Living in a FINDERS KEEPERS world
By Theresaaiza
@Theresaaiza (10487)
Australia
February 22, 2011 2:40am CST
Just recently I lost my phone to a thief. Partly my fault because I was so absentminded and left my phone on the table of a fastfood center. My brother went back to find it but it was too late. The guard or the crew saw nothing.
I called my number and actually kept in touch with the person who took it but it was no longer interested in giving it back.
And so I realized it is a FINDERS KEEPERS world after all especially here in PI. If you dropped your food off the table, a dog is sure to munch on it.
Have you tried keeping something just because you found it? OR bought something from a source which you are sure off to be getting its stocks from stolen goods? It's rampant here in PI and that's why crimes like these flourish because of the people who patronize.
Before you buy stolen goods or from unreliable sources, think about this. A person must have died trying to protect his property or belongings. Sure you asked God for forgiveness before buying it but still you are one of the causes why people continue to steal and sell. Worse, it could happen to you.
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14 responses
@gloryacam (5540)
• Philippines
22 Feb 11
Buying stolen goods is actually a crime. It's called fencing. So, better not buy from shops that sell used cellphones because there is a big possibility those phones were stolen. I'm sorry to hear about your loss.
@Theresaaiza (10487)
• Australia
22 Feb 11
Thanks.
And yes, I agree.
Aside from all those reasons, used cellphones do not guarantee quality. You actually do not get your money's worth. That is why I am not surprised that some of those phones don't even offer warranties because they are sure that their products won't last long.
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@LetranKnight25 (33121)
• Philippines
22 Feb 11
That's true, it's better not to buy Mobile Phones from Shops that considered suspicious. besides, you never know if parts of the cell phone are still original or simply different from the last time it was originally bought. i actually bought an old phone worth ten dollars,and i realized this isn't new and i was freaking victim about it. never buy stolen good.s
@zweeb82 (5653)
• Malaysia
22 Feb 11
So I have learnt a new word today, slangs are very interesting. So the fencing fencers didn't realize that the fencing equipment they're using are the a fancy work of a fencing group, how about that? Haha!~
@zweeb82 (5653)
• Malaysia
22 Feb 11
I really despise dishonesty & like you put it - what goes around comes around, whatever a man sows, so will he reap. I don't support stolen goods, I'll never buy such goods if I know they come from an illegal source. I always return stuff I've found to their rightful owners if I can or I'll turn them in to the authorities. But sad to say, even the authorities nowadays are not THAT clean after all but that, they are accountable for
@Theresaaiza (10487)
• Australia
23 Feb 11
SEE? That is exactly my point. There's no one to trust anymore!!!!!!
And because of that, I should all encourage people to do the right thing from now on even if the rest of the world don't. Who knows, the goodness you do, comes back to you and radiates outward to reach more people.
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@Theresaaiza (10487)
• Australia
27 Feb 11
And took one stolen cellphone for me to realize that in many ways, little or big, we can start making a difference.
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@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
22 Feb 11
I am sorry to hear that you lost your phone. It is really painful to lose personal belonging like cell phone, which contains all the important data. If I find a cell phone like it, I would like it to return to its owner. I do not feel like keeping something, which belongs to someone else. There are all kinds of people in this world and you cannot help eliminate thieves and selfish and greedy fellows. Where there are flowers, there are thorns too.
@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
27 Feb 11
We need to have the courage to bear the sting of thorns.
@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
27 Feb 11
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@Theresaaiza (10487)
• Australia
27 Feb 11
"Where there are flowers, there are thorns too. " That is right!
That is just so sad.
@Theresaaiza (10487)
• Australia
27 Feb 11
That is great to know.
I wasn't too fortunate though but it hurts less now. I accepted what happened. Besides, God was probably just teaching me about detaching myself from material things, OR valuing things that I have because it is a very awful feeling losing something.
