When you're in trouble

if me..just help them out if i can do it...but when we just give help to them and they dont respond it..i mean they not reciprocation to us..when they know we in a some trouble but they dont help us..maybe we can talk with them or leave the out..:D

There are really lots of people like that. They only know you when they're in trouble. But if you're the one in need of their support, they're nowhere to be found. If he's your friend, no matter what he does to you, just let it be. He will soon realize his mistakes when the time comes. Maybe he's weak that he can't help you so he's the one asking help from you..=)

Hi dayang. I am grateful that my friends aren't like this so I never experience how it feels. My friends know that I am always be willing to help them and so they are to me. We have witnessed each ones ups and downs in life. But if ever one day they refuse to help then I'll understand and respect them still. I know that it would not be all the time where they can lend hand their hand on me. But usually we tell each other what's the reason why we did this or that. So in the case that you said having a friend like that refusing not to help I guess I would doubt the friendship that we have. It should be mutualism in relationship. It's a give-and-take process not just take-take process. If you are open enough to your friend then you should converse about this matter. The friendship that you have will not last long if that doesn't change.

Hi dayang, are you someone who believes in the saying ' a friend in need is a friend indeed'? If yes, then you shouldn't be much perplexed when any of your friend doesn't help you when you need it the most. There could possibly be various reasons for your friend not responding to you when in trouble! Saying that, it's his/her social responsibility to help you out. But then, you should also take into account, if in case he/she helps you, will it turn out to be a knock back on their head at some point of time! So in my opinion never depend on any others, be it your best friend, when you are in need. Rather try and solve the issue by yourself and if your friend helps you out, then it's an added bonus. But, never solely depend on their help :).