I Have a crush on a Girl whom People feel has a " Bad Nature"

I have already mentioned that my Cousin knows her and he told me about it and many of my friends told the same thing too. I am not offending girls or anything like that but I am just saying what I know. I want to check it out myself, but I feel that If what people say comes to be true then I won't like it all. Do you think I should try ?

Well, maybe your cousin tried and was rejected. lol. Just kidding. I think you should try. One man's garbage is another man's treasure. Who are those people to judge about bad nature. Find out for yourself or you might regret it in the future.

yes, you better talk to her, may your cousin got rejected because she doesn't want anyone, but talking or knowing her opinion or attitude no body can't judge that she is bad right!. You said you have crush but not love is it. There is lot of difference between crush and love you yourself decide dear it is your personal problem. If you love her then sit with her talk to her know her leave all others' words. These are very personal and emotional things should know by self not be decided or depend on other words or should not see with other eyes. Why she is bad to others check it out with her itself you may get a good response from her, because boys what they think if a girl say no to them then she is not good that is really painful to the girls. Any way all the best dear.

My cousin knows her very well and so do my friends who tell the same thing. I agree with your point that you never know unless and until you try but I don't want to get disappointed at all. I am pretty confused. Do you think I should try ? what if she is committed ?

You are right louievill that I should at least take a chance. I want to do it desperately but the only thing that bother's me is that when I meet her I should not get disappointed. I am just too low on confidence.

I would agree with puccagirl, how will you find out if you don't try? There can never be a resolve sometimes if you do not take chances, for once forget what other people have to say, it could go bad and yes you can get disappointed but it would just go as far as that, nobody's gonna kill you or hang you if you fail or if things go sour, so what if she's committed? As you said you are only going to make friends for a start, take a chance pal go, go, go

You are right that different people have different thoughts but till now the only thoughts which I have heard are the ones which hurt me. I don't think so many people can be wrong.

Yes, I will find it out myself and see whether she has a bad nature or not. I hope we get a good tuning between us. I just want her to be my good friend and i will handle the rest.

You are right, I should at least tell her what I feel and I will surely do that but first I will try and be friends with her.

Perfectly true. I will just do that and If she is that bad then my crush will go but I don't want the disappointment of losing her.

Your answer my friend is like a coin. Two faced. It does not state which face I should rely on.My instinct tells me to at least be friends and I guess I am going to at least be friends with her and then decide for myself what should i do .