The good and the bad things about moving

@Porcospino (31366)
Denmark
February 20, 2011 12:34pm CST
I just moved to another island. Right now it is a little chaotic, there are boxes everywhere and we didn't finish repairing the walls and painting the rooms yet. I really look forward to unpacking the boxes and decorating the rooms, meeting the neighbours and exploring my new town/the rest of the island. I generally enjoy changes and new experiences and that is one of the things that I like about moving. I don't enjoy carrying all the heavy stuff upstairs and living in a mess like I do at the moment, but those things I just have to accept. When was the last time that you moved? Do you like the place where you live? What do like and dislike about moving?
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@maximax8 (31046)
• United Kingdom
20 Feb 11
I used to live in a two bedroom terraced house but it was getting difficult to get my disabled son up and downstairs to his bedroom and the bathroom. I spent months wondering if I would be able to afford to move to a bungalow. I put my house on the market and looked at a 3 bedroom bungalow that I really wanted. I was so very lucky because the second person to look at my house agreed to buy it. So I made an offer on the bungalow and it was accepted. Though it took months for my sale of my house and my purchase of my bungalow. All the paperwork took much longer than expected. Finally I moved in August last year. I began getting many boxes and then packing over several weeks. The last minute rest of my possessions packing was really stressful. I felt sad looking at my empty house but I was so happy to be moving to my bungalow. A lorry took all my belonging the short distance to my bungalow. It is a three bedroom semi detached bungalow. It is situated in a quiet close and it doesn't have any passing traffic. It is on flat ground ideal for my son's wheelchair. It only had carpet in two of the bedrooms. I had to buy flooring and curtain rails plus curtains. I bought an electric fire for my lounge and had a new kitchen fitted. When I first moved it was chaotic with boxes everywhere. I like not having stairs to struggle with anymore. I enjoy a fresh new start and more space for my things.
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@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
20 Feb 11
It is great to hear that you were able to sell your house so quickly. Sometimes it takes years to sell a house and that is frustrating if you have already found another place. It sounds like you have found the perfect house for you. My husband and I also feel that we have found the right house. Before we bought this house we looked at a lot of different houses. Some of them were too expensive, some of them needed too much renovation etc and it wasn't easy to find the right house, so we are very happy that we finally managed to find this house. Now we just need to finish painting and repairing the walls in the bedroom. I really look forward to unpacking my things
@fannitia (2167)
• Bulgaria
20 Feb 11
Hi, Maximax, you have painted a nice picture. I wish you a good life in your new home.
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• United States
20 Feb 11
I had to moved from Michigan to Texas, but i really dont want to. I miss my friends, my teachers, my school, my house, everything in Michigan but I know that I never can get back to there anymore except when I grown up. My new school is very sucks, I have to endure every single day as hell. Everything happened so suddenly, I can't immediately adapt. But my mom she working here, and my cousins are very kind, they want us to stay with them. Life in here is normal, I like Texas but I hate school in here, I can't stand anymore that everyday i have to see that stupid school.I'm stuck in here and dont have any solution :((
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@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
20 Feb 11
Your response made me think about an experience I had when I was still living with my parents. We have to move and I didn't want to. I didn't want to leave my friends, my house and everything else, but it was my father's decision, and when he said that we had to move, there wasn't much that I could do about it. It is not easy to adapt to a new life when moving isn't your own decision, and it must be hard having to go to a school that you don't like. I still remember how much I missed my old life, but just like you I knew that I wouldn't be able to go back, I had to follow my parents.
@fannitia (2167)
• Bulgaria
20 Feb 11
Hi, RisingStar, don't be sad. You are lucky to have a nice family. And maybe you'll finish the school very soon?
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@sender621 (14893)
• United States
21 Feb 11
Moving somewhwere new is a different experience. A good thing about moving can be the new experiences and environment you will now have. A bad thing about moving is not being able to take the treasured friends you have found with you. I don't mind the packing and unpacking. sometimes that's when you will find something you think has been lost to you.
@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
21 Feb 11
That is true, sometimes we find some things that we thought that we had lost. That also happened to me when I was packing my things, and I was very happy to find some things that I thought were gone forever. I like the new experiences that I get when I move to a new area, and I look forward to exploring the town where I live now and the rest of the island. Moving can also be sad sometimes if you have to leave old friends behind. I usually try to stay in touch with old friends through phonecalls and emails, but sometimes we lose touch after a while.
@aisoice (272)
• Indonesia
23 Feb 11
hi Porcospino, May you feel comfortable at your house now. I moved last time about 1,5 years ago. at my place now I feel so much better than my previous place. But, no doubt, all have good things and bad things.
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@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
24 Feb 11
It is good to hear that you feel better in your current home I already like my new house a lot. There is still plenty of work to do, and it will take a while before we will be able to use all of the rooms and unpack the boxes, but little by little we will get the work done. So far we haven't had much time to drive around in the area and get to know the place better, but once we finish the practical work we plan on exploring the area.
@huruxiao (39)
• China
21 Feb 11
I like travelling,but I do't like changing my living place.I found that from the followings:I live two place there are my working place and my hometown.I usally live where I work,And only live hometown in spring-holidays or other wacations.I don't like to go home before wacation and don't like to go working place after wacation.Though I love my families and like my work.I very frighten journey on trains even in spring-holidays.The mess in rail journey is horrific to anyone.I very like travelling and relishing beauty spot in free time except in holidays.
