can love overwhelms distance ?
By zwindz93
@zwindz93 (37)
United States
February 19, 2011 11:30am CST
Hi everyone,
I have a friend who live one half of the earth away from me, I liked her since when we were in 7th grade, but I never have a chance to confess with her. Now, I wanna let her know my feeling but if I do so, I', sure that it wont be good because we did not meet for 4 years and she has a lot of new friend now (who know if many of them also have a feeling to her). Should I just be bold and say it to her just to see the consequence or I just give up her and move on ... ?
4 responses
@for3verfamous (2190)
• Canada
20 Feb 11
I don't think it could hurt.. But it probably isn't likely that anything will happen between you two because she lives so far away and you haven't met in four years. She could be different now. I've been in your situation, I liked a guy since we were in Grade 3. While many people didn't think my feelings were "real" I don't even know if my feelings for him are gone now. Still kind of hurts to see all the girls posting on his Facebook. 
But sometimes it's best to move on.
But sometimes it's best to move on. @zwindz93 (37)
• United States
21 Feb 11
we were friend for so long though, so if I said that I like her, and she rejects me then in the future it will be harder for me to start our relationship again!
P.s: trust your feeling, they know what the alert you ;) you re still young.. I bet.. so probably you should try to talk to him so you could know his feeling toward you :D it may make you feel less heavy than just silently following the shadow.
@for3verfamous (2190)
• Canada
21 Feb 11
The thing with me and the guy I talked about is over, we dated a long time ago, and now I have a new boyfriend. I think it's just a weird feeling you have for exes, not love.. but.. 
I think it's just a weird feeling you have for exes, not love.. but.. 
@birdie816 (1276)
• United States
19 Feb 11
i think you should definately go for it. you should not just give up on being with the girl you love before you even tell her how you feel about her. so just take a few deep breaths and tell her. then if she says no, you should move on because i am sure there are plenty of girls who would appreciate a nnice guy like you.
@dreamnishu (1247)
• China
19 Feb 11
hello friend!
i think you should say that you like her so much.you should not give up without knowing her feelings.who knows she also feel you as like you feel for her but did not confess.you have to do it for your self.if you really love her then do not west your time go and tell her your feelings.
best of luck.
@Tranqkai387 (4)
•
25 Feb 11
hi, you can still confess to her that you love her but don't expect to much. We don't know if she feels the same with you and love you back. It's hard to have a long distance relationship but no one knows about the power of love.
