I fell for her....What to do?
By mathikyu
@mathikyu (46)
Malaysia
February 21, 2011 7:09pm CST
I know that if we got into a relationship , things likely wouldn't work out every time, but don't know if I'm making a serious mistake by letting her go. She is on my mind constantly. From waking up to going to bed. I know that I will missing her a lot. I became attach to her. The problem is that our family and friends are extremely close and if things went bad between us it could erupt into problem. Appreciate any advice?
9 responses
@alindobre (148)
• Romania
22 Feb 11
You are a mature being, are you not? Talk to the woman. Tell her how you feel and find a solution together.
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@mythociate (21432)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
22 Feb 11
Get over yourself! I know it's hard (as you're there no matter what you do), but you've got to remember that YOU'RE NOT IN IT FOR "YOU." Just do 'everything you do' for her (or I should say 'for Goodness' sake,' making sure that she can too), and maybe she will see that.
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@amar_sandy1987 (1876)
• India
22 Feb 11
keep you mind cool and try to figure out what is the problen and try to solve the problem as you can sit aand discuss the problem and make it clear dont let her go easily when you love her so much from your heart!!!
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@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
22 Feb 11
Maybe with a little time you will feel like you just have to be with her above the family disputes. Since she is on your mind but the family issues are interfering the probability of a relationship then give it a couple days, then see how you feel and determine if she means more then the issues.
Best of luck, as we all deserve love. 
@globaldoc (858)
• Philippines
25 Mar 11
I think everything has to come in moderation. You just have to watch out that the thing you call love does not turn into obsession. I suggest you check yourself, and make a decision if you sill still work out. But be willing to let go if you see disaster up ahead.
@Rtlsnk316 (1197)
• Mexico
22 Feb 11
I do not understand if you are dating this person already or if you are already dating her and what you're saying is that you'll let her go.
Whatever it's happening, just be mature enough to talk to this person, let her know how you feel and if you end up in a relationship, why would you think negatively and think that things will go wrong in the future?
The problem is that you worry too much, whatever happens or before it may happen, just communicate, to the person, to your family, etc. and be calm by expressing yourself and relieved.
@dainy1313 (2370)
• Leon, Mexico
25 Feb 11
Hello Mathikyu... it seems that you are inlove!! It´s not easy at all talking about love. If you think you can felt inlove for almost anyone... so ... let her go... If you feel that she is and ever will be your great love... so... look at her... Blessings!... Dainy
@areshstarfreak (238)
• Philippines
22 Feb 11
I believe you should express your true feelings or else you might regret it in the future because she is already in the arms of another man. Do not worry much about the problem that might occur. Problems are definitely inevitable whether how close your relationship with others is. Just reveal your feelings and do your best to make it work for the both of you.
