How do I choose one of two choices?

For your comments, the choice seems to be easy, keep the one that makes you HAPPY!! After all, what has to do his work or lack of it in your relationship? Are you seeking someone to love or someone that will keep you pockets filled? There is no reason at all to be the girlfriend of the boy you don't want, and your parents must understand that it's YOUR decision, not theirs. It's your life, make the choice that makes you happy, you can get opinions from your parents, but never, ever an order of "marry him".

1. Please specify one of them, choose one. 2. Consider who is best to understand you. 3. Consider who is best you understand. 4. Consider who can build each other in a relationship. 5. Good Luck

Follow your heart. Choose the one whom you think you'll feel the most happiness.

Well GENGENI, That is up to you.I would want to be with someone who will make me laugh,care about me and i am happy with.Job titles aren't important as long as i know he will try very hard to make life better for me.Parents some times want the best for their kids which is money and power not considering their happiness.But sometimes they are right when they want not only more wealth but also happiness.I dont want to marry a guy who is fast to anger.

It sounds like you have a very difficult task ahead of you. If it is possible I would sit down with my parents and discuss the whole thing you just said. Share your concerns about both men. Tell them that you fear the anger you see in the lawyer, but understand the first is not a good provider. Maybe they even have someone else in mind.

I say go with your own choice, choose whatever will make you happy and then the rest will just follow. Just remember that in the end, you are the one who is going to marry the man, and whose going to be living with him and dealing with his tantrums and not your parents. I hope you'll get some enlightenment, and hopefully you will make the right choice in the end. Good luck!

Far be it from me to criticize your culture. I mean you no harm by what I am about to say. You are 26 years old...an adult, and are able to make your OWN decisions. What you do with your life, and WHO you choose to be with, should NOT be your parents decision. What DOES matter is...WHICH boyfriend do you LOVE. Which one makes YOU the most happy to be with. And if you choose the one that your parents do not agree with, then it is THEY who have brought dis-honor to YOU. Pick the boyfriend YOU like and/or love. If your parents love you (as I'm sure they do), then they should be happy for you, no matter who you choose. Love is an honorable emotion that brings with it, no disgrace. All my best wishes to you. Commanderxo

It is a wise decision to stay with a relationship that makes you happy. If you have any unsure feelings, then your heart will make the choice for you.

if you choose the first one,you must be deal with the relationship of your family ,but i think if this man love u ,he should be work hard to change him, to find the new work ..if love u ,he should be responsible for you and your life ,your family .

In choosing to be confused because we did the same as saying, taxable forward, backward also taxable, so would not want you must make a choice. Choosing was difficult because there are elements of risk in it however. you can not run the risk and chose to leave that alone enjoying. in what ways do good deeds as a result of our thinking we must have been thinking about what the risk. Nothing in this life apart from the risk of any light as we live. weigh yourself wisely which of these two guys are perfect for your future. We must not be arrogant that we do not need the material. we need the material to sustain our lives. If you love your family and do not want to lose them because they are very important in your life. then the lawyer is a choice that you can not set it aside again even though he's very into childish and likes to sulk. every human being has a different character and how these differences can run in harmony with the ideals and the will of our daily course must be balanced with the dialogue / communication. Everyone has arguments why he sulked, and every person has the same arguments why he did not want her partner always cranky. All this can be solved by solving together.

If i was you i would pick the first one. He sound like he will be more resposible to you. And he sound like he better then your second one.

Choose your first boyfriend even though his working status is not stable. I think He can give you a comfortable feelings. Rather than choosing the 2nd that cannot control His Anger. He may possibly hurt you physically later on. Explain it to your parents I know they will understand.

Woot, you have two boyfriends. way the go scoring. Well, you can go with the power and fame or go with the eternal love. PErsonally, I prefer to wait and watch what the life has in stores for us. You know, we should never take hasty decisions. After all, a husband should only be one not many...