Why do women always fall for bad boys??...

This is a generalisation. I am a woman and I do not go out with bad boys as you put it. Each woman is different, although culturally they are brought up to look for certain types and many of them want to rebel against their upbringing. First of all women like men who appear to be sympathetic, who appear to be listening to them, who appear to care about them. These smooth talkers always do all that when courting a woman. Once they have their conquest they tend to move on which leaves the woman bitter and in tears because she got sucked in. Too many encounters like that can make a woman hard and suspicious of every male. Women tend to like men who are masculine. Natural. Trouble is that men who are macho tend to treat women as things to score with and while some women like that most want someone to love them. The macho types have real trouble with the love and romanace side and get aggressive when asked to talk about their feelings. It is all extremely complicated. Too many people these days rely on movies for ideas about romance etc and that is all nonsense. Their expectations lead them to fail every time.

First, they don't always. In fact, they hardly ever do. But the bad boys (or we good boys who sometimes become bad ) offer something more-fun---call it 'a thrill.' The thrill is why I enjoyed slamming my head into things from the fourth- thru the ninth-grade: because--though it was potentially/temporarily harmful--the human immune-system (by the power of God) works to erase the effects of such things.

Hi. davido. I am a female and I wonder the same thing too. I see the good men with trifling women.. And I see the no good men with these good women. It is vice versa at times. Men and women just need to wisen up and be true and real to the person that they are with. Women need to do the same thing too. People just love the rugged and bad boy mentality. I don't like this kind of attitude.

I am a gal, I fall in love twice. First in the father of my son who leaves me after knowing that I am pregnant. Then next to the man I love now, who I caught cheating on me. However I dont consider them bad, its just that they have their flaws, mistakes and imperfections.

goodtoo see we've got some guys over here too who ask questions like this, not only women. so to answer you, I think it's not really 'bad boy' attitude that attracts women, but because it's like forbidden fruit tastes the sweetest and about bad boys we all hear stuff like, dont go out with them, they'll only play you etc etc and it's kind of tempting to us I think, cause deep down qwe kind of feel we're stronger than them, or that maybe we'll be able to dominate them and nsomehow this way show others they're not really that bad.

I was asking myself the same question and to tell you the truth I simply can't find an answer. I have the same problem. I can't appreciate a good uy who really cares for me. instead of that I keep thinking about this jerk who broke my heart into little pieces. love s***

You explained it. The bad boy Knows how to woo a woman. And.. they play by their own rules.That is exciting and a little dangerous. You can't predict a bad guy. so the good girl that is attracted to a bad guy is seeking the danger that comes with it. But there are many , many women who Want a good man. They are seeking out the nice guy. but not a boring nice guy. I know there are guys who are nice and Not boring all at the same time. They are just hard to see right off. the bad guy Sticks out. Puts himself out there with the attitude , take it or leave it. Nice guys are around but the don't put themselves out like that and many woman never notice them.It is sad because the nice guy can be just as exciting as an bad guy.

Even though I am a woman, I'm still not sure why this is. I ask myself this question as well. Personally, I can't entirely figure it out.

Hi Davido I´d fall for a bad boy if I were affraid of him. If I were affraid that he could damage me emotionally, and if I had no more options rather than him... if I had no reason to rest with him... I´d just Rrrrrrrrrrrrrraaaaaaaaaaaaaaaannnnnnnn, before I get more involved... (damage+damage+damge)... Hehehe... Blessings!... Dainy

I am a lady and I also observed that lots of girls really easily fall in love with bad guy. I have one friend that says she loves a rugged guy because he seems very protective and will do anything just to please her. I think some women thought that good guys are just too good to be true and lack initiative and so serious that sometimes turn the relationship so boring and no challenge at all. But personally, of course I won't fall with a bad guy because the situation in the future, you know the things that might happen the scenario and everything, is pretty much given.

The boys who are looking bad are not really bad. They are very much kind hearted. And they wanna show their REAL CHARACTER TO THEIR LOVED ONCE, i.e., TO THEIR GIRL FRIEND/LOVER. And they are very much openly talking with their girlfriends, and they are very much sensitive with them. Like wise they are sincere in their love. So automatically a girl wanna live with him.

Davido I do agree with you to some extend since I have also noticed that so called bad boy by the society always happen to be friendly with the ladies from good family may be because of the talk or the their straight forwardness and some other quality. But all women ARE not same as you think

I think that this is the major problem for women. I cant understand their reasons why this happens to them but they always fall for it. I do not want to judge or anything like that but maybe it is about being on the spot lite. Most bad boys are popular wherever they are and maybe, just maybe, some women wants to share the fame or whatever you want to call it. Its just sad that most endings of these relationships, the women are left with nothing and the dude does not even bother to look back.

In my case i don't fall for the bad guy. But in my point of view, it's the obsession to tame the hearts of a lion that increases their passion to pursue them. It's like they are thinking that it's not too late for these people to take a turn in their lives. Good guys and girls who fall for the BAD ones still hope that their love could melt all the badness in them with their love... :) Good luck! :)

I think it all comes back to fate. If a person is fated to love somebody, nothing can stop the chemistry that draw each other together. Scientifically, it has been proven that unlike poles attract, like poles repel.

I did fall for one bad guy or you can say a womanizer.He was adventurous like me and even though i knew his past reputation of having so many girlfriends , but it felt like a challenge to me which is exciting.Good guys are mostly shy in bedroom area whereas bad guys are confident,bold and wild which is exactly what i or any other woman look in a guy.But in the end the relation ends.But i didn't regret it as it was just fun for me and as i knew his reputation so i knew that this relation is not gonna last.I wish good guys were also confident, passionate like bad guys.

I love bad boys when I was in high school and college, I think it's more of the thrill that it gives you, and it gives you a different feeling when a known ladies man got his eyes on you.. though I admit, I have been cheated on more than once, but I just say charge it to experience, and I had fun, that's why I just laugh at it when I think back.

Women love a challenge. I think it's secretly every woman's dream to be "the girl" that changes a bad boy to a good one. It makes them feel more special. Bad boys tend to know what women want to hear too, so they end up falling for them.

well im sorry but i dont really like the bad boy. being hurt by a boy/man doesnt appeal to me. if the women are silly enough to fall for them then thats up to them, but some women never learn and obviously dont want to find the right guy.

I was played around by one of those bad girls and well i suffered enough because of her .