toxic parents

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HI LiniChan, I dont think you have toxic parents. In fact, you have good parents who gives you the freedom and loving you. Give good parents all your love and care. :)

hi sarah245, In this world, NOT all parents are great. They are still humanbeing and they do make mistakes. It's either a small mistakes OR huge enough to hurt someone's life. Many people out there (sorry to say) know how to breed, but don't know how to raise the children and family. In Asia, children were thought to be filial piety towards their parents, regardless of what the parents have done. (Does this make sense???) Does that mean, eventhough the parents rape them and they still need to obey the parents? I think, the world today, needs to open their eyes and FULLY wake up about parenting. Don't threaten me by telling me one day, I will be parents and I will know what it takes to be parents. Being parents, they play such a huge role in developing lives of another human being on earth. Please don't leave bad spots in the children life.

bird123, I can feel your positive attitude towards life which is great. You can be an angel in saving the life of toxic children. :)

hi sunshineme, Your father is a toxic father. I'm sorry if I have said this and be hurtful to you. For 23 years, you're not talking to him until finally he is promising you that he will change himself and learn to love and protect the family. If your father said that to you and meant himself really wanting to change, I have to agree with you, this is the best promise in your world. If he doesn't chance, do not get upset. Because of him, you have succeeded to be somebody in your job. :) Good luck in your endeavours!

HI jennbart, TRUE, toxis parents make toxic children. Can we put a stop to this? Can outside people help to change this children's life? Can we chip in their toxic family and stop this nuisance? It upsets me when we know the toxic parents gave "TOXIC" to the children ! Are we going to just mind our on business attitude? OR should we show concern to the couple??

Ichiru101, WHERE IS THE LOVE in your family?? Ask your parents this, "are you trying to motivate sister by calling her pig, stupid, fat, ugly?" second question: "do you like yourself to be called stupid, pig, fat and ugly??"

Hi jillhill, Your daughter and son in-law should opt for divorce is they keep fighting and verbally abusive in front of their young daughter. As a mother yourself, if you know that your daughter's relationship is not working anymore, you should be frank to tell her to go for divorce. I know this is tough for a mother to give out this kind of advice. But what if this fighting is continuous with no ending? what kind of fate your grand daughter going to have? Sometimes, in this kind of situation, I have to be frank with you, your grand daughter is the victim. she will not have a happy childhood nor a happy marriage in future. Her parent's fightings will be her nightmare forever. Unless, ur daughter and her husband promise to reconcile and change their attitude. If money is the main cause of the broken marriage, sorry to say, they have to work this out. Ask both to be hard working. spend more time making more money. If your daughter is too demanding, OR the husband is a lazy type, sorry to say, this arguement will be on going. no conclusion in the end. Divorce is still the best option. Good luck