@Lore2009 (7378)
• United States
22 Feb 11
Wow, that's interesting that you actually got a hold of the person and communicated with them! I don't think that would happen here. But no, if I ever found someone's obvious property like a phone or wallet, I would make sure to return it or deliver it to the police.
@Theresaaiza (10487)
• Australia
27 Feb 11
Returning a phone is much easier. One just had to search for probable important people in the phonebook and keep in touch with them. I would much rather find ways on my own than entrust it to the police.
Yes I communicated with the person but in the end, I gave up because IT simply just didn't cooperate. The last text I sent IT was to remove my sim card because it is such a pain that everytime I rang him, he was still using my number. It was like killing me. That number had been a part of me for almost 3 years.
@Vazman (7)
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22 Feb 11
I have to say sorry about the phone.
Also I work in my Fathers Newsagents. We get a lot of strangers coming in trying to sell stolen goods. Most of the time these goods are mobile phones, it must be a trend with theives.
Now most of these goods usually can be damaged or blocked by the network. So why would they sell them on. The only other way they can make money off them is if they sell them to the online mobile phone buyers. Suppose you could say it has it's own market!
Now a lot of these people have no morales to take or keep something that does not belong to you is known as a crime even hundereds of years ago!!!
@Theresaaiza (10487)
• Australia
27 Feb 11
I shop online only for brand new models because it is true that I find some second hand phones a little too suspicious.
@ratyz5 (7808)
• Philippines
18 Apr 11
I have been into this kind of situation a couple of times, on either side too.
Before, I lost my phone and definitely didn't get it back. I had some sort of hope though, yet it wasn't as promising as I wished it would be. Sad to say, an experience that I had to learn the hard way.
Then, during my PE class in the University, we found a phone in the locker room. My classmate and I tried to contact whoever it was that knew the owner, but after a few attempts of no answers, my classmate took out the SIM and threw it out. I was a bit disappointed. Then I suggested that we give the unit to another classmate who recently lost his phone from a hold-up. Our other classmate was shocked that we did that even though the semester just started.
Sometime last year, I went to those kiosks in malls where you can purchase second hand units and probably those that you have mentioned. I went there to look for an electronic dictionary. I knew that it might be stolen since electronic dictionaries are out of place items in that scene. They are only suppose to sell cellphones after all. However, there is a chance that the owner sold it to them. Anyway, I bought one for my colleague and she is still using it up to now.
Yes, this world has some weird way of how things work, but it's just how it goes. If we really want something to change, we should really start with ourselves.
@jdyrj777 (6530)
• United States
22 Feb 11
Something similar like this has happen to me many years ago. My daughter was using my phone because she didnt have one. It was either stolen or lost. She is not sure. I tried calling the number but nobody answered. I called and cancelled the service. So if anyone did steal it they would have to have their own service and would cost them as much as if they had to buy a phone. Soon after that she bought a phone and replaced mine too.
@Theresaaiza (10487)
• Australia
23 Feb 11
I went to the customer service center of my provider but unfortunately, there wasn't any way to cancel my sim unless there was an available sim which will use my old number. There wasn't any as of this time so I had to do with a new number and go inform the rest of the world of such change.
@Opal26 (17679)
• United States
22 Feb 11
Hi Theresaaiza! So nice to see you again! Sorry about your phone.
You actually had a conversation with the thief who took it?
And they actually had the nerve to tell you that they won't
give it back? That is really unbelievable and cruel! Even here
in the US when someone finds a phone they're not stupid enough
to answer it! The change the SIM or sell it (trade it in). I
hate to say it, but there are many miserable people in the world
who have no consciences and don't give a damn about anyone!
It happens all the time all over the world!
@Theresaaiza (10487)
• Australia
23 Feb 11
Hi Opal, it is even nicer to still see you here. I really miss this place so I always try to visit as often as I can.
This thief was very unique actually. Aside from explicitly claiming the phone, IT even asked me if was it okay to give me back the sim card and not the phone!!!!
I just didn't know how to respond. So I told IT to just go ahead and keep everything. That way, when ITS karma comes, it gets to have it all to ITSELF!
