How do you treat the quarrel between you and your spouse

Usually, when my spouse is in quarrel mood, I am usually the silent one, letting him cool down first. Then we talk about it and someone must give way or else we would not come up for a solution.

yes, quarrel can never be avoided for couples especially when it comes to what you have mentioned above. dealing with these problems however can be settled in a nice conversation, not in a manner of shouting at each other. if in case, both of you are really mad at each other, it's better not to talk about the matter for a while and both of you must take fresh air for the mean time just to cool things down before both of you could talk about the problem again... perhaps, in a nice manner. "pride" is the most dangerous thing, so whether it is your fault or not, you should be the first one to compromise, but try to limit it. never try to sleep when you are both still cold and the problem is not solved. no matter how things could get turbulent and rough between the two of you, try not to give things up, it's never a solution for the better, but would just make things worse. building up things together is your job as a couple, so deep understanding and patience is vital.

Every couple is going to have disagreements. However, both people involved must be willing to apologize at one point or another. Truly loving someone means you must be able to admit when you are wrong and sometimes it may mean apologizing even when you feel you are right. Does there really need to be one right person and one wrong person in every disagreement? Maybe couples should just agree to disagree and know that at sometime or another this will happen and neither one of them has to be right or wrong. They should just kiss and make up!!!! :)

If we quarreled and i know it's my fault, i would apologize. But if it's not my fault i would of course wait for him to make the first move to more or less appease me. My husband would get angry for just the day, but the next day, he is already okay. But as of me, sometimes, i would not like to talk to him for a day or more, just to make him feel i am so angry. He will just let me be that way, but after a day , he would talk to me as if nothing happened.

Quarrels must be allowed,but either of the couple must be ready to give in even give up as long as he or she does all for the family's sake.But voiding quarrels is the best,and the way is:One's losing temper,the other stops angering!Talk it over tomorrow or some time later.