Love is so complicated.......
@LetranKnight25 (33121)
Philippines
February 21, 2011 1:17am CST
Hello Lotters,
I am still single so probably i can tell my views on this one, before i fall in love and start acting blindly like the others, which is true to those who are in love out there.
It's indeed complicated, you got what you're heart goes. even at some when you know it's wrong. some people tend to try to be smart and have scrutiny either over a man or a women assuring that love is supported both financially and mentally..Since when the hell other matters Mattered? when love is there already? yeah, that's right..complicated.
Sometimes, and i mean sometimes, i feel that I never should have had emotions so that it won't get in my way of achieving what i want to achieve and become a better person with out the burden of managing you're emotions.most specially Love related.
Love is still the most weird thing that has ever happened in human society.
Yet I wonder, is there anything else that keeps us going besides Love and HATE
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13 responses
@eurekafemme (5877)
• Philippines
21 Feb 11
Hi, Knight.Post V-day topic, ei.
Love is complicated? I don't think so, it is we, humans who make love complicated.
Love is so simple. It only serves one purpose to the giver, that is to inspire and it only gives one thing to the receiver, that is to bring out the best.
But because of greed, discontent and lust, pride, everything that has something to do with selfish interest, it has become very complicated, painful and miserable...
It is like any other emotions like hatred, sadness, etc, it is also fleeting.For a moment, it was there. The next time you knew, it was gone and it is never coming back...
@amirev777 (4117)
• India
21 Feb 11
Hi
I agree with you that, that one really becomes mad when he falls in love, hence the phrase,"to madly fall in love". Also there is another phrase which says "Love is blind". So people become blind when they fall in love.. I am just joking - love is after all an emotion and it depends on how you control it
@VisonTech (258)
• United States
21 Feb 11
I don't even know if I have ever been in love? I think I have sometimes but I don't really know. As far as achieving things without being held down to a relationship. I think its a lot easier to do what you want when you don't have to think about another person and their feelings.
@Ichiru101 (284)
• United States
23 Feb 11
Love is only complicated if you make it out to be. Sometimes I do not get why someone wants to start something new even though still having feeling for there ex. It is not fair to there new lovers, but people when heart broken want to get amend.
@maean_19 (4655)
• Philippines
21 Feb 11
Hi there LK!
Hmmm! I think it isn't Love or about love that is complicated. It is us involved in love that makes it complicated. I think, we create the complications and it is not love. We love someone even the situation makes the relationship complicated. We enter into the complication, not because we love the person.
@rsa101 (38117)
• Philippines
21 Feb 11
Well I guess love is an important ingredient for us to live sanely in this world. But for some, they mistook it as it creates more havoc in their lives that be the one that feeds them to live and strive to be better. I think when it comes we become addicted and this addiction is the one that makes love in the bad light. When falling in love do not go crazy but enjoy the feeling but always be in control with your mental state. I think it is one of the strongest emotional feeling that if not handled properly it could literally make you crazy.
But if handled the proper way could be lasting and makes your life worth living. So I suggest never to close your door to love. In fact, you have to welcome him and nurture it the best way you can so it stays there for good. Love is never to be refused but welcomed.
@toniganzon (72281)
• Philippines
21 Feb 11
Love is the most complicated emotion i had ever felt. It's unexplainable and difficult to decipher or fathom. When we are in love with someone it's difficult to explain why we felt that way. So it's really complicated because sometimes even though we tried to be rational it's impossible when you are in love!
Sometimes i want to curse it when i feel pain because of love!
@visavis (5934)
• Philippines
21 Feb 11
Love for me is not most weir thing as you mentioned ever happened in one person instead it is a fulfillment of what you really felt. However, it is become hate if somebody considered love is complicated or a person is fear to love because he/she think your not yet ready. How did you know something if you did not trying it. go on and believe that you can do it... Am I over in what I said? see you around
@hlgmdt (300)
• Philippines
21 Feb 11
I guess there are other things that keep us going. In psychology, it is said that there are various kinds of motivations for our actions. Our needs, for instance, keep us going. They keep us behaving in the way we do. Some of our needs include need for achievement, superiority, affection, belongingness, and love. Love is probably the most controversial and the most talked-about emotion in the human world. I think it is both a psychological and social need. We have the inner desire to love and to be loved. Our society emphasizes getting married or having a family as a manifestation of one's capacity to love.
Like you, I'm a single. When I was a lot younger, it was my choice not to entertain the chances of falling in love. I had my priorities set straight. I thought of love as something that changes a person; something that could make a person weak. However, as an individual gets older, changes do happen. There are times that I feel the longing to be loved and to love, in a romantic sense. However, I am happy with being single. I have all the freedom to take any course of action and decision without having to worry about another person.
@sexyice (873)
• Latvia
21 Feb 11
Love is stronger feelings,who we can feel for another people.
And yes, the love of hate are only one step. Love is freedom. Only in fairy-tales, love is forever.. :D
Should not think only of hate,should take a pink glasses and love :)
LetranKnight25 you have chosen your love?