First Moves

It is very rare that ladies make the first move, when she makes a first move I feel honoured and adore her with double affection even if she is unknown.

If a female is comfortable and feels that the move will be reciprocated I do not see a problem doing so. I would not call her cheap, especially if it further develops into a lasting relationship. Or maybe it won't be a lasting relationship, but if the guy always made the first move then can we consider that one to be cheap, I don't think so as long as their is comfort level and they feel that it will be reciprocated I do not see why not.

I am from india. Especially in my regions girls feels full shy to talk with boys. Boys also. Because it is fully village area. So here the culture and the situations are like that only. To talk with a classmate(if a boy wants to talk with girl) it is not possible, even they two are belongs to same village. If they try to talk with dare, all eyes on them only. It is not correct to see them like that. But the village situation is like that only.

I don't see anything wrong with the woman making the first move. It might be a little weird if you just met eachother or the relationship is new or something though. Yes, there is a double standard where guy might think the girl is "cheap." I'm a girl and I wouldn't like to make the first move because usually guys are expected to do that, and when they don't I feel like maqybe they don't want to, or arent ready, so I wouldn't want to make them uncomfortable./ Now that I'm in a serious relationship I know my boyfriend likes it when I make the first move.

In the moment, I just go with it. But I will want to talk with her when we can be alone!

all i can say is "kudos" to the women who have the confidence of doing this.i have done this due to a "dare" and it was funny and fun except that it is not something that i would really do since it is not my cup of tea; nor do i feel the need to do this.also, i like being the one chased after.lol

I think that nothing is wrong with it for women to do this kinda thing. When emotions are there, I think that it affects the male as well the female. We go for what we want. This has been the mentality of men and I think that girls also has this, the difference is men at times hesitates to do the first move and as for the other, even she also feels the same tends to wait so nothing really happens. I think that this is the case because of the stereotype between genders. Culture wise, some would prefer the men to do it than the women so if women does it the other way around, they tend to be judged as someone who is unacceptable. We do all sorts of things when in a relationship so why not do it before the relationship starts? We are here to express our emotions and I see nothing to be ashamed for doing it no matter what the situation is.