When your Best Friend cheated you.
By akhileshebay
@akhileshebay (416)
India
February 20, 2011 7:45am CST
Hey guys you all must have your best friends near you.
But can you think of the situation when you find out that your best friend has cheated you.
What will be your reaction and what will you do?
Share with us.
9 responses
@mark98 (567)
• China
23 Feb 11
When my best friend cheated me, I think he/she will no longer be my friend. Because it lost the meaning of friend.
@akhileshebay (416)
• India
23 Feb 11
You are correct
if he/she is your true friend he/she will not even think about cheating you.
@katie0 (5203)
• Japan
21 Feb 11
Sure, to forgive them but in time, it will take a long time. I had a cousin, she had a problem I think and is a b***. She even hit on her sister's boyfriend.
She and I were close since childhood and then she hit on my boyfriend. I didn't want for her to do the second time. I think it took 8 years to forgive her, but I have. But is she my friend? No we don't even speak. Why? Because she is not a friend, she can't be, to anyone.
@akhileshebay (416)
• India
23 Feb 11
very sorry to hear about your experience.
ya it happens some time when you think someone as your best friend but truth comes out opposite.
@maean_19 (4655)
• Philippines
20 Feb 11
So far, I cannot remember anyone of my best friends' who cheated or betrayed me. I recall a friend who cheated on me, but she is not my best friend. I have treated her my sister, but she lied and cheated on me. It was worse because I have trusted her so much.
@akhileshebay (416)
• India
20 Feb 11
it happens sometimes when we trust a person more than ourself
and then we get cheated by him/her
it really breaks our heart.
@r3jcorp (1382)
• Philippines
20 Feb 11
Recently, my bestfriend cheated me. It regards with her financial status, she flew to a different country leaving some of her obligations to me. I'm am financially burden now because of this, but I do not feel hatred but rather pity on her because I knew she work hard on gaining her reputation but throw it away like that. I know she regrets all the things that she done and trying her best to recover now.
@akhileshebay (416)
• India
20 Feb 11
That was really very bad that you got this type of treatment from her.
She must have explained all that matter with you as clear as possible, that way she must have saved the friendship and also could have shared the obligations in a better way.
@l0vxXmusic (179)
• United States
20 Feb 11
you i think no matter what in life your always going to have a friend betray you, even your so call best friend...but i think it honestly depends on the kind of friendship you have.. like your best friend that you trust everything-and everything with..... but yeah although my best friend who is like a sister i have never but wish i had... who i ohh so trust forver and ever and she trusts me toO.. has never done anything like that... but ummm yeah i had some friends do that to be
@akhileshebay (416)
• India
21 Feb 11
you are correct
but sometimes your best friend betray you for their selfishness or due to some problems
but it happens.
You may be right that if they are ditching us they can't be called our best friends.
@Airsoft109 (80)
• United States
21 Feb 11
If it was the first time, I would probably forgive him/her if they apologized and they saw wrong with what they did. If it wasn't the first time (maybe third or more) or they did not see wrong or seem to care, then I doubt I could consider them a best friend. Friends don't cheat friends.
@akhileshebay (416)
• India
21 Feb 11
you are right
friend should not cheat friends and if they does they don't have any right to be your friends any longer.
@strawberrybaby39 (2086)
• United States
20 Feb 11
I think it would depend on what he or she did to cheat. And ask why he or she did cheat. That is why we have trust issues with our friends. Its not a nice thing to be hurt by your own best friend. When my best friend moved to another state we stopped talking as much as we use to. I am lucky if I talk to her a couple times a year. I feel like I am not important to her anymore so I don't bother to much with her. Its like for years she for got about me and that was it.
@akhileshebay (416)
• India
20 Feb 11
you are totally correct
first we must find out what the issue is and then decide what to do with him/her.
@smilepleeeaz (784)
• India
20 Feb 11
Well i can understand such a situation. It is really horrible to find your best friend cheating on you.
If I am the victim, I'll not say anything but simply stop talking to him , but inside my heart it must be so much aching.
@akhileshebay (416)
• India
20 Feb 11
thats the worst condition in friendship to stop talking
i have also did it many times with my friends
but you know the experienced can break you from inside.
It is unbearable not to talk your most loved friend, its better to have a fight or a heated argument then stop talking.
@jonnifc (1017)
• Philippines
2 Mar 11
Maybe when your best friend cheated you with money. Maybe he didn't give you the money that you deserve. Or when your best friend did something dishonest so that he will get something, like a job or a reward, which was supposed to be yours. If that happened to me, I will definitely feel bad and I'll tell him about what I'm feeling. If he is sorry and does everything he can to make things right, then all will be well. But if he's not sorry at all, then he's not worth being my best friend.
