torn between two lovers..who will you choose?

I had never felt real love, until I met my wife...and for the first time....I knew what real love is.

Thank you. mairn2008....... Oftentimes. the mind conflicts with the heart...when there is confusion and uncertainty in one's emotions, it's the mind trying to over-rule the heart...the heart says no but the mind says otherwise. You don't find love, it finds you..and usually when you're not expecting it. When you see someone, and your soul jumps for joy, the mind will submit to the heart...no confusion, for the heart knows. To receive love, you must be willing to give love. You used phones, I will use a bank account.. To open a bank account, you must first put money into it. If you draw from the account and never put money back into it, the money runs out and you can become over-drawn. If you keep putting money into it, yet never use it..you don't receive the benefit of what you put into it...but if you deposit and withdraw...the account never closes and you enjoy your efforts. I hope you find what your heart is looking for, and as long as you keep your heart open...it will find you. I wish you the best!!!!!!!

it's so sweet. i love what you said. i'm sure you love your wife so much. i'm happy for both of you! :) good to know that you finally met the person destined for you..to those who still don't find the love of their life, then it's a process they have to take...a process of getting to know the person and eventually, the heart will find its way home...

i like what you have just said...love is like a game.. you will never know if you will win or not, unless you won't give a try! ;)

Good. So just give the guy a try because he might end up being the one.

definitely! but of course not everyone has the same opinion with yours. others are afraid already because they came from a failure relationship. just like in my case. but of course it would be hard during the early stage only, but after your heart learn to trust again, then everything good follows..

thank you lady!you are right! seldom it will happen that we fall for two people at the same time. i have also friends who have experienced that. we cannot judge them because i believe we cannot dictate our heart, it has its own mind. but i believe that our mind can dictate of what is good or bad. so in that case, all we have to do is to listen to our mind because we cannot love two person at a time because in the end, it will just make us cry and regret everything..:)

you're right nj! there's always a risk upon entering into a relationship and i agree about what you said, choose the booth wherein no one is using. just like in loving. we have to love a person who has no commitments yet, because we can never be fully happy knowing that we are hurting others' feelings..love right..:)

thank you for your comment! :) whatever you choose, be it the right or the left booth, there's no problem with that. it's your choice. for as long as you believe in your heart that it can make you happy, then go...:) after all, it's our happiness that matters most...as long as we are not hurting others..:)

thanks ichiru! there are really different answers with regards to this discussion. who am i to judge your answer? you have the point and i respect your decision. you want to take chances and that is good, because who knows, it will pay off at the end of the day, right? :)

oh yah you're right! :) i'm speechless..:)

thanks yunla! :) love is like a multiple choice question.. sometimes it's the choices that confuses us and not the question itself..

yes that's also true! after all, no one can question you if you follow what your heart says because you are the one who will be with the person and not the other people. for as long as you're happy with the man you are with, then go, fight,win..:)

thanks penrockerchic! it made me smile reading your comment because of all the person who commented in this discussion, you alone i think has the different answer..most of them would choose for the right booth. but in your case, you're choosing the opposite booth and you have the point there. there's nothing wrong also in waiting because who knows it would be worth the wait in the end, right? so that's correct! and also it is important that we have to move on if we see that there's no point in waiting. you have a good idea! :)

thanks ceekay! i like your attitude when it comes to love..because i think you're a risk taker! and that is good! :) you have to follow what your heart says..after all, love is a gamble, a risk that we have to take for us to see in the end if it's worth everything..

thank you mizz! :) it made me smile upon reading all the different comments in this discussion. indeed, people have really different opinions especially when it comes to loving someone. whether it's the right or the left booth, it's ok..as long as we are happy with our decision..:)