why misunderstandings arise when both care each other?
By annshie143
@annshie143 (53)
India
February 19, 2011 1:40am CST
this is the biggest question going with me.. why?? why?? we are together, we care for each other..we talk.. but what's wrong with human mind sometimes.. why it's so impatient some time..and behave like a child as if he doesn't know anything..understanding is important everywhere these days..survival in one's life..may be you are in any society, or in any relation.
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4 responses
@eil_noz (963)
• Philippines
19 Feb 11
Well misunderstandings between lovers, friends, and family is a normal experience that all of us have experienced. Most of us would have this kind of problems to those whom we care so much. In a relationship, it can be an abnormal thing if misunderstanding doesn't arise well, it's part of living with a person. It simply serves as a challenge in your relationship with him. Let me just share you a quote that says misunderstanding arises when the other person cares too much about the other person but the fact is they both cared too much for each other that they doesn't even understand each other's feeling. The best thing to do to avoid such misunderstanding is for you to have a good communication with your loved one. Hope this would help you out! Good Luck annshie!
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@KrauseHome (36447)
• United States
24 Feb 11
Personally, I think this is with any Relationship and you find out things more and more about each other and you learn how to work with them and around them as well. I think often when a person is acting up like a child it is due to insecurities and not sure how they are supposed to be acting in the situation. Many times it is how they think they are supposed to be acting, or afraid to act any other way. It happens and will continue to happen just a part of life.
@EdnaReyes (2622)
• Philippines
19 Feb 11
Yes, that's puzzles me ,too. If both care for each other,then why misunderstanding easily comes in, paving ways for heartaches and heartbreaks. Maybe it's our won doings, sometimes we forget respecting other's feelings, we become self-centered and selfish. It's a matter of respecting and keeping self-interest off bay may help promoting understanding among us!