I had to use "IT". This person was hardly human.
@LetranKnight25 (33121)
• Philippines
22 Feb 11
Hello THeresaaiza,
In my point of view, you can be wrong too WHY? because i have experience occasions of people leaving their phones behind accidentally and I manage to bring it back to them. there was one time at a jeepney where a group of people accidentally left their cool mobile Phone unattended when they also drop by to a subdivision. I manage to get it and brought it back to them, they thank me and kept looking at me but i decided to walk instead of riding a shuttle service.
You're wrong because am not one of those Finders keepers, there are some still good people in this country. I was able to brought back a wallet too before this and it was years ago.
but You are also right because my mom experience loosing a mobile phone from a tricycle driver, if my mom had the guts she should been aggressive to have it back. then, my brother found a phone and he never brought it back, threw away the sim, which i hated him for.
that reminds me, i need to have my old phone fix so that i can bring this one instead of the Myphone that i kept bringing.
@Theresaaiza (10487)
• Australia
23 Feb 11
Hi LK, I wish more and more people were like you. Although I have never really been in a situation like yours, I just know that I don't have the nerve to keep something which isn't mine.
Maybe in the past, I did, when I was a kid and adults didn't tell me the right thing to do. They probably even consented to it.
It is not our fault if we choose to carry around a luxurious phone with us. So? We can afford! It is not our fault if we left something behind because of absent mindedness. But it is ALWAYS the keeper's sin if he becomes greedy.
They only say that to feel less guilty for what they have done.
@sunshine37 (450)
• United States
22 Feb 11
I couldn't agree with you more. Personally, I do not keep things that are not mine, simply because of the old saying...treat people as you want to be treated. So, I wouldn't want someone keeping my stuff if they found it, I would like for them to turn it in, just as I would.
But you are so right, sadly enough, it is a FINDERS KEEPERS world. However, there are some still good people in the world, even the work release inmates.. like in my small community.
There was a van full of inmates that were on work release for the day, picking up trash on the side of the road. My sister had lost her wallet hours earlier, and she got a phone call saying that a inmate had picked up her wallet on the side of the road and did she want to come pick it up.
What had happened was someone had stole her wallet, got her credit cards and what small amount of cash she had, and had obviously thrown it out the window when done with the wallet. So the inmate pick it up and took it to the guard and told him that the person's street was only less than a 1/2 mile away from where they were at. So since my sisters number was in the wallet, the guard called my sister and explained what had happened.
So my sister went to pick it up and actually talked to the inmate that turned it in, and thanked him. She asked was there anything she could do for him and he said no, but she went to the store and bought them some cold drinks and brought it back to them. So they had a real treat that hot afternoon.
It just goes to show...sometimes you never know !
@Theresaaiza (10487)
• Australia
23 Feb 11
That keeps our hopes up, right?
Why don't people realize that there is always a wonderful feeling after doing something good?
I bet that inmate needed more in his life than just a cold drink from a a very grateful woman who retrieved her wallet, but I am sure life felt so right for him right that very moment.
@rameshchow (4426)
• India
23 Feb 11
Just one month back, my library sir had also lost his costly mobile.
But he lost that in my village. The villagers again submit that mobile in safe hands.
That is the greatness of my village.
I am from india. We are like here only.
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
23 Feb 11
Oh gosh yes and a cell phone at that, but a very new as I had gotten it the day before and the company bought it for me. $599.00 Blackberry at that. I too was at a restaurant and had it while inside as I emailed work with it while sitting there. Somewhere between the table and the door it was gone.
Yikes and I am a really responsible person. As I reached the door I said huh, where is my phone so gone. I did have insurance and paid the $50 deductible so lucked out on the whole price and letting them know at work but what happened to my phone is still a mystery as according to the waiter nothing was there.
Now it is attached to my like superglue as yes it was my fault and no possible way the waiter would not have seen it, I still kick myself to this date and this happened two years ago. It is unfortunate that we all live in this type of word.