What do you choose?

I understand why you would like to share your problems with your friend. Sometimes it is a big help to discuss reationship problems with friends and sometimes it feels like a relief to share your thoughts with others instead of keeping it sll inside. On the other hand I think that you have to consider your husband's feelings and respect it when he doesn't want other people to know about your problems. In your situation I would probably respect my husband's wish and keep quiet about our problems even though I would like to confide in my friends.

I think if you share your problem or anything, you can share with your best friend or more trusted friend. When you maried you share the responsibilities of your life with your husband. So sometimes he doesn't want to share your problems or anything with other people.

Hi fchalida, Sure. You need to share your things with the like minded ones lest the person should tell it to some others and you are in a mess. It feels your husband is quite dominant kind of person. He would not easily let you free. Just think "Am I an object? Do not have I my mind to see the difference between the right and the bad? and try to apply them on him in an indirect method. Remember his dos and do nots are for his own benefits. I am sorry if I am instigating you to revolt against your hubby.

When you are single, you can share what you want with the world. It is a choice that only concerns you and what you want to divulege. When you marry or are in a relationship with someone else, you then have their feelings to consider too. Something they may not want shared could be something you would give away without thinking of how it would affect them.

if it is the problem between you and your husband and you don't know what to do.if there is no solution to the problem. you can share it with the friend that you really trust. the one that give you advice and not the one that will tell your problems to others. i understand your husband's feeling about that, he does not want other people to get engage in your problems.