How to get decisions of your own?

Hey lastick, you have a lot of questions. But they are questions a lot of people have so here is my advise.- This is coming from someone who had to search for those answers for years and got them very late in life.- So I really know what I am talking about. No ones life will ever be perfect we are here on this earth to learn. So mistakes happen. But nothing you ever decide or do will be without sense and nothing will be lost. You can't really ruin your life if you know some simple rules. Don't ever do anything that might harm someone else always ask God to assist you so you can make a decision which is for the greatest good of all involved.This is actually the most important thing to do, because if you do not head this rule you will have difficulties everywhere sooner or later. Then go for all the things you are pulled to and which make you really happy. Go where your heart wants to be. And always find what you really, truly love. This might take some practice. The best practice I found was this: I went through my day trying to look around for all the things I truly loved and I told myself so. Saying things like: I really love the sun shining on my back. or I really love the texture of chocolate.-etc. Then you need also to practice gratitude. Find as many things as you can to be thankful for and don't end your day without asking yourself what you are thankful for concerning the past day. With these simple things you will be able to make wise decisions, know who you are and what you want. This way you can never go wrong and even if you encounter something that makes you sad you will always be able to see your way clearly. But I now know that if you consider doing what I just wrote, then you will be very happy and don't see bad bosses and bad losses and have to be worried. You will have a wonderful life and nothing to regret. Have a wonderful life lasitck!

Life needs lot of alertness and intelligence to lead that.Any how there are situations wherein we are tested for that and this is the time where we have to be alert. Some situations are so serious that your decisions will not work and everything turns in a negative but - still you have to accept this,

When i make a major decision in my life , i now consult my husband. I learned my lesson in making decisions without consulting my husband. When i failed, and my husband came to know of what i did , he was so angry with me. But he still helped me. From then on, i see to it that i consult my husband first. Two heads are better than one and when it fails, we both have ourselves to blame.