You're ready to become a mother or father to your child
By rifnee
@rifnee (1713)
Indonesia
February 21, 2011 10:36am CST
With all the attitude and nature that you have, you're ready to become a mother or father to your child?
For those of you who are not married,
No matter how old you are ..
No matter how are you.
Just imagine, with all its properties as well as positive and negative attitudes that you have today, right now, yes now when answering this question, Are you ready if you become a parent who has children?
If you wait for next year, 2 years later, 3 years later, maybe your attitude and your character has changed, whether it be the better or the worse, but, once again I ask ..
If now, with all the characters that you have (without considering the financial condition) Are you ready to become a mother or father to your child?
Suppose you have an established, only attitude and your character alone, ready or not?
Hopefully can be understood.
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12 responses
@mermaidivy (15394)
• United States
21 Feb 11
I didn't think I was prepared yet when I knew we were pregnant with my son. I was worried a bout a lot of things. But it turned out I know how to take care of my baby fine. Now I need to learn how to teach them well when they get bigger.
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@gengeni (3308)
• Indonesia
21 Feb 11
Being a parent, is something that certainly we are facing. no one who does not want a good family in the future. All people, regardless of ability to financially, nature, character, etc.. Must be able to keep a family well.
In my opinion, this is not about ready or not.
This question, like it or not.
Everyone would not be ready if asked, just as it was. Because he thought from many angles. A child who can not ride a bike, if he learned to ride a bike, of course he can. Because he had no intention, and willing to learn. Want to get hurt, and want to think.
Ready to implement but do not want to do,
would certainly be useless to science which he has.
But if he wanted to, but not yet ready, it's not a problem.
Ready to not ready, we are all bound to have a family.
My question,
Will you?
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@sunshynn (17)
• Philippines
22 Feb 11
Before, I thought I was not ready but when my baby came, I felt like I should have had him a long time ago.Yes, you are right that years and experience makes us a better person each day and that parents should be capable of raising their kids. Yet, when you hold your child, it doesn't matter anymore when you love him and you try to do what you can everyday.
@shia88 (4571)
• Malaysia
22 Feb 11
HI,
Being a parent is another new stage and pretty chalengging status.
It is not easy to be a parents,especially at young ages.
Need alot of patience and everything in life will change once
you have stepped into motherhood/fatherhood.
You will have less freedom and less time on your own. Most of the
time will be for your kids.
Before plan to have any kids, it is good to have good financial status and
really get yourself ready for it.
@kendedes2011 (2712)
• Indonesia
23 Feb 11
Not ready.
Because of my nature just can say it is too childish ... so, with properties like that, it was not ready if need to educate a child.
@najibdina29 (1309)
• Indonesia
22 Feb 11
Asked if ready not ready for the average answer is definitely not ready, but until when we are not ready? I think life should be faced with obstacles obstacles happiness etc..
@dreamnishu (1247)
• China
22 Feb 11
hello friend!
i want to be a mother of my child.i like child so much.it is a great feelings i can not tell you how beautiful it is.it is a dream of everyone.but right now i think i am not able to be a parent.because i am a student and have to do many thing in my life,i can understand your point because i am also a girl.it is a great gift from ALLAH to be a parent.
thanks a lot.
@globaldoc (858)
• Philippines
21 Feb 11
As time passes, our maturity should grow. It is not right for us to grow older without becoming wiser. Therefore, marriage should come at a time when one is fully matured, then things will fall into the right places.
@staria (2780)
• Philippines
22 Feb 11
First of all, ready or not if it is already there or given to you by God, all you have to do is accept and trust. If you really love your baby, there's no other way but to "be ready". Being a parent brings great responsibility. Not just in terms of provision, but in contributing to the well-being of your child. In time, you will soon learn everything about parenting, it is a learning process. No book can teach us how to become a good parent, we only learn through experiences.
@hemlockspruce25 (501)
• Philippines
22 Feb 11
Yes, I am proud to say that after a year I am ready to become a parent.. It is not something that has to be studied. You will learn to become a parent while you are in the course of doing it. If there are flaws in the way you are raised you may try to modify your ways for your chldren...
@cagdasgun (28)
• Turkey
22 Feb 11
I think responsible is more important that we have to face. If you are ready so you can be a mother or father.
Become a child is more diffucult to be a father or mother.
