breaking up is painful especially if you don't want it to end...
By anonymous_5
@anonymous_5 (16)
Philippines
February 22, 2011 7:41am CST
people do break ups in many kinds of reason... there are those people who does not want to have a relationship anymore simply just because they don't love that person anymore. some, says their relationship is not working anymore. other reasons contains personal involvements, and some says they are not happy to be with that person.. however, in this case.. break ups are more painful if there is a family involvement as well as personal excuses. leaving a person that you really love is kind of breaking your heart into almost a powder just because for the sake of your family's happiness. these two lovers actually love each other that they even plan to marry each other after they graduate. the man sacrifices almost everything for his woman. he travels too far just to see her and spends almost all his allowances for the month. the same goes to the lady as she also do the same. she spends lot of money from her allowance just to be with him and gave him everything. the man on the other hand is doubtful but still loves her. as their relationship had this set up as i gave you a brief story of it. they are forced to break up and never see each other again even just to have a conversation just because of their families. the family of the woman does not like the guy as the guy's family does not like the girl. they don't want it to end but they have no other choice but to do this.
2 responses
@starsailover (7829)
• Mexico
22 Feb 11
Hi anonymous: Thanks for sharing with us this story. I don't agree with you. If they love each other so much they should fight for their feelings and what they have worked for these months. Family is important but both families should consider that the happiness of their sons is in risk just because they disapprove their relationship. I mean, we are in XXI century what my parents think is important for me but I have the final decition on my relationship and if I want to saty with someone I'll do it. However, about your question, it's really difficult to break up with someone that you love. It's very painful for both parts, specially for the one that has made most sacrifices for the sake of the relationship.
ALVARO
@anonymous_5 (16)
• Philippines
25 Feb 11
pls see breaking up is painful especially if you don't want it to end
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@SuzyLong (775)
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22 Feb 11
I wouldn't break up with anyone I truely love for anyone else. My husband's family didn't like me much at first but because I stuck around and showed them that they weren't going to break us up, they now like me and treat me quite respectfully. If this couple really did love each other that much, nothing would have kept them apart.