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@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
21 Feb 11
Do you have to travel far to get from your work to your hometown? Now my husband and I have a car, but in the past I always travelled by train. During the holidays it was a terrible experience, because the trains were so crowded. There were so many people that you could hardly move. The time right before the christmas holiday or other holidays is the worst, and I don't like to travel Friday afternoon or Sunday afternoon either, because there are always a lot of people everywhere (people who going home for the weekend or going back to work)
• Philippines
21 Feb 11
When I was still 10 we moved to our final house which we really bought and owned. But before that we were kinda into moving from one place to the other. There are so many consequences in moving, especially to other unfamiliar places. Although moving has its good and bad sides of the story, you kinda think of it as a new start all the time, if you were old enough I mean. But if you were just a kid back then when moving, it makes you sad, leaving a couple of things behind, good and bad friends, best friends, crushes and puppy love. But when you arrive at your new location, you'll eventually cope and say, I gotta make some new friends.
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@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
21 Feb 11
I know what you mean. When I was a child my family moved pretty often and I didn't like it. I didn't like to leave my friends, my room, my local area etc, but it wasn't my decision and I had to follow my family when my parents decided to move. I especially remember one place that I loved and didn't want to leave. I have many great memories from that place, but I had to get used to a new place and eventually I found a new life and new friends. When you are an adult you are able to look at the situation from a different perspective. Today I am able to see the positive things as well as the negative things about moving.
• Canada
20 Feb 11
We moved in September and love where we live. We moved from a very small 2 story apartment in a pretty bad area of the city to a nice bungalow about 5km from that area. When we moved, we were amazed at the difference between the old area and the new one, and it was quite pleasant. We found that it was not only nicer but quieter than where we were and a lot safer as well. Over there, we had to triple lock the doors and there were bars on the lower windows and a motion sensor light on our door. Here, we can't always lock our front door due to the the expansion of the frame, but so far nothing has ever happened to us, but of course, you really never know it. I don't like moving, but sometimes it's necessary when it comes to safety like it was when we moved. Being in a bungalow, at least we don't have too many stairs, so moving heavy stuff wasn't so hard, but it was awkward due to some tight corners in our home. It took us a while to unpack and set up, and a lot of our furniture was damage by the movers. That really made me angry and the sad thing is that the moving company didn't want to do anything about it. Over time, we have replaced some of these items on our own, but have learned to adapt without them. We have enough storage to put things away now, so we're not tripping over anything, and we have more room to move, which is a bonus for us, we were really cramped in the other place we lived at. Now we even have a driveway, don't have to worry about people parking in our designated parking spots and risking our lives to get cars towed away. We also have a backyard that is huge, and it now means that we can have a proper garden instead of planting vegetables in pots like we used to do. I'm happy where we are and hope that we don't have to move for a long, long time.
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@katie0 (5203)
• Japan
21 Feb 11
The worst thing is putting the boxes inside the house! And unpacking, there's nothing like. Now when getting out from the old home, that's a good feeling!
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@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
21 Feb 11
It is can be very to hard to carry the boxes. I just looked at them all and thought: "I never knew I had so many things" We rented a van and on the first day my husband and moved a lot of boxes on our own. The next day some of our relatives and friends came over to help us with some of the heavy things. It was very nice of them to help us and moving is less hard when many people help, but we were still very tired when it was finally over.
@fannitia (2167)
• Bulgaria
20 Feb 11
Hi, Porcospino! To pack and unpack all your belongings is difficult but for me there is a good side about it. You can get rid of many stuff that you don't use. I made such a moving 10 years ago and I left a lot of things near the trash container. I'm sure that today I have a lot more to discard. I left a house where I was living with my late husband and I turned back in the appartment that I inherited from my family. But both homes are in the same town and the same neighbourhood. It's more exciting to move in a completely new place. I wish you a nice life there.
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@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
21 Feb 11
Thank you Packing and unpacking is a lot of work, but it is a great chance to get rid of the things that you no longer need, I agree with that. I gave up a lot of old things when we moved. Some of the things went straight to the trash bin and some of the things we sold or donated to charity. We had a garage sale where we made about $75, that was a nice way to make some extra money. It makes me happy and gives me a sense of relief to get rid of the things that I no longer need.
• Philippines
21 Feb 11
Moving is pretty high up in the list of the most stressful things to do, so for me, I don't like it very much. The last time that I moved was 2 years ago and I still love living in my loft. It's just a ten minute walk away from the place I work, and it's right in the middle of the Central Business District. I guess if the move is well planned and taken cared of responsibly, it will lessen the stress associated with it. The only thing left that I would probably hate about it would be the unpacking and the time it takes to put things back in order in my new place. However the thrill of discovering a new neighborhood, meeting new friends and exploring new places do more than make up for the stressful bits.
@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
21 Feb 11
I agree with that. Moving can be stressful and a lot of work, but discovering a new area is definately a positive thing. It is one of the things that I really look forward to once the work is over. Right now I am a little impatient, I can't find my things because most of them are still in boxes, but it takes time of repair the walls and do the other kinds of work that we need to do before we can unpack.