No Virgin left in this world
By LordOzz
@LordOzz (204)
Philippines
February 22, 2011 11:19pm CST
Are you aware that the number of virgins left in the world is decreasing and decreasing time-to-time before actually being married.
What would you feel if you would only know that your spouse is already de-virginated before the actual honey-moon? Are you prepared? Have you already accepted that there is almost no chance to have a partner whose still a virgin before marriage?
Well for me I would say that it is okay. I already accepted that. Virginity won't really matters if you truly love your partner. Past will be left in the past. and continuing life with a wider perspective is more efficient way of living.
Having a parter who's still a "V" is a bonus thing to have, for me atleast.
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12 responses
@kingparker (9673)
• United States
24 Feb 11
I guess you are right. I am not a virgin myself, so I won't expect too much from my partner either. Be who you are, and if you love that someone in your life, you would accept his/her past too right? What is the matter with that. So, it shouldn't be an obstacle to your relationship though.
@LordOzz (204)
• Philippines
24 Feb 11
I agree with that. That is what I am really pointing to. Preserving your Virginity is a really difficult thing to do. and if ever your partner would tell you that she/he really did preserve his/her virginity until that day you'll get married well, I guess you should really appreciate it somehow. But yet if not i'll quote yours "it shouldn't be an obstacle to your relationship though."
@thanks1961 (7035)
• India
23 Feb 11
You may be correct and the ratio is deteriorating. True. But we cannot consider all are alike. There are still people consider they want to be V till they get married. There are so many reasons for the same. Girls who come from typical family backgrounds, those who scared of s*x before marriage, girls who really don't want to engage in s*x before marriage are comes in that range and there are unspecified category also.
Those who consider s*x as the primary one may come in this group. I don't think we need to give importance to it. But if we do not observe such things in the future, the children in future may not know who would be the father!!
The culture and our civilization is getting modernized and I think losing of V is also considered as a fashion and in later stage, no body will care of it.
@xfahctor (14118)
• Lancaster, New Hampshire
23 Feb 11
Good thing new ones are born every day....
I have been married twice and neither were virgins when we married. Now I just have a long term girlfriend who I don't really live with but we spend enough time at each other's places enough so we might as well live together.
Maybe it's just a cultural thing but it really isn't a big deal 9or an issue at all for that matter) where I live.
@LordOzz (204)
• Philippines
23 Feb 11
That is what I also pointing out. It really doesn't matter if my partner won't be a Virgin anymore. The plus factor that I was saying is the chastity or the fact that preserving Virginity is really hard with this kind of lifestyle we have now. But still we have so many different culture and ofcourse religion.
@LordOzz (204)
• Philippines
24 Feb 11
That's a crazy thing to call "not cool" specially if your a women. You see Virgin girls can be a non-V anytime she wants. but a non-V girls can never be a virgin anymore. We for me Virginity is a very hard thing to treasure. Giving up your virginity is a very nice way of showing your pureness to your life time partner.
@kh_rabbe (195)
• Bangladesh
23 Feb 11
Its really a good topic to talk. Its really a true that maximum no of girls are destroying their virginity before their marriage. One status shows that American 90% girl have destroy their virginity within age of 14-18. And now-a-days its spreading all over the world. ITS REALLY NEED TO BE LUCKY TO HAVE A VIRGIN LIFE PARTNER NOW...
@consejorogelio (82)
• Mexico
23 Feb 11
Why is it so good that she is virgin?
If it is so important, you just have to walk up to girls that you like and ask them: "excuse me, I am looking for a virgin life partner. Are you virgin?"
You learned something that you have never questioned...
@ckciasigurl (2081)
• Italy
17 May 11
maybe you are right that many teen agers are not virgin any more but i assured u that the one whom im merry is lucky because i am stil a "V"
@sincere4frdship (2228)
• India
24 Feb 11
Nice discussion topic to take some time from every body to think for it...
Yeah it's really true but doesnt matter today...world has been changed so much and relations too..
Now these a girl can expect virginity from a boy but a guy can't...he he
But dont take it personal (I am telling it to my frinds who is girl here).
Thanks...
@sunshineme (21)
• China
23 Feb 11
(?o?)…To me ,I consider the virgin as the most precious gift to my partner .So I won't pass the boundary before I'm sure he is the one.~~Just a conservative girl's opinion.
@evsamaghanoy (67)
• Philippines
23 Feb 11
i am so lucky in this world that i got married with heads up showing that i am virgin when my husband married me. i am also proud to say that my husband is also a virgin. hahaha. unlike nowadays that almost people in this world are liberated. most people are forget the proper values and virtue in life which are supposedly the right thing to do. now, everything is neglected even a little things. preserving dignity is equivalent of having respect to the parents who taking care of us when we are still young.
@asiamooner (418)
• Philippines
24 Feb 11
nice to find a virgin partner...good to forgive when you've know that partner is not...leave the past behind and aim for the best things that life can offer to both of you...
@mairn2008 (76)
• Philippines
23 Feb 11
i like what you said that you won't judge your girl or wife to be based on her virginity! that's nice! that's what love is! what else can i say? i'm speechless..all in all i like your outlook......:)
@chetan8dir (1)
• India
23 Feb 11
well, to be frank it is not important in now days that u are virgins or not because we need to have a faith n trust in our partner to get the love from them n to have love with them , if u r not virgin then its not a problem for u if u have been in true love so it doesn't matter at all n if u r virgin then its a good for the person that in love with u are n for u also because it is a best gift that u can give the person that u love so much n u are going to share it with him/her, u can got the most valuable thing in your life n u can have it at the right time n with the right person with whom u are going to spend your whole life......
