me and i know he is up when im at work and im not worrying about him. Then through out the day we will then message me through text or will call if it is important and needs to get me to do something for me or something like that. I call him everyday when i leave work to, to see what he is doing and if he is alrady at my house waiting to see me. We see each other every night as well before we go our seperate ways to our own houses. I hate leaving him at night but for now its going to be that way until more money comes our way.
• Mexico
18 Feb 11
Hi akan girl: This have never happened to me but I understand how this should be. I knew a girl that used to fight with her then boyfriend because he doesn't call her everyday and for some really stupid things like, for example because "he doesn't sound happy after hearing her on the phone". I hope I won't meet a girl like this for me and I think I won't do it. When you love someone you shouldn't try to control every aspect of their lives. ALVARO
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@katie0 (5203)
• Japan
19 Feb 11
I think because I seek more a friend than a boyfriend i like the guy to know how my day was, to exchange what happened in his day too, someone to trust. I'm the type who enjoyed him calling everyday, now I don't anymore cause we are together so at dinner the conversation is always long, no need of telephones anymore :)
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• United States
19 Feb 11
There are a lot of people (male and female) that, while in a relationship, are VERY clingy. They want to know every single minute of every single day what their significant other is doing...and who they're doing whatever they're doing with. It works both ways. Sometimes that's for the entire relationship, or sometimes just in the beginning of the relationship. When one of the individuals wakes up one day and realizes that they can function in life without having a phone next to their ear day in and day out talking to their significant other, then you get what your cousin was fighting with her boyfriend about. The girlfriend gets used to having that constant contact and the boyfriend has other things to do and don't always want to have that clingyness.
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@Kirinx (1688)
• United States
24 Apr 11
I guess they just want to check up on them and see how they are doing. Thats all I can think of besides maybe the fact that they miss the person. Still calling soemone everyday is overkill.