what should I do?
By goingon
@goingon (21)
Thailand
February 22, 2011 11:31am CST
I lent money to someone,but now I just found that fXXking guy intended to requdiate my debt from the beginning. He blocked me from the internet and he changed his phone number.
I was trusted him,he used to be my friend.
I want to call the police,but I didnot ask for the receipt that means I have no evidence to show them that he own me the money.
Im so upset and have no idea, I need help.
2 responses
@QeeGood (1213)
• Sweden
22 Feb 11
If your friend, who you lent money to, have a normal common sense he will probably get a bad conscience and feel guilty over time.
I think you will have a favorable chance to get your money back by being friendly and show up a good postive attitude when talking or meeting your friend.
Some say, swallow the sour lemon and make lemonade sharing it with your friends who owes you. It will give them to have bad nagging conscience that will in their subconscious make them to pay back what they owe the people who they borrowed from over time. So load up with a lot of patience and have a friendly positive approach to everyone who owes you.
@goingon (21)
• Thailand
24 Feb 11
Now I was wondering do you still believe in people? I fonud it's hard to trust anyone else.I don't want to close to them and I don't want they get close to me either. I can tell my secrets with anyone I don't know in the internet but not some one around me.
@whatrow (792)
• United States
20 Jun 11
I can understand your anger. I also loaned a large sum of money to help someone in need. I didn't even know her. We made an agreement in writing that she would pay a certain amount each month. It started fine, but after a few months, she couldn't make the full payment. Speaking to her didn't help. When I threatened legal action, she skipped town and changed her name. She is so well hidden that even the professionals can't come up with an address on her.
